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Dastard Gone Wild

Dastard2020 joined April 19, 2020
from New York, United States
Leo Rising, Sagittarius Sun, Scorpio Moon
Sun in Sagittarius
Moon in Scorpio
Mercury in Sagittarius
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Scorpio
Jupiter in Leo
Saturn in Gemini
Uranus in Aquarius
Neptune in Aquarius
Pluto in Sagittarius

Leo Ascendant
Aries Midheaven
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Mars in Gemini trine Pluto in Aquarius. That's all.
Why does this Christian podcast feels so pornish?
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How are you going to ever have a chance to have more fight in you if you keep placing yourself in situations and people that drain you and make you feel like you can barely get by or get through the day?

Don't fool yourself. The older you get, the more difficult it is to change and correct negative habits and patterns. You can't truly start to heal while still placing yourself in a toxic environment or accepting unacceptable treatment, especially from family members because their treatment of you is connected to your self-image. Not only that, they way they treat you makes you regress on some level to who you were since you were a child, solidifying that negative self-image from a deeper place and on a deeper level.

Aging family members? Does that include your mother? Are you serious? I get that it feels natural to love your parents but you're so gaslit that you would forgive the unforgivable... narcissistic parental abuse. Don't ever forget that if you're a pushover who gets overlooked or devalued or disrespected, it's because of how you were raised. Who raised you? BINGO. Wake up, fight against the psychological conditioning of your upbringing.

Your reality is harsh, but every tiny step in your healing progress no matter how tough, lonely or scary it is... is worth much, much more than living in denial and gaslighting yourself to love and forgive your abusers or the enablers of such abuse. It's better to be alone or by yourself than in bad company. Don't choose to live in the matrix; you already know the truth about your family, about your abuse, and what steps you should take.

Just keep in that mind.

Come on girl, that's BS. That's not living life, that's being miserable and on survival mode, selling yourself short, and resorting to escapism. It's also being in denial about actually having a family and support system.

Get rid of the magical thinking, cut off toxic family members, stop being a pushover at work, find yourself and find out what is it that you truly want and is within your reach and work towards that goal.

That's taking charge of your life.

Why do I get the feeling that it almost always appears as if the universe is trying to tell you something or show you a sign, only to never really tell you anything that ends up making sense nor does it ever gets validated by reality. It's as if the cosmos was playing a grand, sadistic joke or prank on you.

On a serious note. If I were your age, I'd ditch all that magical thinking crap in a fucking millisecond. Life is too short to be spent dreaming about imagined signs from the universe or to be coming up with outlandish superstitions and trying to decipher them, especially when experienced has shown you time and time again that those "signs from the universe" are utterly meaningless.

Life is passing you by. Wake up, lady.

"i onli wanted 2 understand scorpio men 😭... i will understand all scorpio men by figurin' out dis 1 playa who happens 2 b a scorpio. im over him tho, but im still gonna obsess 😘" ~ Rania_1498
That's right. Don't suffer fools.
Whorpio vs Serenidad 🥊

Okay, I'm ordering Taco Bell.
I see an interpretation but I'd rather just zip it lol
But it's also your upbringing.
This is a site with no more than 15 active members; I ain't muting shit.
Don't respond. That's one of the advantages texting has over phone calls.

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