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So today I found that he definitely has a new girlfriend.. He is a liar and a horrible person because he was blaming me for being jealous of her while they were 'just friends' and now he replaced me with her. I can't believe that I loved this person... I will never trust anyone like I trusted him.
Thank you all for the replies! I know I have to let him go, if only it was easier..
I will aim to have no contact until December when I have to meet him to pick up some things.
Time will show if he would miss me or get over me by then.
I will aim to have no contact until December when I have to meet him to pick up some things.
Time will show if he would miss me or get over me by then.
Scorpio guy and a Sagittarius me:
He broke up with me after 1 year and a couple of months. We had been fighting a lot recently. He said he doesn't feel the same way anymore (doesn't love me) but cares about me and wants to stay friends. I know that's almost impossible (for me). He even cried when he broke up with me over videochat (long distance). He claimed there is no other girl involved but I am not sure. After the break up I told him I want some time of no contact. He broke it off after about 3-4 days to ask me how I am.
Since the break up (3 weeks ago) he has texted me several times to just ask how I am, to tell me he cares and stuff. Once he asked me if I look at guys differently now, which made me think he is jealous. I told him it's none of his business and that I am following his advice to 'move on'. He said that I can follow my own advices (?).
The last time we texted he asked me how I would feel if he had a girlfriend. He claimed he didn't have one but I don't know whether to believe that. He said we better not talk until we see each other in December but a few days he texted me again.
When I spoke to some mutual friends they didn't even know the reason for the breakup even though it wasn't so recent.
My mind tells me he is probably just feeling guilty about everything and that's why he 'cares about me' and asks how I am. He knows he broke his promises and let me down.
But my heart.. my heart is willing to forgive him and give him a second chance if he asks. I can't erase him like that..
What do you think guys?
I am a Sagittarius, Moon in Leo, Venus in Capricorn, ascendent - Libra
He is a Scorpio, Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Sagittarius, ascendent - Cancer
He broke up with me after 1 year and a couple of months. We had been fighting a lot recently. He said he doesn't feel the same way anymore (doesn't love me) but cares about me and wants to stay friends. I know that's almost impossible (for me). He even cried when he broke up with me over videochat (long distance). He claimed there is no other girl involved but I am not sure. After the break up I told him I want some time of no contact. He broke it off after about 3-4 days to ask me how I am.
Since the break up (3 weeks ago) he has texted me several times to just ask how I am, to tell me he cares and stuff. Once he asked me if I look at guys differently now, which made me think he is jealous. I told him it's none of his business and that I am following his advice to 'move on'. He said that I can follow my own advices (?).
The last time we texted he asked me how I would feel if he had a girlfriend. He claimed he didn't have one but I don't know whether to believe that. He said we better not talk until we see each other in December but a few days he texted me again.
When I spoke to some mutual friends they didn't even know the reason for the breakup even though it wasn't so recent.
My mind tells me he is probably just feeling guilty about everything and that's why he 'cares about me' and asks how I am. He knows he broke his promises and let me down.
But my heart.. my heart is willing to forgive him and give him a second chance if he asks. I can't erase him like that..
What do you think guys?
I am a Sagittarius, Moon in Leo, Venus in Capricorn, ascendent - Libra
He is a Scorpio, Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Sagittarius, ascendent - Cancer
Please someone answer! 
Share your breakup experiences please!
Share your breakup experiences please!His Moon is in Sagittarius, Venus in Sagittarius, ascendent - Cancer. Thank you!
Haha, thank you! I have noticed that 
Hello everyone! This time I have a Scorpio situation going on. I don't know why I am so drawn to the water signs, being a fire one, but it never ends well..
We had an incredible relationship for 1yr and 3months. It was partially long distance, which further strengthened our bond and also gave us that spark every time we saw each other after months. We had ups and downs, he had some jealousy issues but he improved greatly because of me!
He called me his soulmate, the love of his life.. He had even mentioned marriage as something he would like to do with me in the future (we are both quite young - early 20s). Despite all the fights (due power games and jealousy issues) he was my dream man.
Well, in the past couple of months I turned into the jealous one. I became insecure and wanted to be confirmation for my worth. Our relations were strained but when we were doing ok, we were happy. He was still loving me.
About a week ago he broke up with me. We had been fighting more in the week before that because he wasn't giving me enough attention (he agreed with that). I even offered him to take a break for a week so he can enjoy some time with his friends without having to text me. He immediately said no.
Well, it didn't matter because 2 days later he told me he doesn't feel the same way. He said he cares greatly for me and wants to keep me in his life as a friend.
I was so confused, heartbroken, angry. hopeless.. I realised I also had fault in this. I forgave him and apologised for turning into an insecure bitchy girlfriend.
But now everything is different. He seems distant, as if we didn't share 1 year of our lives, as if we weren't 'soulmates' 2 weeks ago... At the same time I see he has been listening to a lot of
sad love songs - I don't wanna miss a thing, Better than me (thanks spotify). I wonder if he regrets breaking up with me.
Do you think there is a chance for us to get back together? I am willing to work on this relationship because we have already put so much effort into it and I still love him..
I am a Sagittarius, Moon in Leo, Venus in Capricorn, ascendent - Libra
He is a Scorpio, Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Sagittarius, ascendent - Cancer
We had an incredible relationship for 1yr and 3months. It was partially long distance, which further strengthened our bond and also gave us that spark every time we saw each other after months. We had ups and downs, he had some jealousy issues but he improved greatly because of me!
He called me his soulmate, the love of his life.. He had even mentioned marriage as something he would like to do with me in the future (we are both quite young - early 20s). Despite all the fights (due power games and jealousy issues) he was my dream man. Well, in the past couple of months I turned into the jealous one. I became insecure and wanted to be confirmation for my worth. Our relations were strained but when we were doing ok, we were happy. He was still loving me.
About a week ago he broke up with me. We had been fighting more in the week before that because he wasn't giving me enough attention (he agreed with that). I even offered him to take a break for a week so he can enjoy some time with his friends without having to text me. He immediately said no.
Well, it didn't matter because 2 days later he told me he doesn't feel the same way. He said he cares greatly for me and wants to keep me in his life as a friend.
I was so confused, heartbroken, angry. hopeless.. I realised I also had fault in this. I forgave him and apologised for turning into an insecure bitchy girlfriend.
But now everything is different. He seems distant, as if we didn't share 1 year of our lives, as if we weren't 'soulmates' 2 weeks ago... At the same time I see he has been listening to a lot of
sad love songs - I don't wanna miss a thing, Better than me (thanks spotify). I wonder if he regrets breaking up with me.
Do you think there is a chance for us to get back together? I am willing to work on this relationship because we have already put so much effort into it and I still love him..
I am a Sagittarius, Moon in Leo, Venus in Capricorn, ascendent - Libra
He is a Scorpio, Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Sagittarius, ascendent - Cancer
He wouldn't tell me! But he'd seen that I was suffering because of his terrible emotional state and he told me that he doesn't want me to be sad because of him.
I dated a Cancer guy for about 8 months. We broke up today. For the past month or two, he has been acting really crabby, negatively and it broke my heart to see him like this. I blamed myself for not being perfect enough. When we talked about the problem he told me that lately he's been unhappy because he has some problems. He didn't want to tell me what problems exactly, I only know that some of them are related to his family. That's very usual for his manly behavior. Anyway, we decided to be continue our relationship albeit crappy. That was really stressful for me and for him I think. After a week of crabbiness we separated as friends.
I feel kind of relieved because all of this uncertainty is over.
I know that he still likes me because he said it today and in my opinion the only problem is his own state of mind. Is it possible that he still wants me back after he deals with his problems?
I feel kind of relieved because all of this uncertainty is over.
I know that he still likes me because he said it today and in my opinion the only problem is his own state of mind. Is it possible that he still wants me back after he deals with his problems?
OMG! I have my 18th birthday on December 13th as well!!
I like all kinds of presents really. Flowers are excellent in my opinion.
The cupcakes are also nice, but why don't you try to bake something by yourself. This is more personal and shows your devotion. When I love somebody I feel the need to cook for them (:
Another good idea is a wonderful day spent together. If you have any amusement parks nearby that would be an awesome gift! Even a little day trip somewhere would make her happy. Sags love to travel.
I like all kinds of presents really. Flowers are excellent in my opinion.
The cupcakes are also nice, but why don't you try to bake something by yourself. This is more personal and shows your devotion. When I love somebody I feel the need to cook for them (:
Another good idea is a wonderful day spent together. If you have any amusement parks nearby that would be an awesome gift! Even a little day trip somewhere would make her happy. Sags love to travel.
I've been going out with a Cancer guy and his birthday is approaching.
I thought about making him a small cute cake or baking cookies and buying him a book.
Is this a good idea? What are your suggestions?
Note: We aren't very serious so I don't want to give him a framed picture of us or anything similarly romantic or sentimental because I don't want to look needy and too attached. And yet I don't want to give him a coffee mug or something equally impersonal.
I thought about making him a small cute cake or baking cookies and buying him a book.
Is this a good idea? What are your suggestions?
Note: We aren't very serious so I don't want to give him a framed picture of us or anything similarly romantic or sentimental because I don't want to look needy and too attached. And yet I don't want to give him a coffee mug or something equally impersonal.
I'm going out with this Cancer guy but we don't have a serious relationship. In fact we haven't discussed our relationship at all.. This makes me wonder how would I know if he wants to have a serious commitment with me? What do Cancers do to show their desire for commitment?
Also, sometimes he acts kinda withdrawn, which I know is a common Cancer trait, and I try to be patient with him but I never know if there is something that I did wrong.
Once after some period of silence I texted him "Are you angry at me?" and he texted me "I hate this question." Does that mean that he's angry or not?
I'm a Sag, so I like to make everything clear and these kind of riddles confuse me a lot.
Also, sometimes he acts kinda withdrawn, which I know is a common Cancer trait, and I try to be patient with him but I never know if there is something that I did wrong.
Once after some period of silence I texted him "Are you angry at me?" and he texted me "I hate this question." Does that mean that he's angry or not?
I'm a Sag, so I like to make everything clear and these kind of riddles confuse me a lot.
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