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So I have this crush...it's been 8 years since I had a crush...I've been in a relationship for a long time and so this is all new to me...there is this Taurus at work...and we are both obviously attracted to one another...we did the passive- aggressive thing for a while...one would play coy while the other made the effort...etc...well finally the Taurus came around and realized I was tired of the back and forth, so I began to ignore him...and now this week every day he has spoken to me...but I get so shy...unless he comes out and speaks to me directly I pretty much ignore him...it's horrible...but this man intimidates me!!! Normally I am so confident...I don't know if it's because I am worried everyone around me notices...or it's been so long that I felt anything for someone new...but this is all so crazy to me...we can't even be in a group conversation without wanting to smile when we catch each others stare...how do I handle this??? Any advice...
I work with a Taurus that I have grown to not care about - at all. She started out friendly and helpful and quickly turned bi-polar. I was warned about her but as a Pisces I like to see things for myself. Now you never know what mood you will get. She overcompensates for whatever misery she has going on outside of the office. She has medical conditions she constantly complains about, which I once cared about but no longer do. I can tolerate alot but once I feel disrespected, I quickly shut-down. I work in a demanding field and we are all overwhelmed...but her constant need to complain, snap and then act like your best friend the next day is beyond draining. I usually "ok" her to death...and try my best not to take her snappiness personally...but it's beyond that...we are adults and should be able to work professionally...so how do I deal with someone who constantly apologizes for the same behavior every time you call her out on it? Her apologies expired past the same 3rd offense...how do you remain professional but put someone in their place???
TaurusBull1977 - I am not ignoring him to get a reaction...I tried several times to at least forge a friendship...I would be more than content with that...but he insists on playing these games, and I am not interested...he'll talk to every single person in the office...I've made it easy for him to at least be a friend...I get it, the attraction can make that hard...but him ignoring and playing childish games is something I don't have time for...when he decides he wants to act like a grown man, we can be friends...no hard feelings, but the attraction on my end is over...
This man is so frustrating that I finally retreated back to my shell...I ignored him all day yesterday...pretended he wasn't even in the office...and he did everything to try and get my attention...how juvenile...from staring, to throwing things when I was talking to a group of people...etc...everything but just come over and say hi...I was working on something late and he was hanging around waiting for people to leave...umm, no thanks...I'm not making this convenient for him...so while he was talking to someone I grabbed my things and left for the evening...if he wants my attention, then come and get it the normal way...
Very interesting...I have a Taurus at work who makes it obvious he finds me attractive...but one week he'll take the initiative to talk to me, the next week he ignores me, the next he is trying to make me jealous...and then he goes back to being coy...it's really frustrating...I am a Pisces...and totally take my time with things...and his hot & cold game, makes me weary so I know I give back the same frustrating signals...I feel like it's hard to find common ground...and I get turned off when I feel like games are being played...
How do Taurus' act when they like you? I go back and forth with thinking this guy can sense I am attracted and he's just having fun with me...or whether he feels the same and is just as awkward as I am...
We both seem to be playing the hot and cold game very well...and it's frustrating...
We both seem to be playing the hot and cold game very well...and it's frustrating...
So I am a Pisces, with an Aquarius Moon and Cancer Rising??_I come across cool on the surface but deep inside I definitely can be emotional??_when it comes to relationships I do not like to pursue but I am very hot and cold??_it??s hard for me to show emotions until a commitment has been made to me??_
With all that said, I am encountering my first experience with a Taurus??_who I work with??_O.M.G??_.we went from never talking??_I mean this man would walk right passed me??_but would talk to everyone else in the office??_finally we start to talk a bit??_and I mean as much as I wanted to play it cool??_my blushing definitely gave me up??_I thought it was a one-sided thing, even though I had the sneaking suspicion that he did at least find me attractive??_fast forward??_we now sit close to one another??_and he would make any excuse to talk to me but it was always by means of interjecting in group discussions I was having with people he is comfortable with??_and I noticed that when I looked directly at him that he would blush too??_it went so far as to him blatantly staring at me??_requesting me on a social media site??_and then it started to cool off??_we still made excuses to speak to one another??_but I think we??re a lot alike??_neither one of us wants to look like a fool??_we both blush when we look at each other yet I know we both try hard to grab one another??s attention??_it??s all one big high school game??_it can be fun but more than anything it is incredibly frustrating??_because all of this is based on assumptions??_
With all that said, I am encountering my first experience with a Taurus??_who I work with??_O.M.G??_.we went from never talking??_I mean this man would walk right passed me??_but would talk to everyone else in the office??_finally we start to talk a bit??_and I mean as much as I wanted to play it cool??_my blushing definitely gave me up??_I thought it was a one-sided thing, even though I had the sneaking suspicion that he did at least find me attractive??_fast forward??_we now sit close to one another??_and he would make any excuse to talk to me but it was always by means of interjecting in group discussions I was having with people he is comfortable with??_and I noticed that when I looked directly at him that he would blush too??_it went so far as to him blatantly staring at me??_requesting me on a social media site??_and then it started to cool off??_we still made excuses to speak to one another??_but I think we??re a lot alike??_neither one of us wants to look like a fool??_we both blush when we look at each other yet I know we both try hard to grab one another??s attention??_it??s all one big high school game??_it can be fun but more than anything it is incredibly frustrating??_because all of this is based on assumptions??_
I think that regardless of what happens with the Taurus...if you are not happy, then you should focus on that first...you may realize that your unhappiness just stems from wanting something you can't have...alot of times we fantasize about things that are all wrong for us...and what you have in front of you may be everything you want and more...but you need to focus on just one thing at a time...so I would say, focus on your marriage...try to really get to know your husband...and give it an honest try...if after that you realize, it's just not working...then walk away...then you can explore what you consider to be true love, with either the Taurus or the person you are meant to be with...
Am I seeing things that aren't there or is this typical Taurus behavior???
So I am a Pisces, with an Aquarius Moon and Cancer Rising??_I come across cool on the surface but deep inside I definitely can be emotional??_when it comes to relationships I do not like to pursue but I am very hot and cold??_it??s hard for me to show emotions until a commitment has been made to me??_
With all that said, I am encountering my first experience with a Taurus??_who I work with??_O.M.G??_.we went from never talking??_I mean this man would walk right passed me??_but would talk to everyone else in the office??_finally we start to talk a bit??_and I mean as much as I wanted to play it cool??_my blushing definitely gave me up??_I thought it was a one-sided thing, even though I had the sneaking suspicion that he did at least find me attractive??_fast forward??_we now sit close to one another??_and he would make any excuse to talk to me but it was always by means of interjecting in group discussions I was having with people he is comfortable with??_and I noticed that when I looked directly at him that he would blush too??_it went so far as to him blatantly staring at me??_requesting me on a social media site??_and then it started to cool off??_we still made excuses to speak to one another??_but I think we??re a lot alike??_neither one of us wants to look like a fool??_we both blush when we look at each other yet I know we both try hard to grab one another??s attention??_it??s all one big high school game??_it can be fun but more than anything it is incredibly frustrating??_because all of this is based on assumptions??_
With all that said, I am encountering my first experience with a Taurus??_who I work with??_O.M.G??_.we went from never talking??_I mean this man would walk right passed me??_but would talk to everyone else in the office??_finally we start to talk a bit??_and I mean as much as I wanted to play it cool??_my blushing definitely gave me up??_I thought it was a one-sided thing, even though I had the sneaking suspicion that he did at least find me attractive??_fast forward??_we now sit close to one another??_and he would make any excuse to talk to me but it was always by means of interjecting in group discussions I was having with people he is comfortable with??_and I noticed that when I looked directly at him that he would blush too??_it went so far as to him blatantly staring at me??_requesting me on a social media site??_and then it started to cool off??_we still made excuses to speak to one another??_but I think we??re a lot alike??_neither one of us wants to look like a fool??_we both blush when we look at each other yet I know we both try hard to grab one another??s attention??_it??s all one big high school game??_it can be fun but more than anything it is incredibly frustrating??_because all of this is based on assumptions??_
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So I have this crush...it's been 8 years since I had a crush...I've been in a relationship for a long time and so this i
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Taurus
I work with a Taurus that I have grown to not care about - at all. She started out friendly and helpful and quickly turn
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Taurus
How do Taurus' act when they like you? I go back and forth with thinking this guy can sense I am attracted and he's just
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Taurus
So I am a Pisces, with an Aquarius Moon and Cancer Rising??I come across cool on the surface but deep inside I definite
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