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cancerous joined December 27, 2012
35 years old female from USA
Cancer Sun Scorpio Moon Libra Rising Cancer Mercury Leo Venus Leo Mars
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Posted by BlackIndian22
@Cancerous Well it would be your descendant sign. Since you have a libra rising, your descendant is Leo. So you might attract fire signs or Leos. Which is what you are experiencing now. I have aquarius descendant. Your descendant describes the partners you attract or attracted too. We might be attracted to the qualities they have.


haha actually I have aries descendant.. does the same thing apply too? I don't attract any aries signs or run into any at all... but I'm not sure if I run into any "Arian" energies either :/
My boyfriend has sag mars in the 1st house (but scorpio rising), but I don't know if that is considered arian.
what would make this moon placement "strong"? I have scorpio moon in the 1st house but I have moon conjunct pluto, moon square venus/mars (both 10th house), and venus/mars square pluto.
I have to say that my moon does make me feel very intensely and I am probably capable of manipulation to a degree, but I never use it for selfish reasons and I am not one to take revenge or do things out of spite, like I have seen in others.
I also attract a lot of Geminis & Libras too! Lately a lot of Leos though..
But what I noticed in all the people I encountered were that they all had quite a bit of fixed energy in them or all had sag moons... ha..!
I'm actually trying to find a pattern as to why I attract a ton of air signs and fire moons.
I'm also a Cancer sun/Scorpio moon.
my aqua seems to be pretty darn affectionate from the get-go, private or public.. strangely especially more-so in certain cases in public, like waiting in lines or at cashiers (lots of back rubbing, but lots of kissing on the head and lips and all that), which makes me feel a tad uncomfortable considering I'm not used to a very showy amount of PDA..
Love the affection and touchiness though but I just feel awkward when getting tons of stares when taken up a couple notches
Posted by capgirl69
Posted by cancerous

"When they're interested, they will test the waters with you first with some innocuous comment, see if you'll bite. Once you do, they will be circumspect and will put you through a series of "interviews" and tests. They have high standards and have a definite checklist of criteria set in mind.


True for me. Sun/Mercury/Venus in Cap
Posted by cancerous

Once you meet every single one of the requirements, they will treat you very well.


I do think I treat someone well from the get go, regardless of how I feel about them. I am always polite and respectful. I can not, however, fake it if I do not like you. At least not for long.
Posted by cancerous

HOWEVER. They're hypergamous. Meaning, they'll stay with you until someone "better" (whatever this means in their little book of criteria) comes along.


True for me unless I have made a commitment. Once I make a commitment, I will do whatever I can to work things out with someone. I just have to decide the person is worth working on things with. If there is no commitment, if the guy is wishy-washy and there is no title or definition, then I will play with them until someone better comes along, absolutely, yes.
If I have made a commitment, there will be no one else. I will literally stop noticing other people, will not even look at them. (though I do have a Scorpio moon so maybe that is why)
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My boyfriend also has the same aspects as you (except he is Cap/Aqua sun cusp, but like that makes too much of a difference :p ...maybe)

So, if you are in a committed relationship and pretty serious about it (regardless of however long or short it may be), if someone does happen to come along and happens to be well endowed financially or have whatever things your S.O may lack, would you feel more inclined to walk away to this next best thing, or ignore it and continue on with the relationship?(not saying this is true for me, but wondering in a given situation)
I read this from another forum, and I am wondering how many Venus in Caps can relate to this:
"When they're interested, they will test the waters with you first with some innocuous comment, see if you'll bite. Once you do, they will be circumspect and will put you through a series of "interviews" and tests. They have high standards and have a definite checklist of criteria set in mind. Once you meet every single one of the requirements, they will treat you very well. HOWEVER. They're hypergamous. Meaning, they'll stay with you until someone "better" (whatever this means in their little book of criteria) comes along. Or if he loses his job or goes down a few notches in social status, he will no longer feel worthy of you, so he may behave like a jerk so that you'll dump him like he deserves."
I found this interesting because before I read this, I knew someone with venus in this sign as well, and another hypothesized him as someone who seemed like he would stay with someone until someone "better" came along eventually.
What do you guys think? Any truth to this?Laughing ..
Hmm that's very interesting. I think I have expressed and talked about my jealousy of others to very few close friends haha, other than that, I will try to repress it and maintain that "poker face" because I don't like to show feelings of that sort to others..
When I go out to hang out with friends (I have a lot of guy friends mostly though), I like to let my Aqua/scorp know what I'm up to so he knows what I'm doing and where I'm at. Btw I don't believe in playing the whole mind game thing, I like to bring security in both ourselves and in others Big Grin Well, sometimes it seems he ignores my texts for severalll hours or he will seem oddly cheerful about it (like going out to lunch for example?? What is so increasingly exciting about that haha) that it makes me wonder if he is really okay with me hanging out with certain guy friends?
Hard to say, since, well like I said, he told me he "never get jealous with girlfriends".. haha.
Is there such a thing as a Scorpio moon who doesn't get jealous? For example, in terms of dating and relationships?
How do each sign with Scorpio moon act or deal with jealousy in others and in themselves?
If you are a scorpio moon, how do you deal with it in yourself and in others? (What is your sun/venus/mars?)
I always read how these moon signs experience the extremes of both sides, and are very intense.
Being a Scorpio mooner myself, I can relate to a lot of the descriptions said about these people. I have a Cancer sun and Venus/Mars in Leo, (also scorpio pluto) and I think the whole moon/pluto square venus/mars kinda contributes to the whole push/pull feeling I have inside. I tend to feel extremes (when I like, it's very much so), I don't necessarily hate but if you get on my bad side, you're pretty much dead to me, as I believe in honesty, trust, and loyalty, furthermore, mutual RESPECT.
I do experience jealousy sometimes depending on the circumstances but have learned to control it from within, so I do not like to let it out or express such sort of emotions (which I know, is kinda bad to hold in so much feelings).. I don't do the whole revenge thing though, I think that is just silly and waste of breath to retaliate.
However, I am dating another Scorpio mooner (Cap/Aqua sun cusp Jan 20) with Cap venus and Sag mars.) He says he doesn't get jealous which is hard for me to believe and understand because I think to an extent, everyone experiences this regardless! Sounds like BS to me... He also seems pretty calm too, doesn't react as strongly to a lot of things that I know of. Definitely doesn't act like the Capricorn or Aquas I've read about -- he seems more outgoing and has a bit of bubbliness to him too.
Can anyone relate to this? What causes you personally to experience these types of feelings?
dern. My bf is a Jan 20 cap-aqua cusp haha. Guess he didn't make the cut list!
my boyfriend is Aqua sun, scorpio moon & pluto (12th house) too, and he seems pretty intense too (although not entirely when it comes to emotions and speaking too much about them).... but I love it..! It could be because I also have a scorpio moon as well, and I love all things deep and intense and powerful, ha :/
Posted by xdimplez
i dated a scorpio...not only suns but scorpio moons also. i am also a scorpio mooner so i can relate
pursuing= you my dear, dont pursue. you let them pursue you...they like the challenge. they dont like it when its easy..sure they will still take them easy, but the better prize is the one they can win. dont act like you dont care too much, you gotta throw the dog a bone every once in a while. in other words, show you are interested back
dating/ courtship= the beginning stage is always amazing. they are definately romantics..you may also want to look at their venus sign. but let me just say this... they give you a TASTE of what its like...this goes away, because once you have crossed that line with them...the games and testing begin
in a relationship= you will get tested the fuck out of them. i know i said mind games before..because thats how it feels like...a mind fuuuck. in but in reality, they just want to see if they can trust you..i mean really trust you..because when a scorpio gives you that trust..its not only a key to his heart...but his soul. once you have passed the test, you will start to become the center of his world. their love is all consuming.
their will still be rough patches in the relationship, but you will find yourself a loyal and faithful partner once you get a scorpio to truly love you.


Hey xdimplez, what was your experience like with dating scorpio mooners like yourself? And was it with other Air sun signs?
I'm also currently seeing someone with a scorpio moon (and I am one as well), and he's an Aqua sun.. I've heard a ton of people tell me that I'm super unpredictable and hard to figure out at times, but this may actually be the first time I've met someone I am actually saying the same about! I'm curious as to how this combination goes, since he seems to be very serious about me and expresses that verbally (like saying he wants to be with me for the rest of his life..! WOW...) but somehow lately the past couple weeks I could suddenly "feel" a difference.. like something was suddenly off and he wasn't really talking to me as much or perhaps even the same way either.
It's kind of hard to predict things with him. Maybe if anyone else can pitch in about this (it suits the air/water thread) it would help a bunch! If it helps, his moon is in 12th house, venus cap in 2nd (possibly 3rd though..), mars sag in 1st (...pos
I have Moon/Pluto in Scorpio in 1st house and my bf has Moon/Pluto in Scorpio as well but in 12th house, as well as a Scorpio Asc.
Would 1st house description suit the both of us equally then?

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I read this from another forum, and I am wondering how many Venus in Caps can relate to this: When they're intereste
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Is there such a thing as a Scorpio moon who doesn't get jealous? For example, in terms of dating and relationships?
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For a man of this placement: Aquarius/Capricorn cusp sun (jan 20) scorpio moon capricorn venus sagittarius mars
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