I just really don't know what to think. I met this great guy on a holiday at new years and we got along really well, spending most of our time together even though we both came with friends. His premade holiday plans involved going to a different place for a few days and then he met back up with me in my home town and took me out for dinner and spent the whole next day with me before he flew out. 3 weeks later he books me a ticket to his country for the weekend. we have a great time, he takes me out, shows me round, we dance and dine, but he leaves to go to work the next morning, i text him when i arrive back home but i don't hear anything back. I get really sad about it so decide to give up on him but then about 3 weeks later he texts me. he doesn't text that often but he has said he want to come back shortly to my hometown and spend the weekend with me. When we are together out in public he holds my hand, puts his arm around me, kisses me across the table.... but then he is so distant when we are not together I really don't know what to think. He has also just come out of a marriage. I guess i'm confused because if all he wanted was sex (the sex is AMAZING)- why would he bother flying me and him across each others countries? surely he can just get a booty call at home - he's a hot, successful guy. Am I just thinking WAY too much into this? please someone give me some insight cos it's doing my head in lol
I just really don't know what to think. I met this great guy on a holiday at new years and we got along really well, spending most of our time together even though we both came with friends. His premade holiday plans involved going to a different place for a few days and then he met back up with me in my home town and took me out for dinner and spent the whole next day with me before he flew out. 3 weeks later he books me a ticket to his country for the weekend. we have a great time, he takes me out, shows me round, we dance and dine, but he leaves to go to work the next morning, i text him when i arrive back home but i don't hear anything back. I get really sad about it so decide to give up on him but then about 3 weeks later he texts me. he doesn't text that often but he has said he want to come back shortly to my hometown and spend the weekend with me. When we are together out in public he holds my hand, puts his arm around me, kisses me across the table.... but then he is so distant when we are not together I really don't know what to think. He has also just come out of a marriage. I guess i'm confused because if all he wanted was sex (the sex is AMAZING)- why would he bother flying me and him across each others countries? surely he can just get a booty call at home - he's a hot, successful guy. Am I just thinking WAY too much into this? please someone give me some insight cos it's doing my head in lol