AwesomeAries joined October 26, 2009
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Aries have no problem moving on... along... and letting it be over, when its over. I have NEVER had trouble getting over any of my exes. When I did the breaking up, it was especially easy for me to move right along. When its more mutual, it still never took me much time to bounce back. But in ONE case, just ONE CASE... I let myself be completely open, allowing a scorpio in... he's like an infection that I have yet to find a cure for. I hate it. I would love to find his replacement or bounce back to reality, like usual, but I can't. Im hurt deeply, sad, and miss him more than anything. We only dated for a few months and broke up SEVERAL months back... I totally feel her. Its sad.
I have no advice for you other than to be there for her she will develop a whole new respect for you. Aries don't like to show or tell you when they need you. But when there friends are there without being asked, aries feel important and will place you on a high pedestal. Forever you'll be repaid. But if you're not there... you will never be forgiven.
I have no advice for you other than to be there for her she will develop a whole new respect for you. Aries don't like to show or tell you when they need you. But when there friends are there without being asked, aries feel important and will place you on a high pedestal. Forever you'll be repaid. But if you're not there... you will never be forgiven.
I just don't have the patience to try. I honestly want to one minute but then the next, I'm over it and want to move on. . . I get restless. Changing takes time which us Aries would rather apply the energy to other things.
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ScorpionLady- Thanks for the ensight... you're right!
Yeah, once I started to think he didn't like me anymore, you betcha! I don't feed off attention, but reassurance. By his actions, I felt assured he wanted nothing more to do with me. So I walked ahead.
When he started to show interest again... I stopped. I would rather be with him and if that means being in solitude in waiting forever so be it. Before, I didn't know him, how to read him... I still don't. But I do know now that when he began getting distant and sarcastic it was because I hurt him not because he didn't care... which is what I use to think.
I don't really know. I just no I am impatient, straight-forward, and in love with him. I can go over and over the things I have done but there is a reason he hasn't closed the line of communication with me. right? Please tell me if i'm wrong.
When he started to show interest again... I stopped. I would rather be with him and if that means being in solitude in waiting forever so be it. Before, I didn't know him, how to read him... I still don't. But I do know now that when he began getting distant and sarcastic it was because I hurt him not because he didn't care... which is what I use to think.
I don't really know. I just no I am impatient, straight-forward, and in love with him. I can go over and over the things I have done but there is a reason he hasn't closed the line of communication with me. right? Please tell me if i'm wrong.
I dated this Scorpio last spring and I'm still sprung. He chased me and chased me until I gave in. I wasn't attracted to him at first. I became attracted to him chasing me. Once I surrendered, it just continued to get better and better. We spent every extra minute together. I don't do that, I like my space. But with him it was different.
I disappointed him once when I ditched him for dinner. My best friend was going through a breakup and the Aries I am... I just chose to deal with it later instead of being respectful and telling him my change of plans.
He withdrew, built walls, became cold, completely changed his behavior and hasn't been the same since.
I tried discussing my concerns and mentioned solutions. I took his harshness and closed off behavior as him no longer being interested So, the Aries in me started acting out and sought attention else where.
We are not together, barely see each other, but still talk often. He's the only guy that I feel, I have been completely into. He told me the same. His harshness hurts my feelings so in order to maintain myself emotionally, I avoid him. I am really trying to get over him and move on. I just can't.I tried avoiding him for about a month. I recently started talking to him again, (almost every day) and he asked why I wasn't talking to him. I told him the reason and he laughed it off.
I've told him how I feel, what my needs are, and all he says is just give it time.
Now talking, almost everyday, we make plans to hangout but they always seem to fall thru, (usually because of him). I don't know if he is just over me or if he is fearful of my intentions. What confuses me is why he continues to communicate with me. Is it because he wants to open himself up to me again?
He asked me to watch a movie with him last night but never followed through with even a call. I sent him a text a few minutes past the time we were suppose to hang that said, OK, maybe tomorrow? He didn't reply. I couldn't sleep last night because I sat awake analyzing our entire relationship. I came to the conclusion that I have hurt him and needed to apologize. So I sent him a text saying sorry for EVERYTHING that could have hurt him.
I truly love him but am at the point of my life that I want more from someone. I don't want to move on if there is still hope but I don't want to continue to wait either. I think if he opened up to the idea of hanging out... things could go back to how they once was. Is he protecting himself
I disappointed him once when I ditched him for dinner. My best friend was going through a breakup and the Aries I am... I just chose to deal with it later instead of being respectful and telling him my change of plans.
He withdrew, built walls, became cold, completely changed his behavior and hasn't been the same since.
I tried discussing my concerns and mentioned solutions. I took his harshness and closed off behavior as him no longer being interested So, the Aries in me started acting out and sought attention else where.
We are not together, barely see each other, but still talk often. He's the only guy that I feel, I have been completely into. He told me the same. His harshness hurts my feelings so in order to maintain myself emotionally, I avoid him. I am really trying to get over him and move on. I just can't.I tried avoiding him for about a month. I recently started talking to him again, (almost every day) and he asked why I wasn't talking to him. I told him the reason and he laughed it off.
I've told him how I feel, what my needs are, and all he says is just give it time.
Now talking, almost everyday, we make plans to hangout but they always seem to fall thru, (usually because of him). I don't know if he is just over me or if he is fearful of my intentions. What confuses me is why he continues to communicate with me. Is it because he wants to open himself up to me again?
He asked me to watch a movie with him last night but never followed through with even a call. I sent him a text a few minutes past the time we were suppose to hang that said, OK, maybe tomorrow? He didn't reply. I couldn't sleep last night because I sat awake analyzing our entire relationship. I came to the conclusion that I have hurt him and needed to apologize. So I sent him a text saying sorry for EVERYTHING that could have hurt him.
I truly love him but am at the point of my life that I want more from someone. I don't want to move on if there is still hope but I don't want to continue to wait either. I think if he opened up to the idea of hanging out... things could go back to how they once was. Is he protecting himself
I apologized for everything, through a text. Maybe not the smartest way of handling it but I didn't want to interrupt him in the middle of the night. I'm waiting to hear back from him... I don't know if he will even reply back or call. But at least I got the guilt off of my chest.
I appreciate all the reply's and advice.
Thanks!
I appreciate all the reply's and advice.
Thanks!
I'm an aries female and have dated aries men and they want spontaneity, like us females, get easily bored. The want a connection as well as space. They don't want anyone dependent on them but like when they're needed. I can go on and on...
I don't understand them. If you're a male and a scorpio, please give me some insight...
I dated this scorpio last spring and I'm still sprung. He chased me and chased me until I gave in. I wasn't attracted to him at first. I became attracted to him chasing me. Once I surrendered, it just continued to get better and better. We spent every extra minute together. I don't do that, I like my space. But with him it was different. He gave me confidence, structure, insight, completeness. I gave him adventure, playfulness, and attention.
I disappointed him once when I ditched him for dinner. My best friend was going through a breakup and the Aries I am... I just chose to deal with it later instead of being respectful and telling him my change of plans.
He withdrew, built walls, became cold, completely changed his behavior and hasn't been the same since.
I tried discussing my concerns and mentioned solutions. I took his harshness and closed off behavior as him no longer being interested So, the aries in me started acting out and sought attention else where.
We are not together, barely see each other, but still talk often. He's the only guy that I feel, I have been completely into. He told me the same. His harshness hurts my feelings so in order to maintain myself emotionally, I avoid him. I am really trying to get over him and move on. I just can't.
I tried avoiding him for about a month. I recently started talking to him again, (almost every day) and he asked why I wasn't talking to him. I told him the reason and he laughed it off.
I've told him how I feel, what my needs are, and all he says is just give it time. I can do that, if only I knew he honestly felt like time is what its going to take. He makes no initiative, other than doing the inviting, to spend anytime together. I think, all it would take is a few hours spent together to get the feeling back again.
Now talking, almost everyday, we make plans to hangout but they always seem to fall thru, (usually because of him). I don't know if he is just over me or if he is fearful of my intentions.
I truly love him but am at the point of my life that I want more from someone. I don't want to move on if there is still hope but I don't want to continue to wait either.
I dated this scorpio last spring and I'm still sprung. He chased me and chased me until I gave in. I wasn't attracted to him at first. I became attracted to him chasing me. Once I surrendered, it just continued to get better and better. We spent every extra minute together. I don't do that, I like my space. But with him it was different. He gave me confidence, structure, insight, completeness. I gave him adventure, playfulness, and attention.
I disappointed him once when I ditched him for dinner. My best friend was going through a breakup and the Aries I am... I just chose to deal with it later instead of being respectful and telling him my change of plans.
He withdrew, built walls, became cold, completely changed his behavior and hasn't been the same since.
I tried discussing my concerns and mentioned solutions. I took his harshness and closed off behavior as him no longer being interested So, the aries in me started acting out and sought attention else where.
We are not together, barely see each other, but still talk often. He's the only guy that I feel, I have been completely into. He told me the same. His harshness hurts my feelings so in order to maintain myself emotionally, I avoid him. I am really trying to get over him and move on. I just can't.
I tried avoiding him for about a month. I recently started talking to him again, (almost every day) and he asked why I wasn't talking to him. I told him the reason and he laughed it off.
I've told him how I feel, what my needs are, and all he says is just give it time. I can do that, if only I knew he honestly felt like time is what its going to take. He makes no initiative, other than doing the inviting, to spend anytime together. I think, all it would take is a few hours spent together to get the feeling back again.
Now talking, almost everyday, we make plans to hangout but they always seem to fall thru, (usually because of him). I don't know if he is just over me or if he is fearful of my intentions.
I truly love him but am at the point of my life that I want more from someone. I don't want to move on if there is still hope but I don't want to continue to wait either.
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