GemWoman101 joined March 12, 2018
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They so do, I'm not being dramatic at all.
Or maybe my Libra was made out of glass I dunno but he just chipped away and even the slightest criticism hit to his core.
Sometimes Gem's can just run their mouths too - I don't think we're meaning to be hurtful, we're just getting everything out there.
Well in the end there was kind've nothing there but hurt and that's not a relationship at all lol
Or maybe my Libra was made out of glass I dunno but he just chipped away and even the slightest criticism hit to his core.
Sometimes Gem's can just run their mouths too - I don't think we're meaning to be hurtful, we're just getting everything out there.
Well in the end there was kind've nothing there but hurt and that's not a relationship at all lol
Not trying to air my dirty laundry but just wanted to give the community an update on my Libra.
I decided to break up with him two days ago.
There was a lot of hurt that had built up and it got to the stage where I just knew the next disagreement would result in more hurt, guilt and probably a full blown breakup. It was kind of like waiting for the train to crash.
I love him just as strongly as I did the first time I told him but, the never ending feeling of guilt, I felt like I was starting to lose myself and actually start to dislike myself because I kept causing issues.
I don't even know how to start navigating a breakup but I think he will be happier without me and I think in time I will be happier without him. Maybe.
If you're dating a Libra man, please think wisely about the words you say to him. Be kind and considerate and love him as deeply as he can love you. He deserves that.
They're actually beautiful creatures, they just feel everything x10 more than any other starsign. I truly believe that. I hope I can forgive myself one day
I decided to break up with him two days ago.
There was a lot of hurt that had built up and it got to the stage where I just knew the next disagreement would result in more hurt, guilt and probably a full blown breakup. It was kind of like waiting for the train to crash.
I love him just as strongly as I did the first time I told him but, the never ending feeling of guilt, I felt like I was starting to lose myself and actually start to dislike myself because I kept causing issues.
I don't even know how to start navigating a breakup but I think he will be happier without me and I think in time I will be happier without him. Maybe.
If you're dating a Libra man, please think wisely about the words you say to him. Be kind and considerate and love him as deeply as he can love you. He deserves that.
They're actually beautiful creatures, they just feel everything x10 more than any other starsign. I truly believe that. I hope I can forgive myself one day
I’m dating a Libran man at the moment and I’m a Gemini woman.
He is very concerned with his public image even though he pretends he isn’t. I consider myself a very good catch just because I know I’m faithful and love deeply and am never short of male attention.
I was drawn to him initially because I thought he was incredibly empathetic, considerate, sweet, gentle and quiet but once I got to know him I saw that that was who he WANTED to be and wasn’t necessarily a good reflection of who he was.
It’s so hard for me to let go of relationships so instead I prefer to just let them play out.
He’s never been physically aggressive and I actually feel sorry that his self esteem is shot to pieces and he can’t even acknowledge it (I’ve done so many sweet things, love letters, presents etc to make him feel worth it so I’ve come to the conclusion it’s nothing to do with me!)
Sorry you’re hurting but honestly, I’m not too sure Libra’s are the best catch.
The women are even worse (in my own experience) x
He is very concerned with his public image even though he pretends he isn’t. I consider myself a very good catch just because I know I’m faithful and love deeply and am never short of male attention.
I was drawn to him initially because I thought he was incredibly empathetic, considerate, sweet, gentle and quiet but once I got to know him I saw that that was who he WANTED to be and wasn’t necessarily a good reflection of who he was.
It’s so hard for me to let go of relationships so instead I prefer to just let them play out.
He’s never been physically aggressive and I actually feel sorry that his self esteem is shot to pieces and he can’t even acknowledge it (I’ve done so many sweet things, love letters, presents etc to make him feel worth it so I’ve come to the conclusion it’s nothing to do with me!)
Sorry you’re hurting but honestly, I’m not too sure Libra’s are the best catch.
The women are even worse (in my own experience) x
Posted by DionaAmazing - one of truest things I’ve heard about a Libra Man.
In my life, I've had 2 libra men. The first was a sociopath - the relationship was so sick I can't explain.
One day he would brake up with me. Than he would spend the entire day analysing what kind of gf he wants. Then, he would figure out I'm the "perfect type" for him. And he would beg me to come back telling me I'm the one for him.
He was having those episodes at least once per month. And I was his first real girlfriend.
The other one is full of integrity-always sticks with his words even if it hurts him.
The point with libra is: they are looking for their perfect half. If someone is not as good-he doesn't even give them a chance. Is someone is better than him (more successful, more popular etc) he will look for a ways to get to that level. And in the meantime he will feel soo insecure about himself, that he will hurt the other person just to gain his power back.
I also need some good advice with my "integrity" libra man: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=10458842
They are so hung up on being perfect that they set the standards for themselves and others at unattainable levels and when it can’t be reached - lash out at the people who love them because they will tolerate it.
Libra’s should really learn it’s ok to just be average haha!
Posted by Amv33Yeah I'm like confused who said we were meant to be good matches hey.
I was dating a Libra guy and it was the same way. He made a big deal out of everything i did but anything he did wasn't a big deal... i think Libra guys might be outta their minds and I'm a gem girl. I don't know who said gem and Libra make great couples because he's the worst guy i ever dated by far....
I also think it's wrong to assume that Libra's don't like fighting - they bring a lot of drama with them 100% of the time.
I'm just very calm and peaceful in fights like, he doesn't get anything out of me anymore and it's actually kind of sad that he still tries.
I think over time he'll learn to chill the fk out.
But that being said - I find Aries too aggressive and Aqua's are way better as friends than boyfriends. Sag's are fking crazy.
So, really - who is our good match?
Focusing on yourself = More interesting/passionate/deeper understanding = more attractive to women.
A "good" woman is going to want to be with someone who is interesting and emotionally ready.
You'll never be emotionally ready if you keep having fleeting one night stands.
It just wears you down.
We've all been there and done that and as soon as we take a break we meet someone special. It's almost been a year since my Libra and I started dating and it's been fucking insane ups and downs but we were both ready for it because we'd both taken six months out of the game before we met.
We met at a good time and we're still together.
A "good" woman is going to want to be with someone who is interesting and emotionally ready.
You'll never be emotionally ready if you keep having fleeting one night stands.
It just wears you down.
We've all been there and done that and as soon as we take a break we meet someone special. It's almost been a year since my Libra and I started dating and it's been fucking insane ups and downs but we were both ready for it because we'd both taken six months out of the game before we met.
We met at a good time and we're still together.
Just chill out and focus on you and stop picking up women for a while.
I know that's what my Libra Man did and then he found me and I'm amazing so.
You just need to focus on yourself, your hobbies etc.
It'll happen!
I know that's what my Libra Man did and then he found me and I'm amazing so.
You just need to focus on yourself, your hobbies etc.
It'll happen!
Posted by tizianiI think you're probably right.
If you're coming off detached it is fairly common to attract the greek tragedy reactions in even the calmest of people.
Just being vulnerable and saying what you want defuses the situation. If you can't do that or you're not good at it then practice it. Your reactions in the moment say everything. Record those and if they are below par, just work on them.
The other thing I learnt is not to explain myself after a break up. Just keep it short and keep focusing on sharing what you're feeling, no more no less. Otherwise it is setting the relationship up for failure. Both people start to associate break-ups with being open/putting it all out on the table. Then anytime they are looking for vulnerability from you all they do is break up with you.
And the rest is just being adult enough to agree to disagree on how you feel when you feel differently.
I think I need to respect the fact that he finds phone communication difficult and that's O.K.
I'm a very relaxed laid back person and not a lot upsets me and I need to start learning that not everyone is like that. There's such a big part of me that doesn't want to give up on this relationship.
Maybe this is less about starsigns and more about me growing tf up lol...
I wonder if any other gems feel like they’re totally void of developing proper feelings and thus relationships
I don’t think I’m undateable because I always have someone to date but I definitely feel as though I can’t make relationships work. At. All.
It’s so weird
I don’t think I’m undateable because I always have someone to date but I definitely feel as though I can’t make relationships work. At. All.
It’s so weird
I’m Gem in Venus too?
So you all think it’s totally hopeless?
I just feel like I’m almost just a little be too detached and maybe over time it would get better?
I thought Gem & Libras were meant to be a great match but I’m not too sure about that at all.
Same with Aqua and Aries, I’ve met a few and get along with them really well but romantically I’m like fk nooo
I just feel like I’m almost just a little be too detached and maybe over time it would get better?
I thought Gem & Libras were meant to be a great match but I’m not too sure about that at all.
Same with Aqua and Aries, I’ve met a few and get along with them really well but romantically I’m like fk nooo
I’m a Gemini Woman (Sun) with her Moon in Pisces dating a Libra Man (Sun) with his Moon in Gemini.
Basically everything was fine until we got into a relationship. He is a really wonderful boy and I feel like I can learn a lot from him.
The problem is when we fight.
We both handle conflict very differently.
I’m the kind of person who’s of the mindset that there’s nothing that can’t be fixed except maybe cheating, drug dealing etc. Heavy duty things.
But he will act like it is ACTUALLY the end of the world. I’ve never seen someone so hyped up and overreact. He will always break up with me during fights too.
He has already broken up with me twice this year and always apologizes and calls it a huge mistake afterwards but never really learns?
I get the feeling he thinks it’s my fault too...
Anyway we haven’t really been texting much because he thinks our main miscommunication comes from not speaking face to face or in some other way where we can judge each other’s tone?
I feel really out of my depth with this relationship and I love him so much but this feels like I’m going crazy.
I’m not sure whether this is too much for me or whether I should just hold on and learn something?
I’m not sure. SOS.
Basically everything was fine until we got into a relationship. He is a really wonderful boy and I feel like I can learn a lot from him.
The problem is when we fight.
We both handle conflict very differently.
I’m the kind of person who’s of the mindset that there’s nothing that can’t be fixed except maybe cheating, drug dealing etc. Heavy duty things.
But he will act like it is ACTUALLY the end of the world. I’ve never seen someone so hyped up and overreact. He will always break up with me during fights too.
He has already broken up with me twice this year and always apologizes and calls it a huge mistake afterwards but never really learns?
I get the feeling he thinks it’s my fault too...
Anyway we haven’t really been texting much because he thinks our main miscommunication comes from not speaking face to face or in some other way where we can judge each other’s tone?
I feel really out of my depth with this relationship and I love him so much but this feels like I’m going crazy.
I’m not sure whether this is too much for me or whether I should just hold on and learn something?
I’m not sure. SOS.
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Not trying to air my dirty laundry but just wanted to give the community an update on my Libra.
I decided to break up with him two days ago.
There was a lot of hurt that had built up and it got to the stage where I just knew the next disagreement woul
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I’m a Gemini Woman (Sun) with her Moon in Pisces dating a Libra Man (Sun) with his Moon in Gemini.
Basically everything was fine until we got into a relationship. He is a really wonderful boy and I feel like I can learn a lot from him.
The problem is
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