dcprdiva joined November 08, 2006
47 years old male from Washington, D.C.
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he's just retreating into shell. he'll come eventually, but don't press it! be his friend first :-)
i am one of those cancers who will ask someone out... i have done it all of my adult life (I'm now 29)... i didn't have to convince myself of anything. i have gone up to cute guys and said, "hey, if you aren't married, engaged, gay or have a girlfriend or someone who thinks she is your girlfriend, please give me your number i think you are so good looking and i would like to go out with you." now that is what i say when i don't know the person. if it is for someone that i know and kind of like, i just go with my gut. i already know i am catch so i just put it out there... but i'm very outgoing... but once i do go out with someone, i do have a problem with the moodiness and mixed signals because i still need time to get comfortable with a person...
hey all, thanks for the comments... amazingly enough libra male called me last night! he said just what you stated... he needed time to think things thru and couldn't exactly pinpoint what it was right away to tell me... anyway, we are going to hang out tonight and hopefully things will keep progressing...
thanks so much for your comments... reading these boards are so reassuring :-)
thanks so much for your comments... reading these boards are so reassuring :-)
yea, i am a cancer.
any ideas on how to make it right?
any ideas on how to make it right?
hey all
okay, so i know this is not supposedly a good combination but everyone gets a fair chance...
so, i went out on a few dates with a libra male and he's spent time with me at my house, talk on the phone a lot, ya know... all that "i like you and you like me," sorta behavior. well anyway, one day i was in one of my moods. i apologized for not being my normal upbeat self and he kept asking me if i was upset about something that happened the night before... i told him no and that i was in a mood and that i had my sister on my mind and i apologized.
well, when he was leaving, i could see that he was upset about something... it looked like he was going to leave without giving me a hug goodbye... he gave me a hug and about 10 minutes later, i called and no answer. well, i sent him a text the next morning, no answer. i called later that day (about 6 hours later) no answer. so, i'm thinking, i musta did something wrong. so the next day, i didn't contact him at all. then the following day, i sent an email apologizing and telling if i did anything it wasnt intentional, etc., etc... no response...
what could POSSIBLY be going on with this libra male and what can I do to make everything good? i mean, he really is someone that would have a chance with me and I hope my moodiness didn't blow it...
thanks for your thoughts!
okay, so i know this is not supposedly a good combination but everyone gets a fair chance...
so, i went out on a few dates with a libra male and he's spent time with me at my house, talk on the phone a lot, ya know... all that "i like you and you like me," sorta behavior. well anyway, one day i was in one of my moods. i apologized for not being my normal upbeat self and he kept asking me if i was upset about something that happened the night before... i told him no and that i was in a mood and that i had my sister on my mind and i apologized.
well, when he was leaving, i could see that he was upset about something... it looked like he was going to leave without giving me a hug goodbye... he gave me a hug and about 10 minutes later, i called and no answer. well, i sent him a text the next morning, no answer. i called later that day (about 6 hours later) no answer. so, i'm thinking, i musta did something wrong. so the next day, i didn't contact him at all. then the following day, i sent an email apologizing and telling if i did anything it wasnt intentional, etc., etc... no response...
what could POSSIBLY be going on with this libra male and what can I do to make everything good? i mean, he really is someone that would have a chance with me and I hope my moodiness didn't blow it...
thanks for your thoughts!
i am a cancer female and married a virgo male... he was my best friend and even tho we divorced (after dating for 5 years!) we still maintain a good friendship... best relationship i ever had... until i met another cancer and we bonded SOOOO quickly on every level
i completely agree with all the posts... i am quite moody and sensitive... but hey, aren't we all? lol... the first time i actually felt "love at first sight" was with a fellow cancer... i am always in protective mode and it is hard when i deal with potential significant others because they deserve for me to be more open, but it is SOOOOO HARD...
yea, that's a cancer alright... moody moody moody
I love Leos! I have never dated one but I love all Leos as really good friends...
uh, girlie I have too much to say on this one...
first, get some pride in yourself. what the hell are you doing feeling "insecure?" puhlease, if you don't have any pride or confidence in yourself no one else will.
second, he doesn't know how to handle liquor, stop taking him with you where alcohol is involved.
your main problem is feeling insecure. I am a Cancer and I am quite the flirt/friendly in social settings. that's how we are... Men will be men...
first, get some pride in yourself. what the hell are you doing feeling "insecure?" puhlease, if you don't have any pride or confidence in yourself no one else will.
second, he doesn't know how to handle liquor, stop taking him with you where alcohol is involved.
your main problem is feeling insecure. I am a Cancer and I am quite the flirt/friendly in social settings. that's how we are... Men will be men...
yea, they say Cancer with Cancer isn't the best. But I dated my fellow Cancer and it was the best connection I have ever had with someone.
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hey all okay, so i know this is not supposedly a good combination but everyone gets a fair chance... so, i went ou
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