I can honestly say it is very difficult to interact with and be compassionate toward people who have a severe lack of self-awareness and awareness of others.
Wow. Uhm. That is a definite no. Do not have sex with anyone in hopes that they will care for you. Regardless if you are a virgin, it's clear he is able to express his love of physical pleasure and that is all. You are worth more than what he is willing to make an effort for.
That chihuahua is his guru.