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seriously get over yourself! You clearly don't know me so don't judge me by my star sign! Your comments are not welcome if all you're going to give is rubbish!!!
Thanks Magma I will take your advice and as you say time will tell smile

P Angel wow what's with your rudeness!!!! No need to be so rude... I'm on here for a reason to get some advice not to be belittled by you!
P angel thanks for your comments although I'm not reading into his texts at all... He was very open and honest with me from day 1 and he didn't go cold after we met in fact he was even nicer to me.... But things changed in the last week or so and I guess I just would like to know if he wants to still meet up and get to know each other better? I know he's going through a tough time as he said that last week but at the same time I don't want to wait around without knowing his intentions... It's fine if he doesn't want to pursue things further but why not just say?!?!
How much space do you give a Virgo!
Thanks Capricornguy... Makes me feel a little reassured
Yeah I've tried last week but as it's still early days I don't want to come across as being too much... What do you think I should say?
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I met this Virgo guy a couple of months ago and we messaged each other constantly for a couple of weeks before we met on our first date... everything went well and we really got on well.... the issue is he is working abroad but due to come home in a couple of months for good.... he has been so up and down in regards to his communication since he has been back and I know that he is extremely unhappy where he is and I have given him space by not bombarding him with messages so kept it at the pace that he has initiated or replied.. he always replies to my messages maybe not straight away as he used to but on the same day and told me last week he missed me but I don't understand how someone can go from being constantly messaging me to being so hot and cold.... I haven't spoken to him since Friday and I don't intend to message him as I was the one that last initiated even though he does initiate most the time.. We have spoken about going travelling before he comes home and even last week he said he would really like that... so I am really confused... is this guy still interested in me or shall I leave him alone? any help would be appreciated

Virgo with Scorpio Moon and I am a Scorpio Female with Pisces Moon smile
I just wish he was more honest with me he told me from the get go that he wants to meet someone to settle down with and he has been ready to get married etc for the last two years but then he runs hot and cold!!! You're right he probably not nature enough to deal with a relationship and has commitment phobia... He is fine as long as it's light hearted banter and flirty but then we have also discussed more serious stuff but he just runs and it's so frustrating when everything else is great??? Right now I have decided to ficus on myself and work on having some me time spending it with friends and family! We have had no contact for over 10 days as I won't be instigating anymore texts even though he suggested wanting to be friends... If he contacts me I guess I will see how I feel at the time but part of me thinks he won't... I think he knows that once I'm done I'm done and think he would think that I wouldn't text him back if he text me now and I know how Leo's don't like being ignored!!! Absolutely gutted and wish I wasn't so understanding when he needed time out as to me I just wasted valuable time with someone who I thought wanted to invest time in me!!! Thanks for your advice though smile
Thanks everyone I guess it's just wanting to hear it from a leo perspective but I guess he isn't ready for me and I need to just move on.... He said he wants to be friends but I won't be initiating contact as if he truly wants to be friends then I guess he can contact me.... It's the first leo guy I have dated and yes you're right they are amazing so it hasn't put me off Leo's that's for sure!!! smile
Can any leo guys please advise? Any advice would be appreciated smile
Ok so we spoke and he told me that I'm too emotional and intense for him and that he likes me a lot but doesn't think we would be good together and we should be friends! I really like him and wondering whether he will change his mind about us? Or should I just move on?
Aries Girl - yes it is the same guy and things started to look up as we met up more and communication improved but I always find after meeting he disappears for a few days and that's what I struggle to understand - thanks for your advice though I am trying to take it on board but being a scorp I have to learn to either be more patient or just move on
hi thanks all
his moon sign is aquarius
sun - leo
venus - virgo
mars - leo

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I have been chatting to a Leo guy we met up and have been on a couple of dates which were absolutely amazing and we even
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Hi I met this Virgo guy a couple of months ago and we messaged each other constantly for a couple of weeks before we met on our first date... everything went well and we really got on well.... the issue is he is working abroad but due to come home in
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ok so I have been on a few dates with this leo guy and he is always so nice when we meet and tells me all the time that
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