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I have to add that something isn't on the up and up. If a Scorp likes you, they want to tell the world about you, show you off to all their friends. Doesn't sound like this Mr. Scorp.
I had a relationship once with a guy that was basically online based(although I did see him from time to time). So I will tell you this and hopefully it sheds some light on your situation as well. I absorbed everything the guy said in email. I read and reread his emails, yet my responses were very controlled. No way I was gonna let on how I felt for him until I was sure that his feelings were sincere. So even though you feel your Scorpio is playing games, it doesn't sound like it to me. She is a typical Scorp woman.
This guy was so complimentary to me, yet I felt uncomfortable with the compliments. That's a Scorp thing. Doesn't mean that you aren't sincere, it's just not easy for us to accept them.
If I could offer any advice, I would tell you, just because she hasn't responded to you admitting your feelings for her, doesn't mean she doesn't have feelings for you. She might just be waiting for validation(from herself)to admit she feels the same about you. Don't give up!!!!
This guy was so complimentary to me, yet I felt uncomfortable with the compliments. That's a Scorp thing. Doesn't mean that you aren't sincere, it's just not easy for us to accept them.
If I could offer any advice, I would tell you, just because she hasn't responded to you admitting your feelings for her, doesn't mean she doesn't have feelings for you. She might just be waiting for validation(from herself)to admit she feels the same about you. Don't give up!!!!
ewashington7000, popping in to say thank you for your service to our country.
I agree with LS on all aspects of her post. If I am not interested, I will avoid you. Not only applies to love interests, but people I dislike as well.
And I vote yes as well about the nice smile!!!!
And I vote yes as well about the nice smile!!!!
Sounds to me like his persistance is exactly what I would do if I liked someone. Scorps are known for 'not giving up' if they want something. If he is 'struggling' to have time with the Gemini, he's not totally into her. If he was, you wouldn't be anything more than a mere memory to him.
Yes, I have. Great while it lasted but when he decided to bail, he didn't say I, yes, no, kiss my butt...nothing. Very immature behavior if you ask me. And ya, my stinger is ready!!!!!
What makes you like someone?
.....It could be looks, it could be personality, it could be the way we interact.
How fast do you know you like someone?
.....Pretty quickly..but like Scorpio Chic says, the other person will not know it, until I know that the other person has feelings as well.
How long does it take you to realize it and act on it?
.....As stated previously, I know it in my heart early on, but I won't act on it until I know the other person can be trusted with my feelings.
Do you step back after the initial contact only to reappear later ?
.....If you are referring to stepping back while getting to know someone, I do tend to take 3 steps forward and two steps back, assessing the other person's behavior to see if it's safe to continue.
How close will you let someone you care for in opposed to someone you do not? Ex. You have known someone for a short time how much info do you divulge to them?
.....Not much. Superficial info, but the deep stuff doesn't come til much later if at all.
.....It could be looks, it could be personality, it could be the way we interact.
How fast do you know you like someone?
.....Pretty quickly..but like Scorpio Chic says, the other person will not know it, until I know that the other person has feelings as well.
How long does it take you to realize it and act on it?
.....As stated previously, I know it in my heart early on, but I won't act on it until I know the other person can be trusted with my feelings.
Do you step back after the initial contact only to reappear later ?
.....If you are referring to stepping back while getting to know someone, I do tend to take 3 steps forward and two steps back, assessing the other person's behavior to see if it's safe to continue.
How close will you let someone you care for in opposed to someone you do not? Ex. You have known someone for a short time how much info do you divulge to them?
.....Not much. Superficial info, but the deep stuff doesn't come til much later if at all.
Well said Let*It*Be!
No not ALWAYS plotting or scheming against people. I don't know why Scorpios always have to EXPLAIN themselves.
EVIL is very strong terminology!! If this is how you catergorize your friend, perhaps she has a good reason to treat you the way she's treating you.
EVIL is very strong terminology!! If this is how you catergorize your friend, perhaps she has a good reason to treat you the way she's treating you.
Posted by shishno
we went out a couple times with some friends. we get along great! I wanted to date. she wanted to be friends. I told her I wasn't gay. blabla she's making up excuses when I did ask her out again. I then told her to quit wasting my time and I defriended her on my facebook.
There comes a point when a man needs to be a man and notice the signs of rejection and be the first to do the rejecting. she messaged me back.. I didn't reply...
I was starting to like her but I didn't want to be stuck in the friends zone.
I think she likes me too because she has been giving me the eye flirting attention for over a year and just last month started hanging out and giving her a try. She keeps saying im hot and cute and all the good things a cancer man LOVES to hear but she just wants to be friends nothing more. I don't understan! in my head im like.. FUK That!
I think I hurt her feelings... moving on. I'll miss her..
Hmmmm...sounds to me like she rejected you first!
I'm like that too SC. I am calm, cool and collected and do whatever to get along with people. But antagonize me, and watch out! I don't necessarily think that is a Scorp thing, it can be in any sign. Don't really feel that I am 'sarcastic' either, in fact I am more the quiet type. Might be thinking it, but rarely say it...just don't get under my skin...LOL!!
*****I had a friend who said something similar to what you said, "be ready that if you end things you are ready for it" meaning...that some scorpios take at heart what you say and when feeling scared dont fight for things...so they let them be even if they want something really bad
I don't know if scared is the right word, but Scorps tend to analyze the situation over and over again. Also remember something else about Scorps(can only speak for the women..don't know about guys)but they don't like 'weak' people. By weak, I am not talking physically, but emotionally. I know myself that wishy washy people absolutely send me up the preverbial wall!!!!
I am sensing that you have problems communicating face to face. You said you were prepared to break up with this girl via text. Then you said that you wrote her a letter. It's easy to write your feelings down, but sometimes you have to do a face to face, because you can't see facial expressions and emotions on a piece of paper or a screen. If there is any possibility for the two of you, you both have to start showing your emotions.
As I have been following this, you talk about her and her busy-ness alot. You don't want to upset her now being it's her last weeks of school. What about you? Why aren't you considering your feelings? Put yourself first Truth, don't let her world become 'you'.
I don't know if scared is the right word, but Scorps tend to analyze the situation over and over again. Also remember something else about Scorps(can only speak for the women..don't know about guys)but they don't like 'weak' people. By weak, I am not talking physically, but emotionally. I know myself that wishy washy people absolutely send me up the preverbial wall!!!!
I am sensing that you have problems communicating face to face. You said you were prepared to break up with this girl via text. Then you said that you wrote her a letter. It's easy to write your feelings down, but sometimes you have to do a face to face, because you can't see facial expressions and emotions on a piece of paper or a screen. If there is any possibility for the two of you, you both have to start showing your emotions.
As I have been following this, you talk about her and her busy-ness alot. You don't want to upset her now being it's her last weeks of school. What about you? Why aren't you considering your feelings? Put yourself first Truth, don't let her world become 'you'.
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