Gettothepoint joined January 22, 2014
Scorp-Sag Cusp Moon in Virgo Mars in Libra
Scorp-Sag Cusp Moon in Virgo Mars in Libra
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Posted by M143
Gettothepoint,
wow. nice story. My ex fiance and I was like.. tom & gerry. and he kept coming once a year
he used to sent email like he did not intended but I know what is his tactics. lol
but I don't want him anymore. He was too strong and he is Sergeant US army and I can't deal
his jealousy... it was like when he wants me to Jump I must jump. Yet he cried after I left.
Too much emotional drama. Scorpio are good lovers. Just too difficult to handle.
About the jealousy part, I can definitely relate. My husband was one jealous SOB the first eight years, I mean REALLY irrationally jealous. He still is but nothing compared to years prior. He used to question me: "who's that guy?" "what does he want?" "don't you think he was leaning in too close?" I'd look at him and just laugh, like are you kidding me? Then he'd respond something to the effect of "well, I don't trust him."
I definitely agree about Scorps being a good lover. Based on my experience, they're really intense and aggressive in pursuing you once you give them the green light. They can also have a REALLY bad temper, express sudden rage--then act either vulnerable or ruthlessly cold. Again, this is based on my experience.
My best experience were always with other Scorps. Maybe it's my Scorp venus, Scorp Ascendant. My husband and ex were both Scorp Sun, Scorp venus. We immediately clung on to one another. I NEVER had that experience with other signs.
I either completely hit it off with other Scorps or there's that blah, no chemistry. I have never experienced any enmity with a Scorp. Several times with an Arie, but never with a Scorp.
My husband is a Scorp. When I first met him, I knew I was going to marry him.
Outside of my husband, my closest friends are Scorps. My first best friend at age 5 was a Scorp. Best friend throughout high school and college---is a Scorp as well.
My husband's has two best friends. One is a Scorp, other is a Leo.
My husband is a Scorp. When I first met him, I knew I was going to marry him.
Outside of my husband, my closest friends are Scorps. My first best friend at age 5 was a Scorp. Best friend throughout high school and college---is a Scorp as well.
My husband's has two best friends. One is a Scorp, other is a Leo.
Why are Scorp guys the dorky goofballs who often look unkempt---whereas Scorp dames are the hot, mean girls who non-Scorps despise but secretly wish to be approved by them?
Posted by RabbitPosted by tiziani
Well at least you had his best interests at heart. One door closes, another ten open. I'm sure there'll be another man down the line who doesn't feel the need to ice you out. Sometimes life with a Scorp is about taking them out the back in the alleyway with a rifle and putting them out their misery. The whole death and rebirth thing. Good luck.
False!
You want to use a .22 to the back of the skull to minimize the mess.click to expand
Convincing a Scorp to go to some alleyway would NEVER work. A Scorp would drive you frackin' insane by asking way TOO many questions, looking all paranoid--overanalyzing each street, scenery. A person may end up wrapping his hands around a Scorp's neck. And squeeze. Hard.
Just to get a Scorp to knock it off with the questions.
Posted by beckamitchell
You say you love him and couldn't deny it. If you didn't work for him, would you date him?
If your answer is yes, I'd reconsider your stance on this man. The reason being that a real live passionate love is at your doorstep. How few chances in this life do we get to really, truly experience a deep love...
To a Libra, it doesn't matter. It has to be the right, ethical thing to do. If it's against policies to date, a Libra can't date. That's a right and only prescribed thing to do. If they don't do the right thing, then they can't look at themselves in a mirror, won't be able to sleep nights because they did something they're not supposed to do.
Never argue with a Libra about this. It would be futile.
Good grief.
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebird
Creole,
Are you sure this is love and not "lust"?
Oh I love him very much. I've known him about nine years. We have lots of chemistry but I always thought it was more intellectual. Stick us in a room together, pull up a topic, and we're all over it, bouncing ideas around, and it's big fun and very stimulating.
I've never wanted him, not sure if he wants me or is/was a "dog in the manger." He's been "hiding" me from other people, don't know how else to describe it.click to expand
Oh. You're not attracted to him.
You love him BUT you're not in love with him. Right?
Also CreoleGeisha, don't bullshiet Scorps here---you knew that the guy was all hot and heavy, and you enjoyed the attention. Scorps ARE GOOD when they're fixated on a person, don't you agree? It can be hard to resist that kind of attention, don't you think?
But to lead a Scorp on, whether it's intentional or not---is NEVER a good idea. Maybe with a Gemini or a Leo, it's okay. But with a Scorp??? It would be like playing with fire. You gotta know what you're doing---or else, severe consequences.
As for him "hiding you," he claimed you as his possession. In his mind, you are his---belongs to him. He already fated you to become his wife.
lol, after he marries you---he'll probably surgically insert a microchip in you while you're sleeping. After that, he'd be able to track you down at all times of the day. Not that he's going to monitor you---he just likes the idea that he'd be able to find you wherever, whenever he wants.
Posted by CreoleGeisha
1) Well, you see, some humans believing in ascribing to certain standards and ethics and professionalism. So yes, some of us support propriety. However, in this case, there is also a question of compromise of licensing ethics that could be damaging.
2) Oh yeah, we Libras triple entendre. I've failed abyssmally at marriage in the past, in no rush to try again.
3) YOU HAVEN'T BEEN READING YOU CRETIN! UGH!
Oh my God...you're just like my sister. A Libra. I don't get her---she has to reason and rationalize everything. Even if it means sacrificing her desires/needs. Then she cries, is internally tormented about why other people don't follow the same philosophy.
She's a strange bird. I love her--but she's still a strange one. To me.
Posted by CreoleGeisha
Today, he called me into his office while a friend of his was visiting. I was shocked, because it's been so long since he's "allowed" me to see anyone. I thought/hoped maybe he was "over" me and we were back to our old selves. And I made a snide comment about his scanner not working properly "because she didn't like him."
D-I-S-A-S-T-E-R.
Definitely.
Rule #1: Never make fun of a Scorp at his/her expense. And if you do, it better be sarcastic---so he/she knows that you're not making fun of him/her--just making fun of, at the situation.
Posted by CreoleGeisha
Sorry. Got cut off.
I don't want to be "iced," but I don't want to romantically involve myself with him. I'd rather us just work together and be pals, like we used to be. We're productive and (I thought) happy. He's the lousiest negotiator in humanity.
WHY are men LIKE this? WHY can't they just be content with a good thing when they've got it?
Are you in love with him?
And newsflash: if a man and a woman are equally attractive, the chances of an attraction developing between one another WILL be high. Just the way it is.
If you didn't want him to be romantically interested in you, then there should have been another man within vicinity. Or be more cold, professional--don't let him grow attached to you. I don't know any Scorp who'd go out of his way to be nice to a woman. Unless he either wants something from her or he totally likes her.
Sorry---if a Scorp guy is ALL OF A SUDDEN sweet to me, asking me questions about personal stuff, joking around, being too helpful/suggesting that I contact him with any questions, nonchalently suggesting that we get lunch sometime--*eyes widening* oh oh. He wants something. An ulterior motive at play. He wants to know if I am going to take the bait or not. THAT's the critical time to start being more professional and short.
Sounds to me you had him on the hook. The guy would have married you within months if you played your cards right. And he'd be your slave to boot.
You are a libra?? Don't tell me that you were trying to do the right thing--not date him because it's against corporate policy?? Again, I think he would have married you. lol
Scorp probably thought he was played--though that was probably not your intention.
CreoleGeisha, what call did he reject in regards to work related matter?
If he were to shietcan you, it would probably have to be for any of the following reasons:
1) you were trying to steal from him;
2) lie to him;
3) embarass, made him feel like an idiot in front of his peers, upper management, whatever
4) gave secrets to a company's competitor;
5) interviewed for a job position at the company's competitor and not tell him;
6) he thought you back-stabbed him;
7) you were already skating on thin ice with him--one more offense, then bye-bye
Now, if you feel that you're going to be canned because you didn't want to date him---I wouldn't worry too much about that. He will probably endure you to much worse: the ICE treatment. Might be a good idea to keep off his radar screen at a minimum of five months.
Scorps are ruthless when it comes to dissing a person. Are you sure this is what you want--to not date him?? If you truly deep down want to be in a relationship with him, the ice--"you do not exist" treatment will be super-duper hell for you. Trust me.
If he were to shietcan you, it would probably have to be for any of the following reasons:
1) you were trying to steal from him;
2) lie to him;
3) embarass, made him feel like an idiot in front of his peers, upper management, whatever
4) gave secrets to a company's competitor;
5) interviewed for a job position at the company's competitor and not tell him;
6) he thought you back-stabbed him;
7) you were already skating on thin ice with him--one more offense, then bye-bye
Now, if you feel that you're going to be canned because you didn't want to date him---I wouldn't worry too much about that. He will probably endure you to much worse: the ICE treatment. Might be a good idea to keep off his radar screen at a minimum of five months.
Scorps are ruthless when it comes to dissing a person. Are you sure this is what you want--to not date him?? If you truly deep down want to be in a relationship with him, the ice--"you do not exist" treatment will be super-duper hell for you. Trust me.
Posted by CreoleGeisha
I guess I'm sort of surprised. I didn't expect to be so hurt, or for him to be so hurt and change toward me so abruptly. I did the right thing, the relationship he seemed to be seeking wasn't right for us. He didn't get what he wanted, but neither did I.
What was wrong with the relationship?
Posted by cancerkid
@gettothepoint
You think cancers jump from relationship to relationship? Lol. Trust me, if a cancer is in love at any point it will take a looooong time to get over. If ever. We can move on in the head but not in the heart.
Attracting a certain woman?? All scorpio girls I've been involved with have been very intelligent, cultured, and beautiful but have had this fucking psycho streak in them. Which is not limited to just outbursts and volatile behavior but months of silent manipulation and mind games. You can call it cat lady astrology but pretty much all the generalizations in astrology have been spot on with me, and it seems to be the same with everyone else I've heard from...except the dxp scorpio board of course
cancerkid, how long have you known these Scorpios? Were you friends with them first?
Personally, I have never been immediate friends with a Scorp from the first get-go. It takes a while to trust, then open up. Scorps I am friends with--I have known them for at least a year before we finally agreed to get coffee, lunch with. And this is for me to go out with a female, to become her friend (I am a female and straight). There has to be some level of familiarity and consistency.
My husband, a Scorp and I were platonic friends close to two years before we got together, engaged within five months, got married four months later. I dated another Scorp, same story---friends first, then aggressive courting afterwards.
I can believe that the Scorps you dated were beautiful, intelligent and cultured--and the attraction was immediate and intense. I think the issue is, a lot of times, a Scorp and Cancer want to get it on as soon as possible, or whatever--but meanwhile, they do not truly know one another.
I am sorry you had a bad experience with Scorps. Key is this: get to know them first, then possibly consider dating. Or just remain as friends.
Or is it possible that an attraction is way too strong, that a friendship at first is virtually impossible? And of course, NO FWB bullshiet.
And BTW, why did you even put up a week, a month of silent treatment or whatever? Right there, that's a problem. Especially with a Scorp. If a Scorp does that, he/she is either not interested and/or is involved with someone else. As a Scorp, I believe Scorps, who you truly believe are playing games, are not that interested.
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