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Intense but can't decide what they want
I posted previously about my situation with my sag guy.

He's basically been ignoring me ever since I sent that text . Saw him at work Wednesday he blatantly ignored me all day then we both received some devasting work related news. We have 4 weeks to move out and find other premises .I texted him later saying what a cr*p day at work it was and that I was really upset about the news . He replied and we exchanged a few texts all work related no mention of why he's ignoring me.

Told him we need to stop ignoring each other As we both only have a few weeks left at work and we should end on a positive vibe and try to laugh ! He replied' yes fun and laughter all the way x'

Thing is since we spent intimate tims together 2 weeks ago where it was so different the way he held me, looked at me and touched me he's been very distant . We both have a lot going on career wise and many changes but these issues usually bring us closer together and we support each other

This guy has previously broke down in tears telling me he loves me and has told me he's in love with me .

I adore this man and love him deeply I've never tried to push him into a relationship I've kinda gone with the flow he seems to get super close then panics!

Im tempted to call / text him but don't want to intrude on his space if he's struggling but it kinda seems like he's in a mood with me ?

Him sag Sun

Leo moon

Scorpio Venus

Scorpio mars

Sag mercury

Me Gemini sun

Sag moon

Cancer Venus

Cancer mars

Taurus mercury
Posted by hellosaggy
I've been told by many different types I am an attractive guy... I don't know really how to describe my looks. I played football, still have the frame and most of the muscle, plus the intelligence and sense of humor, I'm just disarming...

I've never heard conflicting personalities, but that is exactly how I feel. It's an internal struggle sometimes and I can't explain it. Sometimes I'm flirting and I'm like why the heck am I doing this. I stopped with the pure lust cravings around 27 I just snapped out of it. I'm a hunter though...if I see a hot girl I will go up and talk to her. no fear. and then charm her....as soon as they are interested, I know the rest and don't bother complicating my life. personally if i have no mental connection before I get you, I wouldn't bother after 1 or 2 times in bedroom anyway.

you said there is somewhere that talks about this placement:

Mars libra

Venus Scorpio

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Aries

Scorpio rising

I'm completely sane, I love deeply, but inadvertent weakness pops up. Trust me I turn down way more women than I actually cheat. its not like I'm so happy some woman's talking to me other than my girlfriend and I jump at the opportunity. I saw my girlfriend cry one day and it literally broke my heart... I felt like I died inside....that's why I ended the LDR, I knew it was destroying her.


Do you tell any of these women you love them or have you ever told them you were in love with them ?

Posted by saggurl88
Posted by aflyingarrow
Posted by saggurl88
He loves you! lol What do you mean you don't know whats going on!
I know righhhtttt.... the signs are EVERYWHERE ?
He told her he loved her at non sexual times and then stared at her lovingly during sex.....REALLY????? ???????
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I know I know I feel quite silly and the thing Is we are not kids we are both in our mid 40's but I feel like we are a pair of teenagers navigating our way through this ?

Posted by DMV
Hold the phone.

You managed to get a sag to have a 5 hour phone call???

What's your mercury signs?


yup we've had quite a few long phone callls. one minute we are making each other cry with laughter and the next talking about spirituality and the cosmos etc! He also reaches out to me if he's struggling with anything usually his demons ( we are both in recovery from active addiction )

Him: sag mercury

Me: Taurus mercury
Posted by aflyingarrow
Sorry.. didnt read properly..

Gem sun cancer venus ?.. my man has that too.. and im also a sag sun with scorpio mars..

Little bit of advise?

Let him have his space and dont press him with small stuffs.. the fact that he told you he loves you and your last interactions says that he cares for you..



He's given me a lot of mixed messages in the past one minute saying he doesn't want a relationship, saying he wants to keep his options open and then the next was he was madly in love with me and wanted to commit then said let's just be friends then the next was he's never got on with a woman like he gets on with me...

You can see why I get in a panic plus he's been single and I mean REALLY single for 10 years before me..

at the moment we are supposed to be really good friends... hmmm ? So you can see why I asked him I don't know what we are anymore

I've bought us both tickets to see his favorite band in November I'm just scared to tell him in case he really gallops away !

Yup mine pulls me super close we connect on an even deeper level then he gallops off on his little horse legs ! Oh it's tiring
Ok I've been in a 'situation' with a sag guy since December . We work together and we're friends for a year. We get on incredibly well on every level he's told me numerous times he loves me and has told me he's in love with me but sometimes he gets scared , panics and gallops off. Then comes back and woos me with Romantic songs taking me out for lunch, phone calls that last for 5 hours etc ?

We get really close then I tell him I'm coming to his fie dinner and of course we sleep together !

He tells me he's never got on with a woman the way he gets on with me.

Thing is he's acting weird since we spent time to here last thurs making weird jokes about me going off with other guys . Last week when we were ' together ' the way he held was so different the way he touched me and the way he looked in my eyes was very intense.

But he's acting weird and I texted him yesterday saying I don't know what we are any more he said he was tired and switching his phone off !

he has a lot of stuff going on at work mostly he doesn't know if he'll have a job next month so I feel a little harsh sending him that text but I just think it's time we either moved this forward or stop it . I love him so deeply I've never loved anyone the way I love him but he gives me so many mixed signals !

Him : sag sun

Leo moon

Scorpio Venus

Scorpio mars

Leo rising

Me: Gemini sun

Sag moon

Cancer Venus

Cancer mars

Libra rising

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I posted previously about my situation with my sag guy. He's basically been ignoring me ever since I sent that text . Saw him at work Wednesday he blatantly ignored me all day then we both received some devasting work related news. We have 4 weeks to mov
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Ok I've been in a 'situation' with a sag guy since December . We work together and we're friends for a year. We get on incredibly well on every level he's told me numerous times he loves me and has told me he's in love with me but sometimes he gets scared
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