HappyKitten joined August 03, 2010
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Easy going Leo who loves being out and about! I enjoy each day to the fullest and am always thankful for what I have
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So happy and proud to hear how much you love Toronto Scorpsage!! I was born here and have lived here all of my 47 years.
Toronto is an amazing city with so much to offer. We are a multicultural melting pot of restaurant options. Toronto boasts several celebations, events, theatre, dance, clubs.....the options here are bountiful! I am proud to call Toronto home
Toronto is an amazing city with so much to offer. We are a multicultural melting pot of restaurant options. Toronto boasts several celebations, events, theatre, dance, clubs.....the options here are bountiful! I am proud to call Toronto home
Hi Diddylibra,
So sorry to hear about what's happened
From what youve posted I know you love your girl with all your heart. Its been three weeks and I know you dont want to pressure her and give her some space. Maybe attempt giving her a call and let her know you love and miss her. Dont know a woman that wouldnt want to hear that. Tell her how much you want to make it work with her. You dont have to mention anything about the engagement ring....just take it slow and let her know that your thinking of her and only her....
Just some words of advice from a Leo but you do what your conscience tells you Diddy and I hope all works out for you.
Best of luck!
So sorry to hear about what's happened
From what youve posted I know you love your girl with all your heart. Its been three weeks and I know you dont want to pressure her and give her some space. Maybe attempt giving her a call and let her know you love and miss her. Dont know a woman that wouldnt want to hear that. Tell her how much you want to make it work with her. You dont have to mention anything about the engagement ring....just take it slow and let her know that your thinking of her and only her....
Just some words of advice from a Leo but you do what your conscience tells you Diddy and I hope all works out for you.
Best of luck!
Hi Ellessque,
Go the pic route and put up some snaps of yourself. You will sift through several "strange creatures" but dont give up.
This Leo met her Libra husband on plentyoffish.com. We talked over the phone and sent emails for about 2 weeks after connecting online....met officially October 1st, 2008....became great friends that blossomed romantically and he told me he loved me December 5th, 2008. Libra proposed on Janurary 20th, 2009 (I said yes!) and we were married September 12th, 2009!!
On plentyoffish you can "hide" your profile and take a break from the insanity but dont give up....I didnt but I am now happier than I could have ever imagined!!
Best of luck Ellesque!!
Go the pic route and put up some snaps of yourself. You will sift through several "strange creatures" but dont give up.
This Leo met her Libra husband on plentyoffish.com. We talked over the phone and sent emails for about 2 weeks after connecting online....met officially October 1st, 2008....became great friends that blossomed romantically and he told me he loved me December 5th, 2008. Libra proposed on Janurary 20th, 2009 (I said yes!) and we were married September 12th, 2009!!
On plentyoffish you can "hide" your profile and take a break from the insanity but dont give up....I didnt but I am now happier than I could have ever imagined!!
Best of luck Ellesque!!
Have to say that Im with little_sparrow on this one. Once someone has hurt me or crossed the line I no longer include them in my life. I suppose that I wish them well in the future but they are not allowed in for a repeat performance. I move on and I hope that they do as well and find whatever they need or theyre looking for.
Hi there Aphrodite Bull!
1) Most manipulitive...in my experiences with lovers, friends etc....hands down...SCORPIO!!!
2) As a Leo I tend to let others who lie, cheat, and take advantage of me in various ways back themselves into a corner.
I too go with my gut instinct and can usually smell a rat a mile away!! I sit back and gather evidence- in eg. knowing when someone is lying or manipulating me and then I spring and lay it all out for them. When theyve tripped themselves up in small ways I file it away and then pounce!!! I have a fantastic memory so if little things dont click I remember situations, things that were said etc.. I can usually tell pretty early on if Im being shafted!!
3) To answer your third question...I come out like a raging warrior and the manipulator who thinks theyve been getting away with everything all along gets buried.
My Scorpio ex cheated on me. My Scorpio stepdaughter plays manipulative games between her mother and my husband to get all she wants. My husbands best friend (a female Scorp) gets totally jealous when he gushes over me and she feels jealous and left out. She will throw out little nasty zingers at those times to try to hurt me or make me feel like she has power over my guy.
For whatever reason Scorps and I just dont mix...perhaps because theyre a dominant fire sign as well??????
1) Most manipulitive...in my experiences with lovers, friends etc....hands down...SCORPIO!!!
2) As a Leo I tend to let others who lie, cheat, and take advantage of me in various ways back themselves into a corner.
I too go with my gut instinct and can usually smell a rat a mile away!! I sit back and gather evidence- in eg. knowing when someone is lying or manipulating me and then I spring and lay it all out for them. When theyve tripped themselves up in small ways I file it away and then pounce!!! I have a fantastic memory so if little things dont click I remember situations, things that were said etc.. I can usually tell pretty early on if Im being shafted!!
3) To answer your third question...I come out like a raging warrior and the manipulator who thinks theyve been getting away with everything all along gets buried.
My Scorpio ex cheated on me. My Scorpio stepdaughter plays manipulative games between her mother and my husband to get all she wants. My husbands best friend (a female Scorp) gets totally jealous when he gushes over me and she feels jealous and left out. She will throw out little nasty zingers at those times to try to hurt me or make me feel like she has power over my guy.
For whatever reason Scorps and I just dont mix...perhaps because theyre a dominant fire sign as well??????
Hi Amber911...
Have to say that I feel exactly as lioness81...cheating makes you history in my book and there is no going back.
I too uphold honesty and loyalty in the highest regard and respect it in all my relationships. Someone like this would be wiped from my life as well...someone I cant trust as my man and lover certainly will never be trusted as a friend either.
Have to say that I feel exactly as lioness81...cheating makes you history in my book and there is no going back.
I too uphold honesty and loyalty in the highest regard and respect it in all my relationships. Someone like this would be wiped from my life as well...someone I cant trust as my man and lover certainly will never be trusted as a friend either.
Thank you so much QLibra! Big Hug
Sending a HUGE thanks to all of you! Your responses were wonderful and shook a little common sense into me to do what I already knew needed to be done.....I TALKED to him!!
Talked things out with my husband over the past couple of days and cleared the air.
His behaviour was so unlike the man I married that I was stunned and hurt when normally I would have spoke up sooner. I know we all go through stressful times and can be moody but no one deserves to be constantly crapped on. He apologised for his ongoing grumpy behaviour and the fact that he had been taking it out on me. He knows me well enough to know that I was hurting but that made him even more frustrated with himself. When he gets quiet or restless I can tell when he needs to be alone and give him that freedom. When I have my bad days and just want to go hide alone with the tv or a book
I tell him verbally. Im not one who likes to be smothered constantly either and I do grant him his space. In order to answer LibraSid's question about making him apologise for past stuff...my mother still talks about stuff I did when I was 5 that annoyed her and it drives me nuts! When something is done and over its DONE!! Throwing something in someones face from the past is so uncool...enough already!! I love and adore my husband and I am 47 and this is my first (and only) marriage. Im past the age of the fighting with the high school boyfriend and hanging up on him and other silly games...
The fact that Im a Leo also means that Im a determined, stubborn, loyal broad who would do anything for my man
Thanks again to all of you!
Talked things out with my husband over the past couple of days and cleared the air.
His behaviour was so unlike the man I married that I was stunned and hurt when normally I would have spoke up sooner. I know we all go through stressful times and can be moody but no one deserves to be constantly crapped on. He apologised for his ongoing grumpy behaviour and the fact that he had been taking it out on me. He knows me well enough to know that I was hurting but that made him even more frustrated with himself. When he gets quiet or restless I can tell when he needs to be alone and give him that freedom. When I have my bad days and just want to go hide alone with the tv or a book
I tell him verbally. Im not one who likes to be smothered constantly either and I do grant him his space. In order to answer LibraSid's question about making him apologise for past stuff...my mother still talks about stuff I did when I was 5 that annoyed her and it drives me nuts! When something is done and over its DONE!! Throwing something in someones face from the past is so uncool...enough already!! I love and adore my husband and I am 47 and this is my first (and only) marriage. Im past the age of the fighting with the high school boyfriend and hanging up on him and other silly games...
The fact that Im a Leo also means that Im a determined, stubborn, loyal broad who would do anything for my man
Thanks again to all of you!
this Leo female thanks you kindly for the sweet words No1delete2
I havent been on this forum long but have met a few of you regulars....
I am a Leo woman married to a Libra man for just over a year. I love my husband dearly but seem to find some serious ripples starting in our relationship. I have been seeing a darker side of my husband over the last few months that seems to be becoming a regular occurence in our relationship. Seems that everything I do or say seems to irritate him and I get snapped at. On a few ocassions my husband has belittled and chastised me like a child in front of strangers, Cant explain how much this wounds me as I try to support him to no end and would NEVER embarress or hurt him in front of others. On the other hand amongst our friends he gushes over me and appears to be the perfect husband in their company.
Seems all that he has ever said or done to hurt is forgotten and the word "sorry" is not in his vocabulary. On the other hand all I do seems to be inexcusable. I have always read that Libras detest seeing their mates cry and become emotional. It seems like I go into the bathroom a lot lately and cry so as not to make a scene. I have excused this behaviour in the past due to stress my husband has at work and lately with his daughter. We now seem to be at a point where bickering is an everyday occurrence and I dont think either of us is happy right now.
Can any of you Libras give me some insight please on how to go about mending and healing things? I take my marriage vows very seriously but am to the point where Im so afraid to broach my husband because its constant backlash....
I am a Leo woman married to a Libra man for just over a year. I love my husband dearly but seem to find some serious ripples starting in our relationship. I have been seeing a darker side of my husband over the last few months that seems to be becoming a regular occurence in our relationship. Seems that everything I do or say seems to irritate him and I get snapped at. On a few ocassions my husband has belittled and chastised me like a child in front of strangers, Cant explain how much this wounds me as I try to support him to no end and would NEVER embarress or hurt him in front of others. On the other hand amongst our friends he gushes over me and appears to be the perfect husband in their company.
Seems all that he has ever said or done to hurt is forgotten and the word "sorry" is not in his vocabulary. On the other hand all I do seems to be inexcusable. I have always read that Libras detest seeing their mates cry and become emotional. It seems like I go into the bathroom a lot lately and cry so as not to make a scene. I have excused this behaviour in the past due to stress my husband has at work and lately with his daughter. We now seem to be at a point where bickering is an everyday occurrence and I dont think either of us is happy right now.
Can any of you Libras give me some insight please on how to go about mending and healing things? I take my marriage vows very seriously but am to the point where Im so afraid to broach my husband because its constant backlash....
zju and Libra Love you both have hit the nail on the head!
May I say that as a Leo female I experience these exact same "funks" and have no idea what brings them on
and I as well find them hard to shake. As a mater of fact, Ive been experiencing one the past couple of weeks and
I seem to be exhausted as well....not fun
May I say that as a Leo female I experience these exact same "funks" and have no idea what brings them on
and I as well find them hard to shake. As a mater of fact, Ive been experiencing one the past couple of weeks and
I seem to be exhausted as well....not fun
Hi PinkLibra
I am a female Leo who's married to a Libra guy.
Read your posting and then reread it once again. I hate to burst your bubble but I just dont get a good vibe from this Leo guy. Im sorry....you seem like such a sweet girl but hun, I really think this guy is just using you. My advice would be to play it cool and avoid him. If he is a sincere Leo he will make an effort to win you over. If not you will find that his efforts peter out and he'll eventually disappear.
Leo and Libra can be a great match usually (as I know from experience) but personally I think you deserve better. Best of luck
I am a female Leo who's married to a Libra guy.
Read your posting and then reread it once again. I hate to burst your bubble but I just dont get a good vibe from this Leo guy. Im sorry....you seem like such a sweet girl but hun, I really think this guy is just using you. My advice would be to play it cool and avoid him. If he is a sincere Leo he will make an effort to win you over. If not you will find that his efforts peter out and he'll eventually disappear.
Leo and Libra can be a great match usually (as I know from experience) but personally I think you deserve better. Best of luck
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