Posted by Leetlelioness

Posted by Caliscorpio
the first guy i dated was a leo. and what i have noticed is that leo scorpio relationships move really fast. but they can burn out just as fast. I guess ill just tell you what led to me ending it with my leo and what prevented me from going back

-he gave so much attention but like too much. Like i cant see you 3 times a day every day.

-if i cannot hang out because i have something important do not make me feel bad about it.

-do not pressure me to talk.

-do not push me into a corner because i will sting the shit out of you. and resent you for it.

-do not treat me like a child.

-do not make me feel bad for how much money you spend on me

-do not tell me how i can act around your friends

-do not get mad at the fact that i am uncomfortable with public displays of affection

-if i back down in a stubborn battle between us two do not take it as weakness and continue your stubborn streak.

GREAT GREAT advice and truly appreciated. There are times when I feel like I might be overwhelming him with my attentiveness. But then again I think it's because of my charts that makes me a little less intense when it comes to spending time 24/7 I like my independence and it's equally important for my partner to have his.

I guess I'm dominant in a way that I'll let you know what I want but definitely not controlling.

Your leo sounds like he was a cub. Real real insecure. I'm sorry you had to deal with that gross. LOL

But I would have to agree on you saying the relationship is moving VERY VERY fast. when we talked about it we just brushed it asside saying it was because we've known eachother for well over 12 years now.

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Posted by csdude55
OK, I'll answer. I don't care if it's a trap, you guys don't really know me and I don't know you, so who cares?


I'm definitely a voyeur. Watching a girl masturbate is the hotting thing in the world.


I prefer foreplay to actual penetration. If I had to choose between giving oral OR having sex, but not both, I'd choose giving oral every time.


Shaved smooth is a rule, not a guideline.


I've also always had a thing for interracial, and since this is your hookup and not you boyfriend... if you're open to threesomes then an interracial threesome would be wonderful TBH, though, in reality a threesome really isn't that fun. I would much rather watch two girls go at it than try to join in.


If you haven't noticed, the general theme here is that my biggest turn on is watching you orgasm. All of my kinks and fetishes seem to revolve around that same thing.


Things I don't really like:


water sex


role playing


BDSM... I'm OK with light bondage and spanking, as long as I'm the dominant, but I definitely don't like being tied up and being spanked does nothing for me... it's actually a bit of a turn off.

Posted by MiZLeo
My Virgo told me the other day he is a voyer.... If that helps?

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Posted by Caliscorpio
it is not a trap! ahha come on guys we just want to know how to love you

You should know how to love us.

Weren't we the same sign at one point?

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Posted by coldwateryvirgo
I'm pretty much ur hook up guy . We have the same chart . I also have no issue with anal ??‍♀️

Posted by OrGasMe

Posted by Caliscorpio

Posted by OrGasMe

Posted by Caliscorpio
people on here act like everything is so black and white. but emotions do not work that way. I have disappeared from many people i have loved. usually it happens when i feel i have been disrespected or not given the love i feel i deserve. when i reappear I want that person to talk to me about what happened. and apologize. the only problem is that most people don't even realize they did something to hurt me.

That's your own issue then. Learn to communicate your problems. Don't expect people to figure it out. That's playing mind games imo.


Be a problem-solver if you really care about that person.

I never said it wasnt my issue. I owned up to it and admit it. I answered her question from my perspective. I have what is referred to as an avoident attachment style . When i dont feel love back i walk away. I never expect them to but if they are right for me they do. I dont have time in my life for people like that. I act on my emotions. Maybe you should reflect on why you were so triggered by me and felt the need to rudely comment back to a stranger on the internet. spread love or nothing at all.

I still have trouble with 'avoidant attachment' so I get it...


That's not what I was referring to. You said you expect people to come back to you and apologize without you explaining what the issue was. You even admitted most people don't even realize they've done you wrong.


That would mean that you lack the communication to address what's bothering you. Which makes it your problem. Not anyone else's. In fact, if situations like that are reoccurring then it's best to introspect why that might be. I have no problem with critique and self-analyzation.


I'm not triggered and it wasn't meant to be rude. You gave your opinion; I gave mine. I'm sorry you were so quickly offended by a differing opinion-- maybe it's best for you to reflect ✌??

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Posted by OrGasMe

Posted by Caliscorpio
people on here act like everything is so black and white. but emotions do not work that way. I have disappeared from many people i have loved. usually it happens when i feel i have been disrespected or not given the love i feel i deserve. when i reappear I want that person to talk to me about what happened. and apologize. the only problem is that most people don't even realize they did something to hurt me.

That's your own issue then. Learn to communicate your problems. Don't expect people to figure it out. That's playing mind games imo.


Be a problem-solver if you really care about that person.

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