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Do they come back, Capricorn men?


I am taking my day one moment at a time, and am focusing on other aspects of my life, like work and catching up on series. It's hard to not think about him, but I am trying to move on.


I am wondering: do they ever come back?
I have given in and have decided to respect his decision and have let him, move on.


I'm doing what I can to move on, too. Am focusing on my work and reading. It's hard not thinking about him.


Do Capricorn Men ever come back?


I'm a Taurus.
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You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. smile
Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one. Tongue


Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?
Well for me, that used to happen when I was busy or needed to work on some personal issues. Now that I am older, I know better than to just up and disappear- I'll let my partner know what I need to work and the space I'll need to do it.


The other reason this happens is that there is either something I realized or something she did that made me lose interest and/or respect. Loss of interest would generate distance. Loss of respect would generate a disappearing act- cause I couldn't care less about that persons feelings at that point.


I lost his respect, friendship and trust after I said some very hurtful things after an argument. How do i win his respect back if he ignores my texts? Refuses to give me another chance? And says he is with someone now.., help. Please!

Sorry, can't really sugar coat this one- and I don't think this needs to be Cap specific. I'd say let him and it go. You can't make someone come back to you no more than you could make them stay with you. You are responsible for what you said/did. He is responsible for how he responds to that. Right now his response is to move on from you. If you truly care about him then you should be able to respect hat decision. If he decides to come back, then he will. If he doesn't, then he won't. Regardless, you shouldn't wait around for the answer. Forgive him and (most importantly) forgive yourself and move forward.
I do really care about him and letting him go, as hard as it is going to be, is the right thing to do. Thanks for the response. It was what I needed...
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Thank you to the person who responded to this without sugar coating it. I've sent my goodbye message, and i feel better already. I think it was just my stubborn streak making me hold on longer than was right. This response above was the final push I needed.


Great Job with this thread! It's very helpful!!


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Posted by sakuraflowers
Posted by daron76
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. smile
Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one. Tongue


Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?
Well for me, that used to happen when I was busy or needed to work on some personal issues. Now that I am older, I know better than to just up and disappear- I'll let my partner know what I need to work and the space I'll need to do it.


The other reason this happens is that there is either something I realized or something she did that made me lose interest and/or respect. Loss of interest would generate distance. Loss of respect would generate a disappearing act- cause I couldn't care less about that persons feelings at that point.


I lost his respect, friendship and trust after I said some very hurtful things after an argument. How do i win his respect back if he ignores my texts? Refuses to give me another chance? And says he is with someone now.., help. Please!

Sorry, can't really sugar coat this one- and I don't think this needs to be Cap specific. I'd say let him and it go. You can't make someone come back to you no more than you could make them stay with you. You are responsible for what you said/did. He is responsible for how he responds to that. Right now his response is to move on from you. If you truly care about him then you should be able to respect hat decision. If he decides to come back, then he will. If he doesn't, then he won't. Regardless, you shouldn't wait around for the answer. Forgive him and (most importantly) forgive yourself and move forward.
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I do really care about him and letting him go, as hard as it is going to be, is the right thing to do. Thanks for the response. It was what I needed...
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Posted by ICE
Posted by daron76
Posted by sakuraflowers
Posted by daron76
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. smile
Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one. Tongue


Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?
Well for me, that used to happen when I was busy or needed to work on some personal issues. Now that I am older, I know better than to just up and disappear- I'll let my partner know what I need to work and the space I'll need to do it.


The other reason this happens is that there is either something I realized or something she did that made me lose interest and/or respect. Loss of interest would generate distance. Loss of respect would generate a disappearing act- cause I couldn't care less about that persons feelings at that point.


I lost his respect, friendship and trust after I said some very hurtful things after an argument. How do i win his respect back if he ignores my texts? Refuses to give me another chance? And says he is with someone now.., help. Please!



Nothing you can do at that point...I'm not a guy though so their answer might be different.

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Posted by sakuraflowers
Posted by daron76
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo. smile
Woohoo. I'll go with the most common one. Tongue


Why do Cap male go silent or disappear?
Well for me, that used to happen when I was busy or needed to work on some personal issues. Now that I am older, I know better than to just up and disappear- I'll let my partner know what I need to work and the space I'll need to do it.


The other reason this happens is that there is either something I realized or something she did that made me lose interest and/or respect. Loss of interest would generate distance. Loss of respect would generate a disappearing act- cause I couldn't care less about that persons feelings at that point.
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I lost his respect, friendship and trust after I said some very hurtful things after an argument. How do i win his respect back if he ignores my texts? Refuses to give me another chance? And says he is with someone now.., help. Please!

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I have given in and have decided to respect his decision and have let him, move on. I'm doing what I can to move on, too. Am focusing on my work and reading. It's hard not thinking about him. Do Capricorn Men ever come back? I'm a Taurus.
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