Posted by ICEPosted by daron76I do really care about him and letting him go, as hard as it is going to be, is the right thing to do. Thanks for the response. It was what I needed...Posted by ICESorry, can't really sugar coat this one- and I don't think this needs to be Cap specific. I'd say let him and it go. You can't make someone come back to you no more than you could make them stay with you. You are responsible for what you said/did. He is responsible for how he responds to that. Right now his response is to move on from you. If you truly care about him then you should be able to respect hat decision. If he decides to come back, then he will. If he doesn't, then he won't. Regardless, you shouldn't wait around for the answer. Forgive him and (most importantly) forgive yourself and move forward.Posted by daron76Posted by sakuraflowersWell for me, that used to happen when I was busy or needed to work on some personal issues. Now that I am older, I know better than to just up and disappear- I'll let my partner know what I need to work and the space I'll need to do it.Posted by daron76Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one.
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo.![]()
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Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?
The other reason this happens is that there is either something I realized or something she did that made me lose interest and/or respect. Loss of interest would generate distance. Loss of respect would generate a disappearing act- cause I couldn't care less about that persons feelings at that point.
I lost his respect, friendship and trust after I said some very hurtful things after an argument. How do i win his respect back if he ignores my texts? Refuses to give me another chance? And says he is with someone now.., help. Please!click to expand
Posted by daron76I do really care about him and letting him go, as hard as it is going to be, is the right thing to do. Thanks for the response. It was what I needed...Posted by ICESorry, can't really sugar coat this one- and I don't think this needs to be Cap specific. I'd say let him and it go. You can't make someone come back to you no more than you could make them stay with you. You are responsible for what you said/did. He is responsible for how he responds to that. Right now his response is to move on from you. If you truly care about him then you should be able to respect hat decision. If he decides to come back, then he will. If he doesn't, then he won't. Regardless, you shouldn't wait around for the answer. Forgive him and (most importantly) forgive yourself and move forward.Posted by daron76Posted by sakuraflowersWell for me, that used to happen when I was busy or needed to work on some personal issues. Now that I am older, I know better than to just up and disappear- I'll let my partner know what I need to work and the space I'll need to do it.Posted by daron76Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one.
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo.![]()
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Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?
The other reason this happens is that there is either something I realized or something she did that made me lose interest and/or respect. Loss of interest would generate distance. Loss of respect would generate a disappearing act- cause I couldn't care less about that persons feelings at that point.
I lost his respect, friendship and trust after I said some very hurtful things after an argument. How do i win his respect back if he ignores my texts? Refuses to give me another chance? And says he is with someone now.., help. Please!click to expand
Posted by Capri-sunThanks...Posted by ICEPosted by daron76Posted by sakuraflowersWell for me, that used to happen when I was busy or needed to work on some personal issues. Now that I am older, I know better than to just up and disappear- I'll let my partner know what I need to work and the space I'll need to do it.Posted by daron76Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one.
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo.![]()
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Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?
The other reason this happens is that there is either something I realized or something she did that made me lose interest and/or respect. Loss of interest would generate distance. Loss of respect would generate a disappearing act- cause I couldn't care less about that persons feelings at that point.
I lost his respect, friendship and trust after I said some very hurtful things after an argument. How do i win his respect back if he ignores my texts? Refuses to give me another chance? And says he is with someone now.., help. Please!
Nothing you can do at that point...I'm not a guy though so their answer might be different.click to expand
Posted by daron76Posted by sakuraflowersWell for me, that used to happen when I was busy or needed to work on some personal issues. Now that I am older, I know better than to just up and disappear- I'll let my partner know what I need to work and the space I'll need to do it.Posted by daron76Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one.
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo.![]()
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Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?
The other reason this happens is that there is either something I realized or something she did that made me lose interest and/or respect. Loss of interest would generate distance. Loss of respect would generate a disappearing act- cause I couldn't care less about that persons feelings at that point.click to expand