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Thanks, Notyourtype! Your response answered everything quite eloquently
I apologize if the message seemed so fleeting, it was pretty late in the night and I was half awake.
I'm an Aquarius, by the way.
Also, I never said (to whomever mentioned this) that he committed a crime, I don't believe I spoke ill of him, I just don't know much about Libras and how they interact. I simply wanted insight on whether there may have been something that I could have done or if I just let myself get carried away.
And a "real relationship" because there has been no face-to-face is a subject I won't delve into, but we never agreed to have that title in the first place. We both agreed to just let things be and he said we would just let the relationship evolve on it's own...just seems like he devolved his side on his own without letting me know.
I apologize if the message seemed so fleeting, it was pretty late in the night and I was half awake.
I'm an Aquarius, by the way.
Also, I never said (to whomever mentioned this) that he committed a crime, I don't believe I spoke ill of him, I just don't know much about Libras and how they interact. I simply wanted insight on whether there may have been something that I could have done or if I just let myself get carried away.
And a "real relationship" because there has been no face-to-face is a subject I won't delve into, but we never agreed to have that title in the first place. We both agreed to just let things be and he said we would just let the relationship evolve on it's own...just seems like he devolved his side on his own without letting me know.
Hello! I just wanted some insight on a situation that has happened recently. I fully understand that I may have read signs wrong and/or let myself get swept away, but any advice helps
About 3 months ago, I met a libra man through mutual gaming friends. Mind you, we live several states apart. We IMMEDIATELY hit it off, our chemistry was great and we had so many things in common. For a few weeks, we constantly chatted for hours on end and eventually the subject got into my prior relationships (they've all ended terribly) and I ended up telling him everything, even things that involved emotions ( which is a major no no). Well, he told me he wanted to be there for me and if I ever needed someone he was there. Lovely!
We became so close he started disclosing things about himself and eventually would come to me when he was going through emotional things. We kind of depended on each other. So then it turned into a weird stage where we would fall asleep in the phone together just so we could wake up and say good morning, he would always tell me his schedule and when he would be available, Etc. We eventually talked about that and both agreed that we wanted no pressure and wanted things to be natural and organic.
About a month ago (2 months into our friendship) he starts backing off and being distant. When I talked to him, he sounded bored. I just let him be because I figured he was stressed from work and didn't mention any of my concern. About a week ago he starts talking to me again as his normal friend and tells me about a girl he met near him. Talk about a kick in the chest!
So after a few days I finally told him that it bothered me and asked him questions about what happened between us. He simply said he always saw us as just friends and that our relationship just evolved into what it is now. There was nothing fir me to really do at that point, so I said fine and we are still friends.
Any reasons why he would just drop what we had? His mood toward me changed almost overnight. I know he met a girl he is getting to know but I feel like we had such a deep connection and I don't want to give up too easily. I can give more details about my reactions to him if it helps!
About 3 months ago, I met a libra man through mutual gaming friends. Mind you, we live several states apart. We IMMEDIATELY hit it off, our chemistry was great and we had so many things in common. For a few weeks, we constantly chatted for hours on end and eventually the subject got into my prior relationships (they've all ended terribly) and I ended up telling him everything, even things that involved emotions ( which is a major no no). Well, he told me he wanted to be there for me and if I ever needed someone he was there. Lovely!
We became so close he started disclosing things about himself and eventually would come to me when he was going through emotional things. We kind of depended on each other. So then it turned into a weird stage where we would fall asleep in the phone together just so we could wake up and say good morning, he would always tell me his schedule and when he would be available, Etc. We eventually talked about that and both agreed that we wanted no pressure and wanted things to be natural and organic.
About a month ago (2 months into our friendship) he starts backing off and being distant. When I talked to him, he sounded bored. I just let him be because I figured he was stressed from work and didn't mention any of my concern. About a week ago he starts talking to me again as his normal friend and tells me about a girl he met near him. Talk about a kick in the chest!
So after a few days I finally told him that it bothered me and asked him questions about what happened between us. He simply said he always saw us as just friends and that our relationship just evolved into what it is now. There was nothing fir me to really do at that point, so I said fine and we are still friends.
Any reasons why he would just drop what we had? His mood toward me changed almost overnight. I know he met a girl he is getting to know but I feel like we had such a deep connection and I don't want to give up too easily. I can give more details about my reactions to him if it helps!
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