ecent joined January 30, 2012
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Posted by Marrakesha
So, I brought this up on another thread after continually reading comments from relationship questions/topics related to Scorpios throughout these boards, and it was suggested that I create a topic about it.
A lot of people seem to have a biased opinion of Scorpios and feed into this hype that no matter how apparent and fucked up their behavior, they can do no wrong. People, including other Scorpios or even said victim/complainer will then try to turn the blatant bad behavior displayed into some sort of positive quality or blame the person who is complaining because it's obviously all their fault and it doesn't take two in a relationship, or they will try to make an off-hand comment like "everyone or every sign is guilty of that."
They will make allowances and excuses for them that they probably wouldn't make for any other sign (I've seen this be the case on so many relationship topics involving other signs).
If you look at many of the discussions on here involving Scorpios, the comments will go something like this by said complainers/victims/fans:
"You wore me out and drove a steak through my heart, squeezed it and watched it bleed all over the floor, maced my mom and my cat, accused me of cheating even though I wasn't, text me everyday to suddenly go silent and not want to talk to me for a week, you complain we never fight in the relationship, but wanna fight with me for the sake of "passion," BUT DAMNIT, it was worth it all!!
Even though you fucked me up, I'll never find anyone else who will love me like you did or meet anyone else quite like you (even though there are million other psychopaths out there just like you who you can call brother)."
Are people just this blind and gluttons for punishment, or what is the deal? What's with all the Scorpio hype?
this shit is on point, I wrote a thread on this shit about two months ago. I seen it done here and in my real life activities. Bottomline, wronge is wronge and right is right ,I dont give a shit about who u r.
Lmao gossip ...its alll a mystery lol
Posted by Purrrr
Do you think DXP veterans get more respect on here? Or the newbies? Or does it matter? It's not about old or new members. It's about who's currently "in power" and collects "friends" like some people collect baseball cards. Mainly through bullshit, insincere flattery.
Or does everyone get treated the same? Lol, not in the slightest.
Do you think the way questions are worded makes a difference? No.
What makes some people get reamed and some people get nice responses? People who have the most backup get the nicest responses. People who don't have many in their corner get reamed the most.
Do you feel respected here? Used to. Not anymore. *shrugs*
sooooo true , every dam word u said was on point..I heard some people say some dum shit, or said crasy or ofline bullshit but because they have backup people they get praise for the stupid shit they say. This is how life works, on threads and off threads.
Damm to the last two post, having a scorp mom like myself. I laugh when I heard both post, my mom do this sometimes she yells or get piss and reflect whats going on with her , back on someone else. Most likely if she says (u yelling.. u mad..u depress. In a piss off tone , its because shes really feeling that way herself. Thank god she dont do this often..The way I handle her is by stickin to the point. I say wat wronge. Go pass the bullshit. And ask her is she stress. ofcourse she give me this bullshit like its me, but i no the real deal, in 3days later shes back apologizin sayin shes in the wronge.
Now the aquarius and scorp thing, my father is aquarius, mom ascorp. There battles is funny to me, my father would get piss , and talk real fast , he will over talk my mom and would be angry , my mom would bring shit up frm yrs ago, tryin to get shots in , and shes out to really dig, my father would come bck quick with shots. The weakness with both was mom would get to piss because he would copy what she did to get back at her, his memory was good so he dig old shit but twist and add things. He would win the argument because shes too piss.he would walk away and be fine in a few days. Where she beats him is by still holding on to what happen, hes over it.and shes try to plan or decide how to teach him a lesson. Behonest my mom older now so she dont really get him back she hold grudges to the next argument. She would go months without saying shit to him.overall the shit was pointless. They both in there 50s arguing about shit from when they was in there 20s lmao
The scorps that I was a round just like to argue and get in your head.not all I will add, but the ones that I argue with , or seen in a dispute I notice they feed off of emotions, the more u show emotion the raw and emotionless they get , the less emotion u show the more emotion they show but it comes out in a angry, manipulative way,they start to talk a lot trying to find a button /emotion to push. Boyfriend , mom, some family member, and friends are scorps had dispute with some of them I handle them by sticking to main points, never moving off topic, and being kind of nonchalant. They hate that shit. Physical fights dont really no , I only seen two I think, and the pass and it was more of a wrestle thing not blows,
I only been around afew Aquarius, I a few family members and just people I pass by.my brother was in afew fights but he pick his fights wisely.
Now the aquarius and scorp thing, my father is aquarius, mom ascorp. There battles is funny to me, my father would get piss , and talk real fast , he will over talk my mom and would be angry , my mom would bring shit up frm yrs ago, tryin to get shots in , and shes out to really dig, my father would come bck quick with shots. The weakness with both was mom would get to piss because he would copy what she did to get back at her, his memory was good so he dig old shit but twist and add things. He would win the argument because shes too piss.he would walk away and be fine in a few days. Where she beats him is by still holding on to what happen, hes over it.and shes try to plan or decide how to teach him a lesson. Behonest my mom older now so she dont really get him back she hold grudges to the next argument. She would go months without saying shit to him.overall the shit was pointless. They both in there 50s arguing about shit from when they was in there 20s lmao
The scorps that I was a round just like to argue and get in your head.not all I will add, but the ones that I argue with , or seen in a dispute I notice they feed off of emotions, the more u show emotion the raw and emotionless they get , the less emotion u show the more emotion they show but it comes out in a angry, manipulative way,they start to talk a lot trying to find a button /emotion to push. Boyfriend , mom, some family member, and friends are scorps had dispute with some of them I handle them by sticking to main points, never moving off topic, and being kind of nonchalant. They hate that shit. Physical fights dont really no , I only seen two I think, and the pass and it was more of a wrestle thing not blows,
I only been around afew Aquarius, I a few family members and just people I pass by.my brother was in afew fights but he pick his fights wisely.
Some cancers I see have a baby face , I remember this girl I work with she had this cute round face and these small lips. She was a pretty girl. But most cancer I met had this cute round face.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Cancer women can be beautiful if they take care of themselves, i mean we aren't libras or scorpios when it comes to dressing up, wearing makeup, and all that other fluff, which makes most of us look average, when we normally are better looking than stated signs above....well scorps hold their own.
anyways I C your making the rounds Defense. Whose next your beloved pisces
behonest I never seen a scorp in my circle or just came across that wear makeup. My mom is a scorp and hate makeup but she like fashion but she has libra placement that makes her that way I believe. Most scorp females I met was kind of tomboy like. But as I think of it my boyfriend niece she a makeup artists I kind of for got about that. Libras some was dress down and some was dress up. They have real great personity that boost up there appearance.
Posted by ecent
My experience, leos I he was a good boss but he always telling u not to do some thing and turn around and do what he told u not to do. Very bossy, and preach about his religion . What I did like about him was the fact that he was honest. And at the end of the day he push to work hard and he just dont make orders he actually work.
Virgo boss , omg this man will find something to bitch about, one minute his happy , next minute his a asshole, he like things a certain way.also he was a coward he went after females with bullshit but scared to comfort men.
Capricorn...only had two boss experience. One cap dude he was cool , laid back did his job , no one like him, but i was with him , people was more upset cause he did his job..my female cap boss was a bitch, she did her job but always changing rules, she was a liar who wanted tobbe friends with everyone but in the back ground coming up with shit to start trouble.the only thing I like about her was that she was a hard worker.
My last will be a scorpio. I only had one Scorpio boss but the problem was with this chick is the ego.u cant tell her nothing. She can be dead wronge but u better not tell her where she wronge at because u will be the enemy. The chick fuck up on some time sheets, I called her just to say that she had the time wronge on sheets before I can finish she cut me off and said I am human. O lord the tone of her voice.I repeated in a soft tone that I was making her aware. Also notice that she gets people to do her work for her. She has some control issues .But as long as u stay on her good side u will be at work with a smooth day, but if she dont like u for whatever reason that maybe be , which mostlikely personal then u will have a day in middle school.
But I add my boyfriend Scorpio is a boss And I watch him , he give people chances over and over again b4 he take it to the next level. And he use manipulation in a good way to keep his people happy.
Must be a cancer thing cause I had this problem in the pass with people , people will vent and cry there life out to me.but I will never feel like I can get what I give to them.im not a cryer if so I go do that a lone blame that on my leo placement , the ego, but to just vent and get things off chest hell no , dont get same treatment. So I learn my dam advice or warmth have to only have to be save for people who deserve it lmao.
To the main poster, I understand were u coming from because I am like that when I dont trust a person, not comfortable, or just meeting people. But I understand how your cancer friends feel. I not saying cry in front of me with tears and screams , I admit that shit is uncomfortable but its a emotion I respect, but I like to know things about people I call friends, I want to know what piss u off , shit u cant stand, things u like, share ideas about religion , how your relationship with your parents and so on. I think it kind of allow me to understand the person I choose to have around me. I dont no if they went u to depend on them emotionally , I think it just them wanting to no u deeper. Thinking about what u said also help me think about how with friendship I had how I was drain by friends. U just need to sat down and tell them the way u r.
To the main poster, I understand were u coming from because I am like that when I dont trust a person, not comfortable, or just meeting people. But I understand how your cancer friends feel. I not saying cry in front of me with tears and screams , I admit that shit is uncomfortable but its a emotion I respect, but I like to know things about people I call friends, I want to know what piss u off , shit u cant stand, things u like, share ideas about religion , how your relationship with your parents and so on. I think it kind of allow me to understand the person I choose to have around me. I dont no if they went u to depend on them emotionally , I think it just them wanting to no u deeper. Thinking about what u said also help me think about how with friendship I had how I was drain by friends. U just need to sat down and tell them the way u r.
I had closes friends in the pass that were taurus. Man and women taurus I attract but I had some that didn't new me and didn't like me .it was always stupid reasons y they had a problem with me, well no reason in my opinion , I realize jealousy played a part with my taurus hate for me. I had a neighbor taurus who couldnt stand me she told a friend of mine that new her that she didn't like me because I act as if I like her boyfriend , my home girl had to explain to her that her boyfriend new me because he grew up with my brother, the Taurus boyfriend was like a older brother to me. My homegirl joke with the Taurus neighbor telling her how she played around all the time saying her boyfriend was cute.the chick still dont like me.
Another situations with my homegirl friend that only met me once for 15mins and she told my homegirl that she didn't like me. When the Taurus was ask y she didn't like me she said she didn't no y it something about me. Then later on the Taurus told my homegirl that she just dont like lightskin girls smh
I can go on with other stories but I stop. So I say I attract them but they may will like me a lot and we bond or there would be a hate that I dont understand. These last few years the new Taurus I met was just causal with me.
Another situations with my homegirl friend that only met me once for 15mins and she told my homegirl that she didn't like me. When the Taurus was ask y she didn't like me she said she didn't no y it something about me. Then later on the Taurus told my homegirl that she just dont like lightskin girls smh
I can go on with other stories but I stop. So I say I attract them but they may will like me a lot and we bond or there would be a hate that I dont understand. These last few years the new Taurus I met was just causal with me.
Posted by greengemini
I've been a member of this site for a little over a week now, so I have a few personally lessons to share with you and I would really appreciate it if you shared some of your's with me.
1. "Never wrestle with a pig, you only get dirty and the pig enjoys it."
Some folk's here are really extreme with astrology. If you ever come across one these people, which you will...don't use logic... cause they're not. If they know you've posted your chart on your profile, forget it! So if arguments or insults are brewing just leave it alone and walk away.
2. "If you look hard enough you'll see whatever it is that you want to see"
That has nothing to do with astrology...THAT'S JUST HOW THE MIND WORKS!!!! So be EXTREMELY selective when you share personal things here, these people will make it ALL about your Scorpio, Aries, cancer, mercury, moon or whatever. Yeah it's an astrology website, but everything still has it's place.
3. "When you put your emotions before understanding it creates a tragic illusion."
If you're trying to reason with someone here here that really identifies with their sign and that sign is supposed to be emotional in any of the descriptions and they refuse to reason with you, just realize it's not you it's them. Like actors staying true to their characters, the astrology descriptions is the script their holding. Which brings me to my final lesson.
4. DO NOT PUT YOUR SIGN IN YOUR SCREEN NAME, LOL. Ever walked in a room and felt like everybody's was judging you even before you opened your mouth? That's what that's like. It's a terrible terrible idea here and I realize my mistake now.
That's all for now. Please share your personal lessons.
sooooo true I love this right here. I learn to only tell wat u want people to no, I also try to be very clear when I type my rants , I agree with telling your sign, I can be ranting about how im piss off and im angry as soon when someone find out that I am a cancer then someone asume u are about to cry or have some emotional fit.Dammmmmmmm fucking by pass that im piss off lol
I dream that my mom was dead. I cant remember how that shit went, but I was fuck up off of that dream, it felt soooo real.
The name they call me or u, dont bother me, it more of what the purpose. I hate when im debating , discussing, or had a dispute about whatever topic and someone get mad and throw names. Omg this is my pet peeve. I just went thru this at work , me and this chick coworker arguing about something she fuck up on and she want to blame me because she got caught , in the middle of the dispute she get loud and yell out in said some shit about my boyfriend race. WTF that have to do with u fucking up on the job and being mad.i just laugh on her ass cause she was mad, going all off topic. In some cases name calling can be soooo imature. In some cases its a sign of weakness , I notice when people are wronge in cant fight there point clear enough or cant win, then that is when u hear name calling.
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