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The max i can get from all your inputs is - "Let her be on her own".
Earlier I was totally chilled and very easy going in the beginning of the relationship even if i was very much attracted to her and unbelievably that moment she was all over me. Infact, at that moment i didn't wanted any thing serious with her and used to push her off little bit.
But as time passed, man i started getting serious and fell hard. And all of a sudden, all my scorp traits started to show up. But i kept it cool until she ignored to me that extent that i couldn't take it anymore.
But now i have to go back to start i guess.
But just tell me how to get those love feelings back in her like before? She sounds totally off and cold now.
Please give me some nice effective tips.
I'm just too determined to get her back and i won't give up. smile
Thank you so much so your kind replies. Really appreciate it. smile
But i'm an easy going scorp. I'm quite intense but i keep all my intensity within me as much i can. But i have break point too. She ignored me so much to an extent that i couldn't take it anymore and finally i broke loose.
We only had "heated arguments" - "normal couple arguments" no physical or verbal abuse. I love her alot no matter what.
I never used any foul language on her or call her names. But i might have spoke rudely to her sometimes - "Why the hell didn't you call or reply?". And sometimes invaded in her privacy too i guess which she took it negatively. But its only because as a scorp i'm very protective of her. I can easily sense any thing wrong around her and keep her away from that. But she took it otherwise i guess. Anyway i need to cool it down.
But just like Pisces are very sensitive. Scorps are very sensitive too and as the most hurtful thing you can do to me is ignore me specially by someone who matters to me alot. It will piss the hell outta me.

But now how do i get her back? I mean i have read once the love feeling for a person inside a pisces is gone its gone forever, it ain't coming back. Is it true?
one more input, hope it helps -
All of our argument is on phone. We hardly see each other. We live very very far apart. Its like been 7 months now since i saw her. But once we meet we are all smiling and laughing at each other, we forget about all the arguments we had.
Once we had a bad argument, the very next day i flew down to meet her. When we saw each other, we just hugged and kissed like nothing ever happened between us.
Is it because of the long distance, its getting messed up? As most of my friends say so.
Do Pisces loose attraction if they don't see a person for a long time?

Thanks again for your kind inputs smile
I'm a scorpio deeply love with a pisces woman.
Everything was going quite well between us but things really started to change when she moved to a new place. She got quite busy and almost forgot about me. I can't believe that can pisces get so much absorbed in work that they forget their loved ones?
I felt so much ignored and neglected as she didn't pick up my calls and hardly ever called me i had to call her all the time and message her. And as a scorpio i couldn't take it easily. So, we ended up arguing all the time. It went on and on for months. Now it has become so worse that one day she said she don't love me anymore. It broke my heart. The thing is even if i argued with her and said really hurtful things to her its because i felt so neglected by her. I love her alot and care about her so much. I did so much for her when she was going through a very very bad phase of her life. How can she forget it so easily? Do pisces forget things that people do for them and moments so easily? Because as a scorpio i will never forget if a person helped me even for a bit.
I think she swam away from me. But i want her back. I will be really cool in dealing with her this time. But i don't know how to deal with her. Earlier she was so sweet, calm and caring but now She acts really cranky, rude and different now all the time.I love her very much and don't want to loose her. Please help!
I won't deny the fact that sometimes we are attracted to some signs very instantly e.g Pisces. But we don't fall in love for someone that easily and quickly, we are "just attracted" easily. So the attraction might go off after some time or grow out as Love in due time. So, it really depends.
Give it some time before you make any big move like marriage. Good Luck! smile
I am a scorpio male.
I have been in a same situation as yours and i can understand how your b/f feels if he really loves you.
My gf was also being abused verbally & emotionally and it has changed her completely. I really love my g/f and she matters the most to me. She's of pisces sign and I would do anything for her, if i say anything it means anything for her.
So, once she started opening up and started telling me all these stories. Believe me each line ripped my heart. The only thing that was going through my head was - "How could he do that to the person whom i love so much" & "How could you let it do to yourself, how can be you so naive". You can give hundreds, thousands of reasons but we can't just accept it.I was getting restless too and moving around.
The only solution to this is time. Give it time & patience. I'm sure after some time he will be normal like before. But the thing is he can't forget it. Don't make stupid mistakes like saying "How blind you were in his( your ex) love to overlook all these things" and don't bring this topic again to him. Be honest with him, Scorpios respect honesty.
And above all love him more genuinely. Don't be fake. His love will only grow with time if you are true to him.

For a scorpio, Once you are his, even if you tell about your first playful kiss which was zillion years ago it would still hurt him.
Hope you get some idea. Good Luck!

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