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Well GreatBull and co. That was my way of asking, she picked up the phone, hence she's interested? I'm not really sure, since she does play hot and cold.
Thank you Stah, I know she recently broke up with her long term girlfriend, she said she was 95% sure she was gay, and is only dating guys because of her parents, who are obviously against her dating girls.
Well more information about this thing going on. Weeks before she had even shown interest when she had asked me if I had a current boyfriend, as I told her I was gay, I watched her face for a reaction and noticed her eyebrow twitched. Shortly after, she asked for my number and then offered her number to me as I took my phone out. That very same night she even took interest in my past time activities. "what kind of music do you like?"
About a week after we were at a friends house that night I witnessed the whole break up that went down between her and her girlfriend(they have been going out for 17 months). It was pretty loud and messy. At one point, while her girlfriend was gone, she had made a pass at me... stroking my arm and on a separate occasion asking me "What do you want?" after I had asked her what I was getting in return for helping her study. Preceding this, she had given me the vertical scan check out twice that very same day, thinking I wasn't looking.
And THEN this phone call I made.. it was short , she said she'd call back and I forced her to promise to call back. "I Promise" she said. The next day in class, she approaches me, for the first time ever might I add, greets me and tells me she fell asleep that night. I play it cool, pretending she didn't exist that whole day.
Things only recently started to get juicy, after months of just making eye contact with each other. Even to this day, we are still looking in each others directions catching eyes, but that's when she's hot and not acting so cold.
Thats the full story, just in case anyone was curious. I'm sure her sexual orientation confusion plays a big part in this.
Thank you Stah, I know she recently broke up with her long term girlfriend, she said she was 95% sure she was gay, and is only dating guys because of her parents, who are obviously against her dating girls.
Well more information about this thing going on. Weeks before she had even shown interest when she had asked me if I had a current boyfriend, as I told her I was gay, I watched her face for a reaction and noticed her eyebrow twitched. Shortly after, she asked for my number and then offered her number to me as I took my phone out. That very same night she even took interest in my past time activities. "what kind of music do you like?"
About a week after we were at a friends house that night I witnessed the whole break up that went down between her and her girlfriend(they have been going out for 17 months). It was pretty loud and messy. At one point, while her girlfriend was gone, she had made a pass at me... stroking my arm and on a separate occasion asking me "What do you want?" after I had asked her what I was getting in return for helping her study. Preceding this, she had given me the vertical scan check out twice that very same day, thinking I wasn't looking.
And THEN this phone call I made.. it was short , she said she'd call back and I forced her to promise to call back. "I Promise" she said. The next day in class, she approaches me, for the first time ever might I add, greets me and tells me she fell asleep that night. I play it cool, pretending she didn't exist that whole day.
Things only recently started to get juicy, after months of just making eye contact with each other. Even to this day, we are still looking in each others directions catching eyes, but that's when she's hot and not acting so cold.
Thats the full story, just in case anyone was curious. I'm sure her sexual orientation confusion plays a big part in this.
Hello me again!
I keep running into these crabs! just my luck.
Long story short. After months of just eye flirting.
She asks for my number and then proceeds to offer her number for my phone. Great! But at the time she was in a relationship. She puts on the flirt even more, ie. vertical scanning, deep eye contact, touching me.. She's single now, I call her up and she picks up.. why would she pick up the phone if not interested?
How do I know for sure what this cancer is doing? Taking it slow or what? Am I on the right track?
I keep running into these crabs! just my luck.
Long story short. After months of just eye flirting.
She asks for my number and then proceeds to offer her number for my phone. Great! But at the time she was in a relationship. She puts on the flirt even more, ie. vertical scanning, deep eye contact, touching me.. She's single now, I call her up and she picks up.. why would she pick up the phone if not interested?
How do I know for sure what this cancer is doing? Taking it slow or what? Am I on the right track?
moon_eyes - thanks for the advice I appreciate it, I think I'll sleep on it a bit more. OLE.. backward lol
scorpsting - very cute story! except for the cheater.. damn those cheaters making life miserable. so romantic.... with the stars and all. you've got the luckiest cancer on your hands right now =D
GreatBull - kind of like what your avatar is doing? No thanks!! I'll leave it up to you to broadcast to the world what you do in your shower alone
with a gun that small.. nothing to brag about either... lol
Thanks everyone! Anymore tips would be great but.. I think I got the gist of it.
scorpsting - very cute story! except for the cheater.. damn those cheaters making life miserable. so romantic.... with the stars and all. you've got the luckiest cancer on your hands right now =D
GreatBull - kind of like what your avatar is doing? No thanks!! I'll leave it up to you to broadcast to the world what you do in your shower alone
with a gun that small.. nothing to brag about either... lolThanks everyone! Anymore tips would be great but.. I think I got the gist of it.
Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson =D
moon_eyes - first of all, yes it is! why else would i want to talk to her if not interested or showing some sort of interest! anyway, it would be obvious because I get real nervous around my object of affection, and therefore it will tell all. second of all... yes it is! lol but seriously, I'm thinking about it. its a hard decision to make. its shaking my nerves just thinking about it. I have spoken to her in the past, once, and that's all it took, I was nervous as hell.. at the same time felt the stupid 'vibe' i keep talking about. third of all, who says I'm not a girl? =p
GreatBull - I will ask questions! and I will second guess, not all of us have sunglasses to spare.
scorpsting - I'm a libra (oct 11) but don't make any assumptions based on that (who am i kidding? lol). your story is very romantic and inspires confidence. is there more to the story? I'd love to know... I feel the 'connection' too, but how do you know its not just part of your imagination? My overactive imagination has got me into trouble in the past. but of course, I want that but the question is, will she? dun dun dun
Bena73 - Well I do like her, I don't want to admit I like her well, because I'm a girl, she's a girl, could pose some problems. There's that factor to take into consideration. Okay, I may have exaggerated on how long its been going on... but fighting off these kind of feelings takes a lot of hard work, and that sometimes seems like a lifetime. If you have to know 2 months but longest two months ever. lol
You can see how its a hard decision, being a libra and all, plus the girl/girl thing... don't judge me... lol i guess you can never know these things for sure unless you ask right. tell me more about those seductive eyes... since that has been the only clue i have to work with... you lovely cancers =)
GreatBull - I will ask questions! and I will second guess, not all of us have sunglasses to spare.
scorpsting - I'm a libra (oct 11) but don't make any assumptions based on that (who am i kidding? lol). your story is very romantic and inspires confidence. is there more to the story? I'd love to know... I feel the 'connection' too, but how do you know its not just part of your imagination? My overactive imagination has got me into trouble in the past. but of course, I want that but the question is, will she? dun dun dun
Bena73 - Well I do like her, I don't want to admit I like her well, because I'm a girl, she's a girl, could pose some problems. There's that factor to take into consideration. Okay, I may have exaggerated on how long its been going on... but fighting off these kind of feelings takes a lot of hard work, and that sometimes seems like a lifetime. If you have to know 2 months but longest two months ever. lol
You can see how its a hard decision, being a libra and all, plus the girl/girl thing... don't judge me... lol i guess you can never know these things for sure unless you ask right. tell me more about those seductive eyes... since that has been the only clue i have to work with... you lovely cancers =)
GreatBull - SUNGLASSES!! that solved my problem, thank you! LOL
Bena73 - which look is she giving me? How does anybody know? well, it's definitely not the "I hate you"... how could she hate me? we've only spoken to each other once. I'd love to say it was the "wow..if only.. with a smile...;}" look but I don't want to build myself up for disappointment, again. She caught me off guard because I didn't expect it... at all. Okay, I felt a vibe, I don't know how sure you can be of those, but I felt a vibe when we first spoke... but anytime after that I kept telling myself "NO! I can't like her! She can't like me!". Here I am trying to fight these feelings away.
moon_eyes - I'd really love to but I can't, that would be admitting I have feelings for her. That's not allowed. I'm not really expecting something to happen, I'm not supposed to. Plus, why can't she come talk to me first?? I mean she's always looking at -me-!
Anyways, I don't want to give in, unless I'm 110% sure or never give in for that matter.
I fought so long against these feelings why give in now? Hmm, eye contact across the room is solid proof don't ya think? I don't know. :S
Bena73 - which look is she giving me? How does anybody know? well, it's definitely not the "I hate you"... how could she hate me? we've only spoken to each other once. I'd love to say it was the "wow..if only.. with a smile...;}" look but I don't want to build myself up for disappointment, again. She caught me off guard because I didn't expect it... at all. Okay, I felt a vibe, I don't know how sure you can be of those, but I felt a vibe when we first spoke... but anytime after that I kept telling myself "NO! I can't like her! She can't like me!". Here I am trying to fight these feelings away.
moon_eyes - I'd really love to but I can't, that would be admitting I have feelings for her. That's not allowed. I'm not really expecting something to happen, I'm not supposed to. Plus, why can't she come talk to me first?? I mean she's always looking at -me-!
Anyways, I don't want to give in, unless I'm 110% sure or never give in for that matter.I fought so long against these feelings why give in now? Hmm, eye contact across the room is solid proof don't ya think? I don't know. :S
scorpsting - thats good news! if I wasn't trying to get over her =p
imacancer - long story short, I had a huge crush on this girl at the start of the school year and told myself not to so I got over her. Then I caught her looking over at me several times. I'm not really looking for anything, at least I'm trying not to. Am I disappointed? No, I'm actually more surprised if anything, she caught me off guard and now I'm confused.
moon_eyes - you're right the eyes do tell everything. I'm more worried about misreading her eye communication due to some sort of false hope. I had another cancer give me the same look but.. how can one be sure.
maybe i should stop resisting.. but i've been trying for so long!
imacancer - long story short, I had a huge crush on this girl at the start of the school year and told myself not to so I got over her. Then I caught her looking over at me several times. I'm not really looking for anything, at least I'm trying not to. Am I disappointed? No, I'm actually more surprised if anything, she caught me off guard and now I'm confused.
moon_eyes - you're right the eyes do tell everything. I'm more worried about misreading her eye communication due to some sort of false hope. I had another cancer give me the same look but.. how can one be sure.
maybe i should stop resisting.. but i've been trying for so long!
When a Cancer makes eye contact with you across a room, more than once...
is that as real as it gets?
is that as real as it gets?
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Hello me again! I keep running into these crabs! just my luck. Long story short. After months of just eye flirti
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When a Cancer makes eye contact with you across a room, more than once... is that as real as it gets?
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