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Posted by gemgirl0528
I was dating a sag man for 6 amazing months. I fell hard and fast. He kept me at arms length. I never pushed him for more. He eventually. Asked me not to date anyone else. I wad so happy! One night I picked him up tipsy from an office party. His filter was off. He told me he was in love with me. That we had something. He has never felt before. That next morning he was very worried I was upset. I assured him I was fine. Over the next few days I heard less and less from him. I finally got an email saying he had to move for work and he wad devistated but long distance would be too hard. I never let him see me upset. I miss him terribly but am too proud to twaell him. We still talk and he jokes he thought I would pine tor him a bit more. I want him to know how I feel but don't want to scare him or look like a fool. Should. I cut all contact. And move on or fess up?

Well he has moved away and said it would be too hard to carry on a relationship. You can fess up if you want, he told you how he felt, that doesn't mean he will try and have a long distance relationship though. He already said he didn't want to do that. I'm sure he would appreciate knowing how you feel since he felt the same way. I don't think it would scare him, because he is already gone and he doesn't have to run. I think it would just bring your friendship closer. Keep in contact as friends but yes, you should move on. When men say something they mean exactly what they say, they don't hide behind words and expect you to figure them out, like some women do.

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