insatiableo joined May 29, 2011
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Sigh. I know what you're saying. And it's all true. The Cancer boy has himself stepped out of a relationship, so even though I haven't shared my past with him, he has and he's said he's cautious with us. Besides, he's leaving country in a coupla months, so he's not looking for anything serious. Which was one of the reasons, I thought this would be the safest method of trying to move on.
I guess I need some time with myself, and figure things out. Figure a way to move on. We just had such a wonderful time together. And I miss him everyday, every minute. I guess it's true when they say, if a Leo girl falls in love with an Aries boy, she'll take forever to get over him. It'll take me years before I forget this affair.
I just wish he'd just meet me once. It all feels so unfulfilled at my end.
I guess I need some time with myself, and figure things out. Figure a way to move on. We just had such a wonderful time together. And I miss him everyday, every minute. I guess it's true when they say, if a Leo girl falls in love with an Aries boy, she'll take forever to get over him. It'll take me years before I forget this affair.
I just wish he'd just meet me once. It all feels so unfulfilled at my end.
I'd been dating my Aries boy for a few months, it was incredible, he was so into me etc, and I'd never been this crazy about anyone before, then I had to move cities cause of jobs. Once I moved things changed, he wouldn't be around alot, we'd barely talk, and everytime I'd go back home, he's be reluctant to meet. Eventually one fine day, he broke up with me over a text, saying he doesn't see us working out. I was shattered, I went home, he refused to meet, making excuses, and I fought with him and he stopped talking to me, not responding to my emails and texts.
This was two months ago. I came back, there was this Cancer boy here at work who really liked me, and in my foolish and desperate attempt to get over my Aries I started going out with him. He's such a nice boy, he knows nothing about my Aries guy. And he's caring, protective and always around. But I feel nothing. I've been trying to get over my ex, but it's so hard, every time I see any online update from him I totally break down. Last week he sent me a text as his grandfather was ill, and blood transfusion was needed, and I had the same blood group. This was the first communication we had since that whole fight episode. I wasn't in the city, but I told him I'd fly home immediately if required. He said he'll let me know if they can't arrange it and that was that.
I've kept myself busy, immersed in work, but nothing helps. Been going out alot more then I did. And am moving back home.
We were so good together, had so much fun. I just wish I could see him once. I just wish there was a hope of reconciliation. There was noone as amazing as him, and I doubt there would be. No chance of reconciliation?
This was two months ago. I came back, there was this Cancer boy here at work who really liked me, and in my foolish and desperate attempt to get over my Aries I started going out with him. He's such a nice boy, he knows nothing about my Aries guy. And he's caring, protective and always around. But I feel nothing. I've been trying to get over my ex, but it's so hard, every time I see any online update from him I totally break down. Last week he sent me a text as his grandfather was ill, and blood transfusion was needed, and I had the same blood group. This was the first communication we had since that whole fight episode. I wasn't in the city, but I told him I'd fly home immediately if required. He said he'll let me know if they can't arrange it and that was that.
I've kept myself busy, immersed in work, but nothing helps. Been going out alot more then I did. And am moving back home.
We were so good together, had so much fun. I just wish I could see him once. I just wish there was a hope of reconciliation. There was noone as amazing as him, and I doubt there would be. No chance of reconciliation?
No No, I am defn getting one for me. I just wanted to know if Rams have a particular aversion to this kinda stuff.
Anyway, I'm getting something signifying Karma, on my lower right side of waist.
I hope he doesn't freak out.
Anyway, I'm getting something signifying Karma, on my lower right side of waist.
I hope he doesn't freak out.
So, my Aries man is back in my life, after ALOT of drama. I still love him like crazy, I've just learned to give him alot of space now.
Anyhoo, I'm thinking of getting a tattoo cause I've wanted one for very long. And want to surprise him.
What do you arians think about getting em? Any particular designs that would be particularly attractive to an Aries male? And body part?
Anyhoo, I'm thinking of getting a tattoo cause I've wanted one for very long. And want to surprise him.
What do you arians think about getting em? Any particular designs that would be particularly attractive to an Aries male? And body part?
He just called a while back...and we chatted like best buddies.. we still do..and he was telling me all these funny work stories!! I don't get it. If it's over, it's over. Why does he still hang around?
So there's this Aries Man, and I'm a Leo. We dated for a while, long distanced. We'd been long distancing for a while. Simply put, he lost interest, and he called off the relationship saying he doesn't "see us working out" through a text. I was devastated, cried, lost my self-respect, told him how much I love him, but I'll accept his decision. We decided to remain friends and keep the communication door open since we aren't kids. I don't know if there was anyone else, there possibly was. But then that's that. I don't know, and can't do anything about it.
Now we still talk, joke about things, random topics. I'm still very much in love with him, but I don't show it. I've met other men in the time we broke up, but I'm still finding it very very hard to move on. I know his feelings are gone, so it's easy for him to act like nothing happened.
I'm in town currently for a few days, and I really wanna meet him. It's all so different when we're together. We were talking last night, and I suggested it, and he kept dilly dallying around the topic. So, finally I changed it.
I don't know what I'm doing. Everyone tells me it's over, and I should move on. My heart doesn't agree. I'm still being hopeful thinking things will turn out. They won't would they? I do want to meet him once, should I bluntly say it leaving my pride aside?
Now we still talk, joke about things, random topics. I'm still very much in love with him, but I don't show it. I've met other men in the time we broke up, but I'm still finding it very very hard to move on. I know his feelings are gone, so it's easy for him to act like nothing happened.
I'm in town currently for a few days, and I really wanna meet him. It's all so different when we're together. We were talking last night, and I suggested it, and he kept dilly dallying around the topic. So, finally I changed it.
I don't know what I'm doing. Everyone tells me it's over, and I should move on. My heart doesn't agree. I'm still being hopeful thinking things will turn out. They won't would they? I do want to meet him once, should I bluntly say it leaving my pride aside?
Sigh. I never meant that I couldn't wait for him to stop. I love to listen to him. He's so cute when he's telling me all his stories. And they're really funny.
I don't want to give up on this. He knows where I am at emotionally. He knows it very very well. He doesn't reciprocate, yes. But he's never said no. When we're together, it's so wonderful. He's attentive. Caring. It's just the moment I leave town, to come back here, he suddenly starts distancing himself. And then it gets all moody. It pretty much starts from the second I get dropped off to the airport, and he disappears. Maybe he can't handle the long distance.
He's at a point in his life where he's going through so much shit. He's lost his sleep. His appetite for days. Maybe I won't get the love back that I wish for right now. I'm not gonna leave him. I care for him too much. It's just when he snaps at me, it' gets tough. I don't react because I don't want to add to his troubles right now. If once things sort out, and he decides to move on, instead of turning back to me. I guess that's gonna be my fate.
"You can dislike him, hate him, call him the bad guy all you want, but the nice way to put this is that you both aren't good together."
Not once did I say I anything bad about him. If I was going through what all he is, I'd probably have acted worse. I just wish I could see him more often. It's so much easier. And simpler
I don't want to give up on this. He knows where I am at emotionally. He knows it very very well. He doesn't reciprocate, yes. But he's never said no. When we're together, it's so wonderful. He's attentive. Caring. It's just the moment I leave town, to come back here, he suddenly starts distancing himself. And then it gets all moody. It pretty much starts from the second I get dropped off to the airport, and he disappears. Maybe he can't handle the long distance.
He's at a point in his life where he's going through so much shit. He's lost his sleep. His appetite for days. Maybe I won't get the love back that I wish for right now. I'm not gonna leave him. I care for him too much. It's just when he snaps at me, it' gets tough. I don't react because I don't want to add to his troubles right now. If once things sort out, and he decides to move on, instead of turning back to me. I guess that's gonna be my fate.
"You can dislike him, hate him, call him the bad guy all you want, but the nice way to put this is that you both aren't good together."
Not once did I say I anything bad about him. If I was going through what all he is, I'd probably have acted worse. I just wish I could see him more often. It's so much easier. And simpler
So we hadn't spoken in three days. Last night I saw him online, and pinged him. After a while of random chit chat, he called. We spoke for like an hour. Mostly he did the talking, was talking about work, the interviews he's attended etc. Everytime I had something to share he was barely attentive. It annoyed me, and I stopped midway of telling a story, and told him it's pointless since he's clearly distracted. He asked me once to continue, and then said leave it and started rambling about another one of his stories. He knows me. And he knows when he hurts me. It's like he's just stopped caring. Suddenly.
And I get what you women are saying, and rationally that is the right thing to do. But, my heart is gone and I can't help try make this work. I'm already shattered, how much worse can it get. Should I have an honest chat with him? He's going through so much work studd that I really don't w3ant to bring this up right now!
And I get what you women are saying, and rationally that is the right thing to do. But, my heart is gone and I can't help try make this work. I'm already shattered, how much worse can it get. Should I have an honest chat with him? He's going through so much work studd that I really don't w3ant to bring this up right now!
Just to add, he's an indepedent top B-School grad. He started his venture a year ago, which has totally crashed and he's job hunting again, but not without two bad rejections. A common friend told me he talks about me with his best friend, and he told him right now he's got too much going on, and isn't capable of giving me what I want. Which is why I'm taking his mood swings, and letting him settle down. It's just when he snaps, and distances himself so coldly I'm left shattered.
So, id posted a coupla months ago about having met an Aries man. Well, we we'd been dating (long distancing), and things have been rough. It started somewhere with him going through alot of personal stuff, with his family and business not doing well. I acted a little immature, since he'd been acting moody alot, and one day I snapped. And told him to either start sharing things with me by opening up, or leaving me.
We didn't speak for weeks, and then I initiated contact, and we started speaking again. Since the incident things have obviously changed. I am working in a different city so.we anyway can't meet. I flew back home twice for him, we'd meet each time, it's been friendly. He still shares his problems with me, but he snaps alot more. He's taken his love back, and I can understand why. We've never spoken about the incident.
I know he cares about me, but he doesn't cherish me how he used to. He's going through alot of things simultaneously, and I'm trying my best to help him in any way possible. I really really love him. Last time I went home, he'd had a fight with his family and he didn't wanna see me. I somehow pulled him out of his home, we went out and I'd bought engraved cufflinks for him, he seemed touched by the gesture. And his mood lightened up, for which he thanked me later. But he's pulled away.
I just wish I knew what to do.
We talk every alternate day. But it's always dry. I'm still affectionate, and he reaches out when he's feeling.down. But he snaps if I'm unable to cheer him up. Acting completely childish. Yesterday he was in a bad mood. We were chatting online and I had no idea. I mentioned something about going on a work trip, and he snapped saying I can't even understand he's in a bad mood and that he's gonna go watch TV since he doesn't feel like talking to me right now.
I just told him sorry, I had no idea. Tried to cheer him up, but then he went offline and stopped replying.
I'm just becoming a mess emotionally. And growing tired
We didn't speak for weeks, and then I initiated contact, and we started speaking again. Since the incident things have obviously changed. I am working in a different city so.we anyway can't meet. I flew back home twice for him, we'd meet each time, it's been friendly. He still shares his problems with me, but he snaps alot more. He's taken his love back, and I can understand why. We've never spoken about the incident.
I know he cares about me, but he doesn't cherish me how he used to. He's going through alot of things simultaneously, and I'm trying my best to help him in any way possible. I really really love him. Last time I went home, he'd had a fight with his family and he didn't wanna see me. I somehow pulled him out of his home, we went out and I'd bought engraved cufflinks for him, he seemed touched by the gesture. And his mood lightened up, for which he thanked me later. But he's pulled away.
I just wish I knew what to do.
We talk every alternate day. But it's always dry. I'm still affectionate, and he reaches out when he's feeling.down. But he snaps if I'm unable to cheer him up. Acting completely childish. Yesterday he was in a bad mood. We were chatting online and I had no idea. I mentioned something about going on a work trip, and he snapped saying I can't even understand he's in a bad mood and that he's gonna go watch TV since he doesn't feel like talking to me right now.
I just told him sorry, I had no idea. Tried to cheer him up, but then he went offline and stopped replying.
I'm just becoming a mess emotionally. And growing tired
I'm actually moving cities in a couple of days, to start a new job, which is why I was so impatient with him spending time away from me knowing I'll be gone soon.
We had a long honest talk a while ago, and I asked him what our status is, and what are we doing, since all this is so confusing. He did admit, that this isn't normal - and a little dysfunctional. After a lot of doodling around (Man! He was worse than Ross in that episode with Mona, where she wants to know where they are) and thinking and thinking and blabbering - he finally gave me a response saying - "If you're asking are we together? Yes we are! Are we madly in love? No, not yet! But do we wanna see where this is going? Yes! And, are there feelings? Yes, there are!"
On asking where do we stand with the soon to hit us long distance he said - "See practically, there is always a chance we may find someone else, someone special, and we can't do anything about it. Let's see what happens once you're gone"
Looks like for the first time in my life, I'd have to be patient in a relationship!
@ImpressMe - Thanks a ton! How did you ever become so wise!!!
Also, he did say there is no one else by stating "where is the time to date anyone else, besides I don't have it in me to be romantic with a girl anymore"
I don't know if I should construe these as positive or negative! I'm just tired, and we'll see where it goes.
I just hate the fact that I fell for him like a school girl, just fall in love, and now I've been forced to step back, keep my feelings under control, and act all mature and sensible and patiently wait. I just hope this works out.
We had a long honest talk a while ago, and I asked him what our status is, and what are we doing, since all this is so confusing. He did admit, that this isn't normal - and a little dysfunctional. After a lot of doodling around (Man! He was worse than Ross in that episode with Mona, where she wants to know where they are) and thinking and thinking and blabbering - he finally gave me a response saying - "If you're asking are we together? Yes we are! Are we madly in love? No, not yet! But do we wanna see where this is going? Yes! And, are there feelings? Yes, there are!"
On asking where do we stand with the soon to hit us long distance he said - "See practically, there is always a chance we may find someone else, someone special, and we can't do anything about it. Let's see what happens once you're gone"
Looks like for the first time in my life, I'd have to be patient in a relationship!
@ImpressMe - Thanks a ton! How did you ever become so wise!!!
Also, he did say there is no one else by stating "where is the time to date anyone else, besides I don't have it in me to be romantic with a girl anymore" I don't know if I should construe these as positive or negative! I'm just tired, and we'll see where it goes.
I just hate the fact that I fell for him like a school girl, just fall in love, and now I've been forced to step back, keep my feelings under control, and act all mature and sensible and patiently wait. I just hope this works out.
To be really honest, I've lost interest in him now.
I don't know about other leo women, but I don't like game playing either. I was very honest with him about how I felt, and all he would do is leave me stranded, off to chase his work goals, waiting for him to find time. He wouldn't call for four-five days, and if in aries dictionary it's normal, then he should find someone else.
I'm not taking his calls or ignoring him, not because I'm trying to act hard to get, but because I AM hard to get, and he had me, and lost me! I want to be with someone who treats me right, and clearly it's not him!
I don't know about other leo women, but I don't like game playing either. I was very honest with him about how I felt, and all he would do is leave me stranded, off to chase his work goals, waiting for him to find time. He wouldn't call for four-five days, and if in aries dictionary it's normal, then he should find someone else.
I'm not taking his calls or ignoring him, not because I'm trying to act hard to get, but because I AM hard to get, and he had me, and lost me! I want to be with someone who treats me right, and clearly it's not him!
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i was recently in introduced to this Aries guy, we were in different cities so we established contact through phone, tex
@insatiableo
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Aries
So, my Aries man is back in my life, after ALOT of drama. I still love him like crazy, I've just learned to give him alo
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Aries
I'd been dating my Aries boy for a few months, it was incredible, he was so into me etc, and I'd never been this crazy a
@insatiableo
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Aries
So there's this Aries Man, and I'm a Leo. We dated for a while, long distanced. We'd been long distancing for a while. S
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Aries
So, id posted a coupla months ago about having met an Aries man. Well, we we'd been dating (long distancing), and things
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Aries
I clearly have landed the most difficult one, with his Sun and Moon both in Aries! So, after our last awkward date,
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So considering how awkward the Aries man and mine's last date was, I want to plan something which makes things easy for
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