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Posted by betel
Yep...time.
But in the meantime...
(From a previous post I wrote)
"For heartache: I usually need a day or two for alone time. I listen music, write or paint. I watch something funny . Eat something with massive amounts of sugar. Then surround myself with people I love.
For stress: I need to be active mentally and physically. I exercise or do a jig saw puzzle. Talk with my sister."


He is just one Aries. Try not to be biased against the sign because of him. I know its hard not to be bias. The bias(anger)links you to him, therefore not allowing you to completely move on. That anger will hold you back. Detach and let go. But that comes with time. :/


I'm not biased. He is just one Aries, you're right. I'm just upset and angry right now, at him and even at myself for being so dumb. Thank you for the reply...
Posted by EusiveSoulll
Aries/Pisces combo CAN work, but both parties have to be very mature not just age wise but emotionally and mentally as well.
As for the initial question.. yup, I'm inclined to agree with CC and say TIME. Focus on yourself, your hobbies and what else makes you happy. Taking it one day at the time and instead of forcing the process, but rather just accepting it for what it is makes it easier.. for me personally anyway


I am not going to say that I am 100% mature, because I know that I have work to do for myself. But with him, yes, sometimes he's mature and then all of a sudden he acts all coy and sneaky. He said that he used to be passive-aggressive but "not anymore", but I can still see his passive-aggressive side coming out. It always baffles me when it happens.
I'm going to bed so thank you everyone. I'll check back tomorrow and try to keep strong.
Take it from me, I really don't think that Aries men and water sign women mix very well. I think as friends they are interesting but as lovers, it does take a toll on the sensitive Pisces/Cancer/Scorpio woman. That's just my honest opinion, anyway.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Time. I thought I would never get to this place of just not giving a frak, but i'm here. Time does heal all things.



You're right.
Oh wow, I thought they were joking when people say that Aries and Pisces shouldn't be together. Now I know the truth. Sad
Posted by tiziani
To an Aries "no" means "yes".
So, relax. You just dodged a bullet and save yourself a world of pain. One door closes, another one opens without an Aries standing in the way.


True, true. It doesn't make the pain any less, though, and it sucks a lot. I really thought we had something special, but no, it's something else entirely and I feel so stupid to think that it was for real. Oh well. Fuck it.
I changed my relationship status on the website that we both go to, because I know that when you tell yourself that you're single and that it's over, sooner or later, you'll start to believe it and it won't hurt as bad. So, I'm SINGLE. SINGLE. smile
I'll be happy again, it'll just take time...
I'm just going to try and stop giving a FUCK about you this time. I mean, I thought we had something deep, but no, you have to go and try to control me and manipulate me and you know what? FUCK THAT. I am NOT going to be your puppet or anyone else's puppy dog because that shit ain't going to fly with me anymore! I used to be lead around and pushed around, but that little girl is GONE and she has grown up to desire respect from others this time! If you can't give that to me, TO HELL WITH YOU. You hurt me once, and now you hurt me twice. I can only say, shame on me, but now I've learned. We can maybe be casual friends down the line, but now, I just want this to end and you know something? You're kind of a coward, now that I think about it. You make me mad. You make me hurt and sad! Well... whatever! I'm done. You had me on a choke hold but now I'm setting myself free from the madness and anyone who tries to stop me is really going to get it this time! Yes, I'm fucking MAD right now!
I don't care. Whatever. I just don't care. Maybe I'll cry tonight, but that'll be it, really. I'll get over you and I'll get over this.
Asshole!
I'm a Pisces and just felt rejected by an Aries man, so now I'm trying to once again soothe my heart from the pain of it all and I just want to ask you all how do you cope with a broken heart? What can a Pisces do to feel better again? Sad
Thank you.
Okay, that was a stupid question, I'm sorry.
Um, I have an Aries man in my life who is now my romantic partner. We were friends first and shared very deep conversations together, and then he had to do some traveling, work, seeing friends, etc, and was gone for several months. I just kind of moved on when he randomly popped back in my life and we got talking again. It was then he realized that he has feelings for me, which made me a happy girl. I'm a Pisces, by the way. We share a lot of similarities it's almost scary, so you can imagine my surprise when I found out his birthday led to him being an Aries native. Being a Pisces, I was taken back because he seems so... Non fiery? I don't know, but he's sensitive (when he wants to show it), calm and collected, and even very sentimental and sweet. I hope that didn't come out the wrong way, ha ha!
My question is, how do I properly love him? I seem to be doing the right things because he told me that I don't know how much he likes me, that he thinks about me all the time, etc. I don't want to make him angry, or hurt him, or do anything wrong, so Aries... what would you like your ideal partner to do for you? Thanks in advanced!

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