ari3sfire joined March 10, 2012
female from Mars,
More Athena than Aries.
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I don't like bullies.
Winning, everyday.
ready for the next chapter...
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It's not a thing i'm proud of, but after I was cheated on, something snapped inside of me. I wasn't the same and it was reflected in relationships afterwards.
Meaning I was more likely to cheat at the first sign of trouble, separating loyalty from fidelity. Instead of working things out, i'd prefer to just move on. I tried to remain single, mostly to minimize the damage to others while I worked on myself.
But when I found someone who really "got" me, on every level, i never had the urge to cheat - even though I had the freedom.
Posted by ReincarnationPosted by ScorpioFish
Hey asshole, you shipped your woman off to Europe alone?
I lived over there for four great years, and can tell you something (among many things).
You are an IDIOT to have not gone to Europe with her.
Glad you could make it to my thread, ScorpioFish.
Yeah - I know. I had to stay for personal reasons.
We don't live together and there's no ring on her finger yet. She's always wanted to do a trip to Europe. (Must be that Jupiter influence that Pisces has.)
Nonetheless, I should've told her "no."click to expand
Some observations:
First, whom are you to tell her "no, she can't go to Europe?"
Secondly, there is a thin line between intuition and paranoia. However, I think your intuition rings true.
Thirdly, you are not truly ready for the relationship you think you are with her. And neither is she.
Her clingyness didn't bother you because it gave you power. That feels good.
You both have growing up to do. I, and everyone else here, look forward to hearing how your conversation with her goes.
I'm with Este8 & LadyOfRebirth - Leo man are soooo much fun! Charming and know how to take care of a lady!
When it comes to females, Sag all the way!
When it comes to females, Sag all the way!
Posted by ScorpioFish
Listen to me very, very carefully.
It is not every day that you meet a decent human being that you truly connect with.
For me, my average is about every 4-5 years do I meet a woman that I simply feel a deep connection to.
Most girls I meet are very ignorant, vacuous, stupid and selfish.
But rarely, and I mean RARELY, does one meet a solid human being with genuine depth, beauty and intelligence who IS NOT FULL OF HERSELF.
Be cautious not to throw away decent human beings, because they are about as rare as diamonds in the coal mine.
Thank you for posting this. I needed to read that today. Due to distance, I've been taking someone for granted. This is very grounding.
I am dating a Libra. It is long distance, which I typically don't do, but he prodded me into it. (charm)
I have a very busy work schedule, and I'm also working on completing an advanced degree. There are times I simply cannot or to be perfectly honest I choose not to be in contact with him because I'm working on something.
He goes nutzo. And instead of communicating to be "hey, i really want/need to talk to you" he writes (and i'm paraphrasing here) "i know you see my fb messages, and you're ignoring me so why don't we go back to being friends."
His facebook message before that read, Hey if you're not busy contact me."
Well, i was busy so i was not going to contact him until I feel ready.
My point is are Libras prone to drama and theatrics like this -like regularly??!
I told him I'm sorry for not letting him know I was working on a deadline to get a paper in, but jumping to whatever conclusion he has isn't cool. It's the second time, he's issued the "breakup" ultimatum in as many months, and honestly, i don't like be held emotionally hostage like this.
I'm trying to assuage his fears and soothe him, but I feel my emotions starting to change because of his insecurity/jealousy. I like him alot, but I'm not going to be walking on eggshell while I live my life! He was cheated on before, so he has that wound to contend with. Personally, I never issue an ultimatum unless i'm prepared for things not to go my way. So I rarely do. I try to talk it out at least first.
/vent sorry. Any advice? I care enough to want this to work and i plan on telling him how I feel shortly. If he answers his phone now!
Yep, Outdoor, athletic or competitive dates are good for Aries girls. Anything that can let their competitive side show. Even if it's witty banter.
Libra's flakiness may rival Aries'.
Also, when I see rockyroadicecream's picture, i think of a delicious floating marshmallow ram.
With bacon accents.
Libra's flakiness may rival Aries'.
Also, when I see rockyroadicecream's picture, i think of a delicious floating marshmallow ram.
With bacon accents.
I do not accept Kate Gosselin as an Aries. Give her back!
But seriously, Aries don't own the bullying trait. Everyone has it, so I think the premise of this thread is flawed to skew the results.
Being a woman who speaks her mind clearly & confidently - who won't back down can be seen as threatening to men. Being authoritative can make people say you're a witch but when a man does it in the same situation and words its called leadership.
But seriously, Aries don't own the bullying trait. Everyone has it, so I think the premise of this thread is flawed to skew the results.
Being a woman who speaks her mind clearly & confidently - who won't back down can be seen as threatening to men. Being authoritative can make people say you're a witch but when a man does it in the same situation and words its called leadership.
Miha, how about you just go ahead and read that thread you said you needed to start about getting rid of an Aries man instead of hijacking this thread and attacking Damnata....
Oh wait, you deleted it.
Oh wait, you deleted it.
Sorry to hear that guys. I don't know about you, but the last several years put a real damper on my fire. I feel like i'm just now recovering
Run away. Fast as you can.
April 9th: Trusted Excess.
What the what?
What the what?
Looking back at 2013: How did the year treat you?
I finally feel I'm shrugging off weight that was holding me back for *years.* Personally and professionally. I felt like some unseen cosmic force held me back while I was watching everyone else make progress.
It was incredibly frustrating, but in trying to look at the positive side of it:
I learned more about finishing things that I start (Sometimes you just have to power through it)
Taking care of myself through eating right and stabilizing my mood.
And all of the years of feeling held back helped me feel like a gained a bit more patience and planning.
I finally feel I'm shrugging off weight that was holding me back for *years.* Personally and professionally. I felt like some unseen cosmic force held me back while I was watching everyone else make progress.
It was incredibly frustrating, but in trying to look at the positive side of it:
I learned more about finishing things that I start (Sometimes you just have to power through it)
Taking care of myself through eating right and stabilizing my mood.
And all of the years of feeling held back helped me feel like a gained a bit more patience and planning.
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Libra
I am dating a Libra. It is long distance, which I typically don't do, but he prodded me into it. (charm) I have a very
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Aries
Looking back at 2013: How did the year treat you? I finally feel I'm shrugging off weight that was holding me back fo
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Aries
Most people view Aries as an immature sign, but lately i've noticed some Aries who seemed to be mature. Evolved Arians i
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Virgo
I'm curious if you guys have known any Virgos to cheat. I've always thought they epitomized loyalty and fidelity.
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Taurus
I need to get this out. My (May) Taurus ex texted me yesterday with the message, ari3sfire, when is the next time you'r
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