Crabby2thebone joined February 13, 2008
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I am pretty good at ignoring others, they usually think its because I hate them but in reality its me carefully studying them.
but when i am ignore I HATE IT! which usually means the other person will get a drink or feel the need to drink because I can be quiet annoying when I want to be, and when ignored I make the other person miserable until they answer me
but when i am ignore I HATE IT! which usually means the other person will get a drink or feel the need to drink because I can be quiet annoying when I want to be, and when ignored I make the other person miserable until they answer me
"So, was all this based around an expectation of an apology for something?"
no I was just letting the board know that i chose not to do so because I felt and still feel that i did nothing wrong and if I had apologize it would have been only to make good with him, and i never apologize when I am right. so this was me telling you guys what I ended up doing. And I know it did not factor in the walk.
my point as to the walk if i kliked someone and I had the opportunity to stay around the person longer i would, as neither of us were in the spot we usually went to, and i purposly stayed in the middle area so we were not too far from our usual spot.
no I was just letting the board know that i chose not to do so because I felt and still feel that i did nothing wrong and if I had apologize it would have been only to make good with him, and i never apologize when I am right. so this was me telling you guys what I ended up doing. And I know it did not factor in the walk.
my point as to the walk if i kliked someone and I had the opportunity to stay around the person longer i would, as neither of us were in the spot we usually went to, and i purposly stayed in the middle area so we were not too far from our usual spot.
"and dont apologize to him for every little bullbutter it will just annoy him."
Actually that is what I find annoying about him because he is always apologetic. he has said sorry to me quite a few times for trivial situations. he has done the same with others like trying to explain himself and all I kept thinking was he needs to stop being so apologetic especially when he has done nothing wrong.
I seldom apologize to people and that tends to be right away as oppose to after the fact.
Maybe I should not as I really felt annoyed by them. I did not scream or told them off but my body language was shouting she is not happy.
Actually that is what I find annoying about him because he is always apologetic. he has said sorry to me quite a few times for trivial situations. he has done the same with others like trying to explain himself and all I kept thinking was he needs to stop being so apologetic especially when he has done nothing wrong.
I seldom apologize to people and that tends to be right away as oppose to after the fact.
Maybe I should not as I really felt annoyed by them. I did not scream or told them off but my body language was shouting she is not happy.
he is 22 I think so we are both the same age.
now I am getting different, advice as to weither to apologize especially since i was right. Its just I could have been less harried and look less annoyed with them. but I feel really conflicted about the apology.
now I am getting different, advice as to weither to apologize especially since i was right. Its just I could have been less harried and look less annoyed with them. but I feel really conflicted about the apology.
He did sort of ruffle my water sensibilitie. And I know I am more so of the Problem with us not speaking than he did, for example when the whole situation occured he came to my desk to ask me about something but he stopped for a few second looked at me and I kept my eyes on my work the entire time hoping he'd say something but instead he gave up and went back to his work.
There is a part of me that feels she did nothing wrong (this is not the cancer pride speaking but logic) because they were really affecting my ability to work, but I seemed annoyed and rushed the entire time so I could tell they were hesitating to say anything to me the rest of the day or everytime I went in there area they would stare.
I find it hard to have a conversation with someone when we spent the last year not saying much, especially when I can see the awkwardness in his actions when ever we are talking. so our interactions are kept to hello and goodbye. I want more but cna't seem to find the courage. I am also a fire sign in both my ascending and moon.
I want to apologize but I don't know how he will react and that scares me. He may just think I am weird.
There is a part of me that feels she did nothing wrong (this is not the cancer pride speaking but logic) because they were really affecting my ability to work, but I seemed annoyed and rushed the entire time so I could tell they were hesitating to say anything to me the rest of the day or everytime I went in there area they would stare.
I find it hard to have a conversation with someone when we spent the last year not saying much, especially when I can see the awkwardness in his actions when ever we are talking. so our interactions are kept to hello and goodbye. I want more but cna't seem to find the courage. I am also a fire sign in both my ascending and moon.
I want to apologize but I don't know how he will react and that scares me. He may just think I am weird.
I am a cancer female and one the guy I like is an aries. Now I know aries are suppose to be very outgoing and he seems so with others, but not me. before you say he may not be into me my intuition tells me he is because I have often noticed him looking at me and its been about a year now and he seems awkward when it comes to talking to me -heck I think he is a quiet person by nature.
Any way don't want to reveal too much because you never know who is reading this. But said aries and I are in an area not familiar to us at all and we cam e iton this area knowing each other only, I thought finally here we will able to spaek to each other since neither of us no anyone else, but after 2 months we are still as distance and he particularly seems to have found people to talk to.
a last week a go aries and his closest companion who is female (I will admit I am a bit jealous of her even though I know she has a boyfriend and aside from being just girly she does not a thing for aries, and I know he still likes me. but Aries and friend were doing some things done and so was I but then they lets just say got in my territory and it stated affecting what I was doing and I became very grouchy and I sensed that aries and friend felt that I was annoyed with them and when it cam etime to ask me a question as usual aries cam up to me stood there and chose not to ask me for help and at that moment I felt bad, because it was not his fault just that his friend could have stayed in her own spot instead of wasting space and obstructing my ability to work.
so now, I was thinking should I apologize to aries for my attitude? what are my odds with him after this if any.
Any way don't want to reveal too much because you never know who is reading this. But said aries and I are in an area not familiar to us at all and we cam e iton this area knowing each other only, I thought finally here we will able to spaek to each other since neither of us no anyone else, but after 2 months we are still as distance and he particularly seems to have found people to talk to.
a last week a go aries and his closest companion who is female (I will admit I am a bit jealous of her even though I know she has a boyfriend and aside from being just girly she does not a thing for aries, and I know he still likes me. but Aries and friend were doing some things done and so was I but then they lets just say got in my territory and it stated affecting what I was doing and I became very grouchy and I sensed that aries and friend felt that I was annoyed with them and when it cam etime to ask me a question as usual aries cam up to me stood there and chose not to ask me for help and at that moment I felt bad, because it was not his fault just that his friend could have stayed in her own spot instead of wasting space and obstructing my ability to work.
so now, I was thinking should I apologize to aries for my attitude? what are my odds with him after this if any.
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Aries
well I finally spoke to aries last week, but never apologize for what happened before. anyway, so last week I finally
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Aries
hi everyone, placed this in the on the cancer board, but i guess you guys will have more insight in this. I am a canc
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Cancer
I am a cancer female and one the guy I like is an aries. Now I know aries are suppose to be very outgoing and he seems
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Joined: Feb 13, 2008 · Topics: 3 · Posts: 9