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Thanks for the feedback. I guess the most confusing part for me is that he didn't need to offer me any explanation, or commitment to keep in touch. I wonder why he offered and then didn't follow through?
He did mention that he was seeing someone back where he is posted. It seemed to me like he was referring to a past relationship at the time, but now I'm thinking about it perhaps he is still involved with her.
He is an officer btw ...
He did mention that he was seeing someone back where he is posted. It seemed to me like he was referring to a past relationship at the time, but now I'm thinking about it perhaps he is still involved with her.
He is an officer btw ...
I'm on the cusp of reaching out to this Scorpio I met two months ago. We met through a friend and had an instant connection. He was home on leave from the military to attend a family members funeral, and the night before he left we spent the night together.
When we parted ways in the morning, he told me he would be in touch and that he didn't just want this to be one-night thing, and that he might return home for the Christmas Holidays.
I haven't heard from him
I can't stop thinking of him and I am wondering if I should reach out and send him a email ...
When we parted ways in the morning, he told me he would be in touch and that he didn't just want this to be one-night thing, and that he might return home for the Christmas Holidays.
I haven't heard from him
I can't stop thinking of him and I am wondering if I should reach out and send him a email ...
Thanks for the advice. It's not what I wanted to hear, but it makes perfect sense. I wish I was the exception
Its a whole year later and I still can't get this man off my mind. There have been others, and I thought time would would heal this hurt, but I still long for him.
I called him once last winter, he answered, but didn't recognize my number (had obviously deleted it from his phone). He made up some lame excuse about a new phone, asked to see me, but our schedules didn't permit. I was hurt and didn't call again, neither did he. I thought, NOW ... I know for sure he doesn't want me, now I can move on. I deleted his number and vowed to forget him. No such luck
Today I'm browsing an online classifieds site - and completely randomly stumble across a 'for sale' ad he posted. His phone number was listed ....
Do I bother?
I called him once last winter, he answered, but didn't recognize my number (had obviously deleted it from his phone). He made up some lame excuse about a new phone, asked to see me, but our schedules didn't permit. I was hurt and didn't call again, neither did he. I thought, NOW ... I know for sure he doesn't want me, now I can move on. I deleted his number and vowed to forget him. No such luck
Today I'm browsing an online classifieds site - and completely randomly stumble across a 'for sale' ad he posted. His phone number was listed ....
Do I bother?
lol ...
I was hanging out alone with a saggittarius acquaintance of the opposite sex today. We get along well and have lots to talk about. We were just talking and watching tv today and when i got up to leave he stood up and clearly had a semi-erection. lol ... i'm a little afraid to ask ... does it mean i excite him?
I was hanging out alone with a saggittarius acquaintance of the opposite sex today. We get along well and have lots to talk about. We were just talking and watching tv today and when i got up to leave he stood up and clearly had a semi-erection. lol ... i'm a little afraid to ask ... does it mean i excite him?
i am also a Cancer who had reoccuring dreams of losing teeth, this was some 15 years ago, and hasn't occured in some time. Mine would fall out easily, with no pain, extracted in front the mirror by myself ... weird. I never did experience any deaths of people close to me. I read at the time that it was a strong message to yourself to take care of your dential issues.
I used to dream of lock jaw at the same time .... and often awoke to a sore jaw.
I have since discovered that I am a chronic teeth grinder ... and was equiped with a brux guard a few years back. I lost 2 teeth to bone loss & peridontal diesease.
My case was caught reatively early, but had I listened to my dreams & saw the dentist I wouldn't have lost any teeth. I responded to treatments well and I won't lose anymore teeth if I keep up on regular cleanings and use of my brux guard.
The peridontis is aparently genetic, my mom lost her teeth at 21 and wears a full denture.
Listen to your dreams & See your dentist!
I used to dream of lock jaw at the same time .... and often awoke to a sore jaw.
I have since discovered that I am a chronic teeth grinder ... and was equiped with a brux guard a few years back. I lost 2 teeth to bone loss & peridontal diesease.
My case was caught reatively early, but had I listened to my dreams & saw the dentist I wouldn't have lost any teeth. I responded to treatments well and I won't lose anymore teeth if I keep up on regular cleanings and use of my brux guard.
The peridontis is aparently genetic, my mom lost her teeth at 21 and wears a full denture.
Listen to your dreams & See your dentist!
Update:
I cut him loose. Friday - told him i needed to think and and emailed him today (Tuesday) and told him that i cared for him, but couldn't run the risk of getting hurt. That he was married and initially I thought I was ok with it, but I'm not ... I also told him I was glad we had the time we did and didn't regret it, but wished circumstances were different.
Called him a few hours after to talk, to see what he had to say (maybe fishing to get him to change my mind) .... no answer, texted twice, no return texts or calls I went for a drive and cried for a good hour. (the first and last tears I will give him)
I know I'm better, off ... but my heart hurts.
I cut him loose. Friday - told him i needed to think and and emailed him today (Tuesday) and told him that i cared for him, but couldn't run the risk of getting hurt. That he was married and initially I thought I was ok with it, but I'm not ... I also told him I was glad we had the time we did and didn't regret it, but wished circumstances were different.
Called him a few hours after to talk, to see what he had to say (maybe fishing to get him to change my mind) .... no answer, texted twice, no return texts or calls
I went for a drive and cried for a good hour. (the first and last tears I will give him) I know I'm better, off ... but my heart hurts.
Posted by Aphrodite Bull
Question(s)
1. When the two of you go out on dates, is it in your hometown or his?
2. Have you ever been to his place?
3. He said he 'bragged' to his friends about you...Have you ever met any of them?
1. Its his hometown (not a large city)
2. I haven't been to his place, he says he lives with a friend & his family
3. I met the fellow who worked on my car & I met the barmaid who is a friend of his
I appreciate all your input 
Yes he was upfront about being married from the start.
I can make up a hundred scenarios justifying why .... to make it ok (in my head). I am avoiding talking to him for this reason.
I can make up a hundred scenarios justifying why .... to make it ok (in my head). I am avoiding talking to him for this reason.
^ My feelings exactly .... but I don't know if I'm just being overly sensitive & dramatic as we cancers tend to be ....
I met an amazing Taurus man (May 5) recently and we have been dating, Me: Cancer (July 21). He is everything I??ve ever wanted ??_. If I had a checklist, it would be full! I sincerely have affection for this man, and I know I am falling for him although it??s only been a few weeks. He acts as if falling for me too ??_. But there is a catch, he is married. He tells me he has been separated for 10 months, after 22 years of marriage.
I am seeking advice how to proceed, or not proceed. Some facts:
1. We live 5 hours apart
2. We have not been intimate
3. He is visibly affectionate when we go out, has taken me to his favourite pub where he is well known. Hold my hands, kisses me in public
4. He calls daily, but ALWAYS when he is driving, and he NEVER picks up when I call him. He does return my call promptly, either via text or he calls
5. He works long hours, shift work, and gets a week off at a time on a 14 day rotation, but makes no effort to come and see me.
6. He made arrangements for work to be done on my car by a of his friend who owns a shop.
7. Says he has told his buddies about me and even showed them my picture.
I recently asked him if he was on Facebook, he told me no. I did a little sleuthing and low and behold, there he was. I checked out his wife??s page, and hers indicates that they are still ???married??.
I texted him and told him that I caught him in his Facebook lie and that I was upset, I have not returned any of his calls or texts since ( a whole 2 hours lol). I can??t help but feel he is hiding something ??_
I am seeking advice how to proceed, or not proceed. Some facts:
1. We live 5 hours apart
2. We have not been intimate
3. He is visibly affectionate when we go out, has taken me to his favourite pub where he is well known. Hold my hands, kisses me in public
4. He calls daily, but ALWAYS when he is driving, and he NEVER picks up when I call him. He does return my call promptly, either via text or he calls
5. He works long hours, shift work, and gets a week off at a time on a 14 day rotation, but makes no effort to come and see me.
6. He made arrangements for work to be done on my car by a of his friend who owns a shop.
7. Says he has told his buddies about me and even showed them my picture.
I recently asked him if he was on Facebook, he told me no. I did a little sleuthing and low and behold, there he was. I checked out his wife??s page, and hers indicates that they are still ???married??.
I texted him and told him that I caught him in his Facebook lie and that I was upset, I have not returned any of his calls or texts since ( a whole 2 hours lol). I can??t help but feel he is hiding something ??_
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