CuteCapri joined July 12, 2012
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So true so so true StillWater
Holy cow that is dead on girls. Sheesh!
Damn, I never knew Cap men were like this. I thought they were supposed to be loyal and honest, like us Cap ladies? WTF???
Good! So I don't need to feel bad because I found out that he still had/has the online dating account I met him on and noticed that it was still active. So I found that suspicious. Not to mention, we were dating for a few months now and he never brought me over to his house or introduced me to he daughter, even though she is just a toddler. But I always insisted that he bring her and we all do something together, just so that way we spend time with each other, but still no attempts on his end
Mind you, he always kept giving me the excuse as to why we haven't spent time is because of his busy schedule and him being a father. But isn't 3-4 weeks without any time together a little suspicious for anyone? Mind you I'm a Cap as well
Yesterday I broke off my relationship with my cap boyfriend because it seemed like he never wanted to spend time with me. I have been trying to make plans for me and him to do something together for the past few weeks and also asking him ahead of time. It seemed as though he stopped trying to spend time with me after I moved in with one of my friends for a little bit(just for me to save up enough). But it just seemed like he was purposely making other plans with other people. I was falling for him and it hurt me to have to end it but I didnt want to sit around and wait on him(in case he might have been having his own fun). I finally got fed up and told him that it didnt seem to work out the way I had hoped for me and him to. I even admitted to him that I was seeing myself fall for him. He in return respected my decision, admitted that he fell in love with me and cared deeply for me, and that he wishes nothing but the best for me. He also said that if I ever want to go out with him to let him know.
I was shocked that he admitted to me about the way he felt for me. I didn't know he felt this way seeing as to him not making any attempt to spend time with me. So, I responded to him say why he never told me before? And no response(this was in the morning) By the end of the night I wrote back asking him if he was alright because I hadn't heard from him since that morning...Still no response!
What I want to know is if he is alright? If he really meant the fact that he fell in love with me(because he hasn't responded back yet)? Why didn't show me how he felt(when you love someone, you try to make time with them)? Or if he's just blowing gun smoke up my alley?
I was shocked that he admitted to me about the way he felt for me. I didn't know he felt this way seeing as to him not making any attempt to spend time with me. So, I responded to him say why he never told me before? And no response(this was in the morning) By the end of the night I wrote back asking him if he was alright because I hadn't heard from him since that morning...Still no response!
What I want to know is if he is alright? If he really meant the fact that he fell in love with me(because he hasn't responded back yet)? Why didn't show me how he felt(when you love someone, you try to make time with them)? Or if he's just blowing gun smoke up my alley?
Posted by M
It smooths my rough cap edges and embues me with empathy... but makes me prone to hesitation, doubt, and sensitivity concerning actions/attitudes in others. In a nutshell, it pairs with my other aspects causing me to occasionally be more on the sentimental side.
If anything, there's resentment of how others see those outward characteristics (that's rising after all :p) and forego acknowledging the blend of things behind the shell.
Yea I'm a capricorn with caner rising and I totally agree with you. Its such a pain in the ass. And it doesn't help that Capricorn and Cancer are opposites. So that goes to show that we are our own opposites in constant battle with ourselves
Posted by M
It smooths my rough cap edges and embues me with empathy... but makes me prone to hesitation, doubt, and sensitivity concerning actions/attitudes in others. In a nutshell, it pairs with my other aspects causing me to occasionally be more on the sentimental side.
If anything, there's resentment of how others see those outward characteristics (that's rising after all :p) and forego acknowledging the blend of things behind the shell.
Yea I'm a capricorn with caner rising and I totally agree with you. Its such a pain in the ass. And it doesn't help that Capricorn and Cancer are opposites. So that goes to show that we are our own opposites in constant battle with ourselves
Posted by M
It smooths my rough cap edges and embues me with empathy... but makes me prone to hesitation, doubt, and sensitivity concerning actions/attitudes in others. In a nutshell, it pairs with my other aspects causing me to occasionally be more on the sentimental side.
If anything, there's resentment of how others see those outward characteristics (that's rising after all :p) and forego acknowledging the blend of things behind the shell.
Yea I'm a capricorn with caner rising and I totally agree with you. Its such a pain in the ass. And it doesn't help that Capricorn and Cancer are opposites. So that goes to show that we are our own opposites in constant battle with ourselves
Can someone explain to me why that's bad?
My sun is Capricorn
Moon in Pisces
Venus in Aquarius
Asc node Cancer
That's all I know, but I don't get it
My sun is Capricorn
Moon in Pisces
Venus in Aquarius
Asc node Cancer
That's all I know, but I don't get it
Pink I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. I've been in a similar situation as you and it took some time for the pain to go away. Something that may work is also focusing on bettering yourself in anyway possible. Build yourself and confidence up, and what better way than to get active and workout at the gym or fitness class, or even jogging. Get a workout buddy with one of your girls who will motivate you. When you notice yourself building strength and looking better, you will start feeling better. Plus, exercising will relieve some stress that you have pent up inside, including all the stress you have in your home.
You see, I've always thought the same thing. However, based on some books and articles that I've read previously, they've set time frames as to when you/him should introduce the family/friends. When ya'll should have sex (which may apply at times if its too early). When ya'll should say I love yous and so on. So I'm here confused as to what is right and what's wrong
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