That's why I was asking do we all act the same or are we different?
Why do Cancers want something one minute and then change the next day?
Yeah I'm just confused by his actions and I do get the sense they try and do it to keep us as a fallback incase they can't meet anyone else, which is selfish. I know he's not happy I can't stay friends and he knows he has hurt me but he can't offer anymore so it's a safer option, he's not friends with his previous ex but I think she hurt him, so I do think you are right that it is also done out of guilt. Thank you for giving me some insight. 😀
Do you all do this? Or is it that there is a big emotional bond between you? Or simply that you want to keep them on the backburner?
I'm a cancerian female and if I've been hurt I would rather cut off contact than have to watch you getting on with your life, not sure if cancer females and males are the same, I thought we were similar but not really sure anymore. Any ideas?
Anyone have any incite on these?
Personality traits etc?
Sorry my phone switched off so I've created 2 posts by accident!
Any tips on how to switch off? It's driving me insane, my mood changes from happy to depressed because if this!
Help I want to stop analysing everything and I can't, fellow crabs what do you do to switch it off, or can you????
He's ok to entertain other girls, until he makes it official with you, even if he was dating you, it's still open forum until you have the commitment etc talk. He's just being friendly and bantering with you, you need to treat him the same way, after all at the minute you are both just friends. Don't mean to be harsh but you both have no ties to each other.
For friends I love virgos , aquarius, Gemini and fellow cancers.
With men I had a long relationship with a libra, but they had a tendency to get jealous.
Virgo male, very full on at first then dwindled when he got bored, had commitment issues.
The Scorpio was an insatiable liar, lied about everything, marriage, where he lived, kids etc, you name it he lied about it, but that was just one Scorpio I met, so I can't generalise and say they are all like that. But hated the fact I always caught him out.
Cancer I'm still trying to suss out.
I love that moonartist, that is so true it takes us a while to build up the courage to ask something, do we do wait a month, and we are usually erriely right, that's why people always think we have some sort of intuitive power, we are just hopeless at realising it ourselves for a while, and fixate on it and play out scenarios in our head as to different things they could mean by it (by something they said or did) my friends often ask me what does this mean or that mean, but I guess that's why we feel at a loss when we want to know something as few people analyse it like us, although I have to say, I have a lot of close Virgo friends, who also like doing this .
By asking me questions that's better than just replying and not asking anything, as that means he wants to talk, I'm guessing.