cancercutie joined July 18, 2006
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same here i am interested in dating a taurus man becuase they sound like the type of man that i could relate to. i too have dated a fellow cancer and that was a joke to sya the least! none of us would make the first move and i found him irretating, i am currently dating a virgo (or so i think!) if you've dated one you'll understand! and pisces whilst really nice and easy to relate to is not strong enough for me, heck i cannot stand a guy who has more moods than me! haha
Hi there i just wanted to ask my fellow crabs about their experiences. I know that alot of people have our star sign as moody and sensitive but am wondering if any of you have been told that you are suffering with depression?
i know that peoples life experiences have alot to do with personalities and am not jsut basing this down to star sign but nevertheless was curious to find out if any of you have been told that you suffer with it and which way you went forward.
A few years ago i was told by my doctor that my glass was half empty but never half full which was true at the time, i felt that in recent years things have been much more positive however after having a meeting with my manager today at work she said that i resemble someone who's glass is always half empty and never half full! so that sent me spiralling into my thoughts that maybe the situation isnt over. I also have a cancerian friend who has suffered with depression and she had undergone counselling yet again she still seems to focuss too much on the negative side of life.
So is it that we are just naturally pessimistic? or is there a depressive side to the crab? any thoughts on this?
i know that peoples life experiences have alot to do with personalities and am not jsut basing this down to star sign but nevertheless was curious to find out if any of you have been told that you suffer with it and which way you went forward.
A few years ago i was told by my doctor that my glass was half empty but never half full which was true at the time, i felt that in recent years things have been much more positive however after having a meeting with my manager today at work she said that i resemble someone who's glass is always half empty and never half full! so that sent me spiralling into my thoughts that maybe the situation isnt over. I also have a cancerian friend who has suffered with depression and she had undergone counselling yet again she still seems to focuss too much on the negative side of life.
So is it that we are just naturally pessimistic? or is there a depressive side to the crab? any thoughts on this?
thanks guys, i will try and reassure him that although i dont like what he is doing that i am still going to stick around until something shows me otherwise, that is if he ever calls me again!
oh i see what you mean, he already knows i guess that is why he is not communicating with me, i gues i'll just see how long it takes for him to be back to normal again, if not i guess it is time to move on, i figure that if we cannot talk about the small things then what happends when we get to the big ones, it's a shame because i thought we were close enough to talk about our relationship but it seems as though from the start we could talk about anything else but US
ok, forgive me i am new to all these terms, what do you mean by assumption mood?
No we are not an online couple that is where we met as friends and then virtual reality became real life when we met up last year, we have been spending nearlly every friday-sunday together since then apart from a few occassions when finances did not allow.Although since i voiced a concern he hasnt come down in two weeks, this is strnage to me because i didnt put it in an agressive way just asked what his intentions were.
Caprigirlwithvirgo, yes maybe it is the season!!
Caprigirlwithvirgo, yes maybe it is the season!!
P-Angel, that is my thoughts exactly, if there is nothing in it then why hide. I am not even bothered that much anymore that he is on that site more the effect that it seems to be having on the relationships in terms of his intrest, oh well if that is the case then i will leave him to it.
Qbone, thanks for reading my post, yes we agreed that we were exclusive from before we entered into a relationship and confirmed it again at the beginning of the "official" relationship
Qbone, thanks for reading my post, yes we agreed that we were exclusive from before we entered into a relationship and confirmed it again at the beginning of the "official" relationship
I take on board what you are saying P-Angel and thank you for reading my post. Please do not misunderstand when i say play with, i meant that in lighthearted terms, no offence meant. The relationship between us this far has been quite intense so i could do with a few light hearted laughs!!
Yes it was me who had the problem with the site,and you are quite right, i initiated the conversation, yes i has to do with the fact that we both met on there as friends initially and that is also where he met his previous girlfriend. Another part which i forgot to mention was that when he spent time at my home (over a weekend) he would go on there but hide the screen when i came into the room.
So the combined fact of secrecy and that from the type of messages between members of the opposite sex that circulate there, i put it to him that we cooled off the site for a while, i guess it is about my insecurities and i know that if he wants to cheat he doesnt need the help of the site to do it.
I guess what bothers me is the lack of communication this conversation has lead to and where what this might mean
Yes it was me who had the problem with the site,and you are quite right, i initiated the conversation, yes i has to do with the fact that we both met on there as friends initially and that is also where he met his previous girlfriend. Another part which i forgot to mention was that when he spent time at my home (over a weekend) he would go on there but hide the screen when i came into the room.
So the combined fact of secrecy and that from the type of messages between members of the opposite sex that circulate there, i put it to him that we cooled off the site for a while, i guess it is about my insecurities and i know that if he wants to cheat he doesnt need the help of the site to do it.
I guess what bothers me is the lack of communication this conversation has lead to and where what this might mean
Hi everyone, i am (thought i was) currently in a relationship with a virgo male.
I know that several women on these boards have talked about virgo men and their charecteristics which i am familiar with, but wanted to post my situation to see if anyone can help clarify my current position and also if i am the one that is getting pi $ $ ed over nothing!!
Both me and my boo met on a website, it wasnt a dating website more of a social network and for the first 6 months whilst we were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend, he wasnt ready. Come the new year he said he wanted a relationship but there has been a big problem!! (well according to me!)
We both agreed last year that we would no longer go on the website that we met on, this is because although it is a social network typically men talk to women and women talk to men, however aroudn about march he posted back up his profile and his pics and has been on there several times for the day. Now i appreiciate that he lives far away and doesnt always get the chance to network, but he also lives a complicated life style in terms of family connections and commitments, work, study and everything else that goes on for him. I told myself that this should not be a problem, but last week he guessed that something was up with my tone of voice but we didnt get to finish the conversation as his phone cut out. I heard nothing more from him all last week (coincidently he was logging into the website!)and by friday i had to have a conversation with him...the converstaion was along the lines that he doenst see what the problem is and that is his way of socialising and anyway he doesnt have time to go one there and there are bigger things in life to deal with. In the end i didnt say much but graciously ended the conversation and again have heard nothing from him.
This might seem silly, but from the time we met, he has called me everyday, somtimes 3 or more times for the day to update me or let off steam about something at work, when he has an assignment to hand in i stay up with him on the phone checking it through and the rest, i stayed patient while he had problems with his daughters mothers, laugh, talk and cry that is how it has always been. But now, since last week, there has been nothing, no phonecall not even to see if i am ok. It's like he doesnt care anymore.
Was i wrong to bring up the website issue? Do you think my greatest fear that he would move on or find something else to play with come true
I know that several women on these boards have talked about virgo men and their charecteristics which i am familiar with, but wanted to post my situation to see if anyone can help clarify my current position and also if i am the one that is getting pi $ $ ed over nothing!!
Both me and my boo met on a website, it wasnt a dating website more of a social network and for the first 6 months whilst we were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend, he wasnt ready. Come the new year he said he wanted a relationship but there has been a big problem!! (well according to me!)
We both agreed last year that we would no longer go on the website that we met on, this is because although it is a social network typically men talk to women and women talk to men, however aroudn about march he posted back up his profile and his pics and has been on there several times for the day. Now i appreiciate that he lives far away and doesnt always get the chance to network, but he also lives a complicated life style in terms of family connections and commitments, work, study and everything else that goes on for him. I told myself that this should not be a problem, but last week he guessed that something was up with my tone of voice but we didnt get to finish the conversation as his phone cut out. I heard nothing more from him all last week (coincidently he was logging into the website!)and by friday i had to have a conversation with him...the converstaion was along the lines that he doenst see what the problem is and that is his way of socialising and anyway he doesnt have time to go one there and there are bigger things in life to deal with. In the end i didnt say much but graciously ended the conversation and again have heard nothing from him.
This might seem silly, but from the time we met, he has called me everyday, somtimes 3 or more times for the day to update me or let off steam about something at work, when he has an assignment to hand in i stay up with him on the phone checking it through and the rest, i stayed patient while he had problems with his daughters mothers, laugh, talk and cry that is how it has always been. But now, since last week, there has been nothing, no phonecall not even to see if i am ok. It's like he doesnt care anymore.
Was i wrong to bring up the website issue? Do you think my greatest fear that he would move on or find something else to play with come true
Hi everyone, i am (thought i was) currently in a relationship with a virgo male.
I knwo that several women on these boards have talked about virgo men and their charecteristics whihc i am familiar with, but wanted to post my situation to see if anyone can help clarify my current position and also if i am the one that is getting pi $ $ ed over nothing!!
Both me and my boo met on a website, it wasnt a dating website more of a social network and for the first 6 months whilst we were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend, he wasnt ready. Come the new year he go ahead for the relationship but there has been a big problem!! (well according to me!)
We both agreed last year that we would no longer go on the website that we met on, this is because although it is a social network typically men talk to women and women talk to men, however aroudn about march he posted back up his profile and his pics and has been on there several times for the day. Now i appreiciate that he lives far away and doesnt always get the chance to network, but he also lives a complicated life style in terms of family connections and commitments, work, study and everything else that goes on for him. I told myself that this should not be a problem, but last week he guessed that something was up with my tone of voice but we didnt get to finish the conversation as his phone cut out. I heard nothing more from him all last week (coincidently he was logging into the website!)and by friday i had to have a conversation with him...the converstaion was along the lines that he doenst see what the problem is and that is his way of socialising and anyway he doesnt have time to go one there and there are bigger things in life to deal with. In the end i didnt say much but graciously ended the conversation and again have heard nothing from him.
This might seem silly, but from the time we met, he has called me everyday, somtimes 3 or more times for the day to update me or let off steam about something at work, when he has an assignment to hand in i stay up with him on the phone checking it through and the rest, i stayed patient while he had problems with his daughters mothers, laugh, talk and cry that is how it has always been. But now, since last week, there has been nothing, no phonecall not even to see if i am ok. It's like he doesnt care anymore.
Was i wrong to bring up the website issue? Do you think my greatest fear that he would move on or find something else to play with come true?
I knwo that several women on these boards have talked about virgo men and their charecteristics whihc i am familiar with, but wanted to post my situation to see if anyone can help clarify my current position and also if i am the one that is getting pi $ $ ed over nothing!!
Both me and my boo met on a website, it wasnt a dating website more of a social network and for the first 6 months whilst we were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend, he wasnt ready. Come the new year he go ahead for the relationship but there has been a big problem!! (well according to me!)
We both agreed last year that we would no longer go on the website that we met on, this is because although it is a social network typically men talk to women and women talk to men, however aroudn about march he posted back up his profile and his pics and has been on there several times for the day. Now i appreiciate that he lives far away and doesnt always get the chance to network, but he also lives a complicated life style in terms of family connections and commitments, work, study and everything else that goes on for him. I told myself that this should not be a problem, but last week he guessed that something was up with my tone of voice but we didnt get to finish the conversation as his phone cut out. I heard nothing more from him all last week (coincidently he was logging into the website!)and by friday i had to have a conversation with him...the converstaion was along the lines that he doenst see what the problem is and that is his way of socialising and anyway he doesnt have time to go one there and there are bigger things in life to deal with. In the end i didnt say much but graciously ended the conversation and again have heard nothing from him.
This might seem silly, but from the time we met, he has called me everyday, somtimes 3 or more times for the day to update me or let off steam about something at work, when he has an assignment to hand in i stay up with him on the phone checking it through and the rest, i stayed patient while he had problems with his daughters mothers, laugh, talk and cry that is how it has always been. But now, since last week, there has been nothing, no phonecall not even to see if i am ok. It's like he doesnt care anymore.
Was i wrong to bring up the website issue? Do you think my greatest fear that he would move on or find something else to play with come true?
Hi everyone, i am in search of a little direction!! I am a cancerian and had a brief encounter with a Pisces once which was out of this world! i hear we are a good match. Well, i am now single again and out there looking, but i am hoping to catch me a Pisces!! I was just wondering, if a Piscean was single, where would they look to find love, i hear that you are not one to hang at the clubs, and there dont seem to be many online in the dating websites, so what type of places would you go to meet people who might be single as well.
I hope you guys can help
many thanks
Cancercutie
I hope you guys can help
many thanks
Cancercutie
Hi everyone, do forgive me for intruding on the Pisces board, but i am in search of a little direction!! I am a cancerian and had a brief encounter with a Pisces once which was out of this world! i hear we are a good match. Well, i am now single again and out there looking, but i am hoping to catch me a Pisces!! I was just wondering, if a Piscean was single, where would they look to find love, i hear that you are not one to hang at the clubs, and there dont seem to be many online in the dating websites, so what type of places would you go to meet people who might be single as well.
I hope you guys can help
many thanks
Cancercutie
I hope you guys can help
many thanks
Cancercutie
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