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Like you guys are saying that Cancer wants someone to play cold, I wasn't like that. I was mostly by his side, doing things the way he wanted to and I didn't mind that but I guess I was being too weak idk. I am a Capricorn and I've read that these two signs don't really match up but if you're willing to work on it, hey nothing's impossible. In my opinion he's being immature with his decisions knowing that it's not like he can walk away and leave everything behind (cuz he's saying he'll stay until August) so my thing is how do you expect to be friends with someone that you used to kiss and have sex with while now you just share an apartment?
As of talking, every time we talk I end up feeling like shit and he just says things like oh I don't feel the same, oh I'm not positive about our future together, oh you've changed you're not the girl I used to know, oh this shit and that shit. Then the next day he messes around like nothing happened between us and he acts like everything's normal like we're two pals. I don't know for how long I'll continue to bear this. I'm telling myself to start thinking more about me and less about him or do more stuff so I'll get busy doing other stuff, but every time it's time to come home, idk I feel like I'm empty inside. And when I see that his car it's not parked on the spot he usually leaves it, idk I feel this weird feeling in my stomach.
P.S: when we were talking he asked me if I still had butterflies in my stomach and I said yes while apparently he doesn't have them anymore.
As of talking, every time we talk I end up feeling like shit and he just says things like oh I don't feel the same, oh I'm not positive about our future together, oh you've changed you're not the girl I used to know, oh this shit and that shit. Then the next day he messes around like nothing happened between us and he acts like everything's normal like we're two pals. I don't know for how long I'll continue to bear this. I'm telling myself to start thinking more about me and less about him or do more stuff so I'll get busy doing other stuff, but every time it's time to come home, idk I feel like I'm empty inside. And when I see that his car it's not parked on the spot he usually leaves it, idk I feel this weird feeling in my stomach.
P.S: when we were talking he asked me if I still had butterflies in my stomach and I said yes while apparently he doesn't have them anymore.
Guys I really appreciate your advice. I really don't know how to React to his actions n words. He tells me why are you starting to hang out and accept invitations from other guys then he said don't mind my words cuz it's just a cover up to make him feel better. I don't know what else to do but Mr. I won't go back once I made a decision seems to be over me quite soon. Ohh and he said that once that one of his relationships is over, he never goes back bc he remembers how he used to feel during that particular time and doesn't wanna suffer again. Idk, I just wish that I could find the strength to feel happy again as soon as possible. my heart can't deal with this sh!t
. My love it's like a platonic love rite now.
. My love it's like a platonic love rite now.
Hey guys. I'm feeling very confused so I decided to get some other opinions by writing here.
Me and my boyfriend broke up in March and since then we've seen each other a lot of times and I can say that about once a week we fight about the brake up and I end up humiliating myself asking him to get back together. What I left without saying is the fact that we live together. I know it's VERY weird and I asked him to leave the apt but he refused the first time then the second time started saying things like he has a lot of things to pack and relocating it's not a good option right now, so he's gonna stay until the end of lease which is like 4 months from now. Anyway, to me it's very hard to get over him. I love him more than ever, I wanna be with him, wanna spend time with him; while on our third and last fight he told me that he doesn't love me anymore, he's not jealous anymore but he cares and doesn't wanna see me get hurt by other people who might wanna take advantage of me. That night we slept on the same bed hugging each other(after a very long time), we also cried (one of the very few times that I've seen him cry), and talked a lot about the problems that we had; but the way he sees it (acc to me),he doesn't wanna take back his decision once he has his mind set. He also told me things that I wasn't expecting to hear like he doesn't wanna do things with me anymore, doesn't wanna go see places, doesn't wanna hang out with me; but at the same time he's trying to set up some sort of "friends" relationship by talking to me and messing around by saying things like: you wanna sleep with me at my bed tonight? I am heartbroken because I still think that he's the one. I know that we were together for 18 months only but it's just so hard to tell to your heart to stop loving someone that you've shared everything with. Or tell to your mind to kill that love that it was meant to be for him. My friends keep telling me to let go but I just don't feel I am ready even though he seems to be over me. I still love him with all my heart and I know that I screwed up but I wanna change things around. (Btw according to him I wasn't paying attention to details anymore and I wasn't showing my entire love and joy while we were together. He said that he thought of this situation for about 2 months until he finally decided to tell me. I knew something weird was going on and I did ask him but he always said nothing's wrong. Sadly I never thought he was preparing the "break up speech"
Me and my boyfriend broke up in March and since then we've seen each other a lot of times and I can say that about once a week we fight about the brake up and I end up humiliating myself asking him to get back together. What I left without saying is the fact that we live together. I know it's VERY weird and I asked him to leave the apt but he refused the first time then the second time started saying things like he has a lot of things to pack and relocating it's not a good option right now, so he's gonna stay until the end of lease which is like 4 months from now. Anyway, to me it's very hard to get over him. I love him more than ever, I wanna be with him, wanna spend time with him; while on our third and last fight he told me that he doesn't love me anymore, he's not jealous anymore but he cares and doesn't wanna see me get hurt by other people who might wanna take advantage of me. That night we slept on the same bed hugging each other(after a very long time), we also cried (one of the very few times that I've seen him cry), and talked a lot about the problems that we had; but the way he sees it (acc to me),he doesn't wanna take back his decision once he has his mind set. He also told me things that I wasn't expecting to hear like he doesn't wanna do things with me anymore, doesn't wanna go see places, doesn't wanna hang out with me; but at the same time he's trying to set up some sort of "friends" relationship by talking to me and messing around by saying things like: you wanna sleep with me at my bed tonight? I am heartbroken because I still think that he's the one. I know that we were together for 18 months only but it's just so hard to tell to your heart to stop loving someone that you've shared everything with. Or tell to your mind to kill that love that it was meant to be for him. My friends keep telling me to let go but I just don't feel I am ready even though he seems to be over me. I still love him with all my heart and I know that I screwed up but I wanna change things around. (Btw according to him I wasn't paying attention to details anymore and I wasn't showing my entire love and joy while we were together. He said that he thought of this situation for about 2 months until he finally decided to tell me. I knew something weird was going on and I did ask him but he always said nothing's wrong. Sadly I never thought he was preparing the "break up speech"
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Hey guys. I'm feeling very confused so I decided to get some other opinions by writing here. Me and my boyfriend broke
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