astrodood joined August 22, 2013
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I'll try your suggestion and see - I don't wanna make him think I don't care about him and then just give up. Reckon he'll come back tho? It's been a week now and he's not made any effort to contact. Except the msg I sent a fee days ago
it depends what u did to shut us out - I'm kinda seeing an aquarius atm and he's so inconsistent and hot and cold that it annoys me cause I'm very persistent and always there for him. He's even tried to make me jealous a few times, which does work, but makes me think - if u wanna play that game then seeya! and i can literally block them off and feel nothing for them by rationalising it by the fact of their actions to make me jealous and play me.
Im very very very patient, but theres a limit eventually And if i hit that limit, I'm done.
Im very very very patient, but theres a limit eventually And if i hit that limit, I'm done.
Hi everyone 
Im a bi guy who's been friends with an aqua guy for about 7 mths. He's gay, well not out and kinda i denial a bit to. We've gotten closer over the months and we have been intimate a few times. The first time we were intimate he became cranky and moody for a few weeks but i didn't know to back off and leave him alone so just ignored his distance and treated him normally. he eventually came out of it after 3 weeks. We get closer then he backs off for a bit but didn't go more then 2 or 3 days without checking in with me how i am etc. He can be a bit mean sometimes and pushy and lately I've been putting my foot down and not taking his butter. He seems to like that.
Anyway we got intimate before xmas then he went all distant and grumpy. deleting me from FB etc a few times then readding me. I didn't question it cause thought he was going thru something.
Anyway he went on holidays for 3 weeks then came back and started msging me and wanting to hang out and waking me up every day and stuff and really clingy and hot. that lasted 2 weeks. We were really bonding as friends and becoming very close He stayed over and i was hesitant about being intimate cause it seemed to always ruin the friendship and make him disappear. i told him this and he said that he would be fine. I said that if he turned nasty again I can't handle it and the friendship is over. He said he wouldn't be silly and al would be fine.
So we got intimate and it was more touchy feely and close than ever before, he stayed the night and then the next day he msged me once and then eventually he stopped sending msgs. Its been 6 days now and he hasn't initiated a convo. I haven't either as i kinda knew he'd do this but this is the longest he's ever gone without contacting me.
I did text him yesterday to ask how he was and ask him something and all i got was "who is this..."
I said me. All he replied with was "Oh."
I replied again asking how he was and he ignored me So i left it and assumed he wasn't in the mood to talk But it seems he has deleted my number from his phone yet kept me on FB. Why would he do that?
We work together so ill have to see him sometime this week but...we got on soooo well. Ive done so much for him over the last 7 months and we get on so well. Do you think he'll be back? Usually in the past he would have msgd me something rude or nasty when in distant mode but he hasn't even done that.
Any ideas would be great. He seemed quite
Im a bi guy who's been friends with an aqua guy for about 7 mths. He's gay, well not out and kinda i denial a bit to. We've gotten closer over the months and we have been intimate a few times. The first time we were intimate he became cranky and moody for a few weeks but i didn't know to back off and leave him alone so just ignored his distance and treated him normally. he eventually came out of it after 3 weeks. We get closer then he backs off for a bit but didn't go more then 2 or 3 days without checking in with me how i am etc. He can be a bit mean sometimes and pushy and lately I've been putting my foot down and not taking his butter. He seems to like that.
Anyway we got intimate before xmas then he went all distant and grumpy. deleting me from FB etc a few times then readding me. I didn't question it cause thought he was going thru something.
Anyway he went on holidays for 3 weeks then came back and started msging me and wanting to hang out and waking me up every day and stuff and really clingy and hot. that lasted 2 weeks. We were really bonding as friends and becoming very close He stayed over and i was hesitant about being intimate cause it seemed to always ruin the friendship and make him disappear. i told him this and he said that he would be fine. I said that if he turned nasty again I can't handle it and the friendship is over. He said he wouldn't be silly and al would be fine.
So we got intimate and it was more touchy feely and close than ever before, he stayed the night and then the next day he msged me once and then eventually he stopped sending msgs. Its been 6 days now and he hasn't initiated a convo. I haven't either as i kinda knew he'd do this but this is the longest he's ever gone without contacting me.
I did text him yesterday to ask how he was and ask him something and all i got was "who is this..."
I said me. All he replied with was "Oh."
I replied again asking how he was and he ignored me So i left it and assumed he wasn't in the mood to talk But it seems he has deleted my number from his phone yet kept me on FB. Why would he do that?
We work together so ill have to see him sometime this week but...we got on soooo well. Ive done so much for him over the last 7 months and we get on so well. Do you think he'll be back? Usually in the past he would have msgd me something rude or nasty when in distant mode but he hasn't even done that.
Any ideas would be great. He seemed quite
Thanks guys, it all makes perfect sense. I'll back off and let him do what he needs to do, he knows where I am if he needs me. I've been very patient and understanding but the more I'm there for him and nice to him and show i care the more he gets grumpy and upset. It's draining. Thanks again!
He's very possessive/ jealous...always wanting to know who im hanging out with and who's coming over and stuff. He's very blunt about it. I'm more worried as to why he'd unfriend me completely on fb....is it a test to see if I'll panic and want him back or could he just had enough of me
I can't be sure of anything but he was into all the gay stuff and even basically came out to me one evening and then denied it as we got closer....
I've been friendly with an aqua guy for 6 months now. He started chasing me (we r two guys). I'm out and he's in denial/bi. We have become intimate over the months but whenever we get close he backs off and gets grumpy and moody at me yet still wants to talk to me but basically he becomes an asshole to me. Really rough and angry. Then he'll have a great week of kindness then back to grumpy pants. He roundabout told me he liked me. He asked me and I said I liked him he was sweet for a day then became distant for two weeks and extra angry at me etc and grumpy. Also ended up seeing a girl in that period. He came back and we got closer again but still had his grumpy moody days towards me. Then last week he was sweet as and very attentive. Then the last day of the week he told me he needed to concentrate on work etc for awhile. I said no worries. I have 2 accounts on fb and he's on both. Next day he unfriend me on one account. All week he avoids/ignores but does contact me randomly to chat but he just ends up getting grumpy so we get nowhere. Now it's the end of the week and I post on fb that I'm out at a concert and he unfriended me completely. Cut me off. I haven't done anything nor annoyed him. I've given him space and let him come to me. We were getting so close now he's cut me off. :/ will he be back?
Have a best friend who is a Virgo and we are just on the same page with everything. Same humor etc. if we ever dated I know it's work perfectly. The Taurus calmness really eases a virgos nerves and the Virgo dotes on the Taurus.
Recently I've been surrounded by aquarius's (3 x friends, 1 x love interest). They seem to get attached to my Taurus nature without me doing anything. I find them awesome and so fun and different as I'm pretty picky myself. They are very hot and cold but I'm used to that and if u leave them be in their cold stage they love u heaps for it and come bouncing back and take u somewhere fun again! So aquarius's, although misunderstood, I think are awesome!
Recently I've been surrounded by aquarius's (3 x friends, 1 x love interest). They seem to get attached to my Taurus nature without me doing anything. I find them awesome and so fun and different as I'm pretty picky myself. They are very hot and cold but I'm used to that and if u leave them be in their cold stage they love u heaps for it and come bouncing back and take u somewhere fun again! So aquarius's, although misunderstood, I think are awesome!
Ahhh okay haha yer, reading back over it it did seem not very gender specific. Although my name is "astrodood" haha
@soultalk - think I'm a he still? *checks* yup, def a he haha
I know heaps of people have answered but thought I'd give my 2 cents.
I'm a Taurus sun, Gemini Venus whose interested In a aqua atm.
They initially chased me in the beginning as I'm quite cautious and picky of whine I like. I did like them from the start but don't like any drama or ppl with to much baggage.
Anyway I let them chase to the point where I could assess what they were like and make a decision if I'd like to make a connection. (Over a span of a month I'd say). I can act extremely no interested to someone I like but the difference is if I don't like u in that way my communication is very sporadic (maybe Venus in Gemini does that?). I get bored of ppl very quickly.
I started to chase this aqua eventually then they becOme aloof like I did so we swap roles and then they chase haha! They have tried to make me jealous once or twice and if that happens I get quite upset but in a quiet moody way but kinda think "stuff you for trying to make me jealous" and literally can move on and find someone else. To the point this aqua tried to make me so jealous that I just didn't speak to them for a day or two and went and looked at a dating site. Until they came back all sweet and I caved! Haha
Hope that helps I know I love emotions and feelings but CAN'T STAND people who don't get on with life and move forward.
I'm a Taurus sun, Gemini Venus whose interested In a aqua atm.
They initially chased me in the beginning as I'm quite cautious and picky of whine I like. I did like them from the start but don't like any drama or ppl with to much baggage.
Anyway I let them chase to the point where I could assess what they were like and make a decision if I'd like to make a connection. (Over a span of a month I'd say). I can act extremely no interested to someone I like but the difference is if I don't like u in that way my communication is very sporadic (maybe Venus in Gemini does that?). I get bored of ppl very quickly.
I started to chase this aqua eventually then they becOme aloof like I did so we swap roles and then they chase haha! They have tried to make me jealous once or twice and if that happens I get quite upset but in a quiet moody way but kinda think "stuff you for trying to make me jealous" and literally can move on and find someone else. To the point this aqua tried to make me so jealous that I just didn't speak to them for a day or two and went and looked at a dating site. Until they came back all sweet and I caved! Haha
Hope that helps
I know I love emotions and feelings but CAN'T STAND people who don't get on with life and move forward. Just to add - when they said "YOU LOVE ME FOR ME" I answered "yes I do, you're amazing"
Then they were chatty for a bit longer then dissappeared and became aloof
Then they were chatty for a bit longer then dissappeared and became aloof
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