jeegee joined September 14, 2016
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"comck" thats not even in my message. you obviously have a problem... looking at your previous posts. Should probably try reflecting on your attitude. Thanks for your advice but really No thank you.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI'd like to know.... how was I being needy? I wasnt begging him to come back.
Also, your insecurity is your problem, not his. You now have to deal with the consequences. He probably grew tired of your needy ass and is ghosting you.
Next time, keep your stupid shit in check.
The fact that you just throw that on "being a woman" is disgusting and basically says where you stand in your own accountability.
"I'm a girl" defense doesn't work in the real world, sweetcheeks. You made your bed. Time to lay in it.
I dont really understand what he is thinking because through the weeks since the silent treatment till now, he has been checking on me through social media platforms.
Started to know this amazing Leo guy back in January and since then we've started dating and even though at the beginning we had several arguments, it kinda solidified how we felt for each other. After dating for 2 months, we decided to be in an official relationship together.
Things with him was amazing, he made me laugh, protected me, he just wasn't your ordinary guy. he made me feel like a women. Few months down the road, he was having troubles at work but even with all the stress, he would still make an effort to keep in contact with me and also spend time together. Days where he has to stay back for late nights at work, I would give him the time and space to settle the things he needs to do. But being a woman and insecure lady, I was getting frustrated when he doesnt send me simple texts to tell me he is home or goodnight. I would tell him how I felt and that we needed to communicate with each other.
And the real troubles happened when i could not take it and sent him a text to let him know we needed to talk and the next day he asked me to ignore him for 3 days. Which I did and did not respond to his text. I felt that perhaps I needed the time away as well to sort out my thoughts and get back to the person that I was. After the 3 days was up, I followed up with him and he refused to reply me. Sent him a couple of texts and calls with no response and decided to leave him alone. Perhaps he needed the space.
A week later, knowing he wdnt pick up my call, I had to use someone else phone to get through him. And asked him straight up if he wanted a break up to which he said no and that he did not say he wanted a break up. That same conversation, he said he'd call me once he was done with his stuff but I did not get that call. The next day I texted him to see if everything was alright and he requested that gave him some time and I agreed to it. I waited for a week and still heard nothing from him.
After giving him another week of time and space, gave him another call to tell him I was having a hard time with the silent treatment that he was giving me. If he needed time and space, I was more than willing to give it to him and that all I needed was reassurance from him. After telling him how I felt and needed, he said we'd meet in 2 days. 2 days passed and I texted him and pretend nothing happened asking what time we'd meet and to only be disappointed. He told me he was overseas for work. I was very angry but I kept my calm and told him to text me when he was done with work.
I was getting really unhappy with how things was going and few days later still not text, dropped him another text to ask when he would be back and still with no response decided to put the ball in his court. Told him that all I wanted was to work things out and not to pin point anyone for their mistakes and all I wanted was to see how we can have a stronger relationship and is he didint get back to me, we both can move on. AND, still no reply.
Things with him was amazing, he made me laugh, protected me, he just wasn't your ordinary guy. he made me feel like a women. Few months down the road, he was having troubles at work but even with all the stress, he would still make an effort to keep in contact with me and also spend time together. Days where he has to stay back for late nights at work, I would give him the time and space to settle the things he needs to do. But being a woman and insecure lady, I was getting frustrated when he doesnt send me simple texts to tell me he is home or goodnight. I would tell him how I felt and that we needed to communicate with each other.
And the real troubles happened when i could not take it and sent him a text to let him know we needed to talk and the next day he asked me to ignore him for 3 days. Which I did and did not respond to his text. I felt that perhaps I needed the time away as well to sort out my thoughts and get back to the person that I was. After the 3 days was up, I followed up with him and he refused to reply me. Sent him a couple of texts and calls with no response and decided to leave him alone. Perhaps he needed the space.
A week later, knowing he wdnt pick up my call, I had to use someone else phone to get through him. And asked him straight up if he wanted a break up to which he said no and that he did not say he wanted a break up. That same conversation, he said he'd call me once he was done with his stuff but I did not get that call. The next day I texted him to see if everything was alright and he requested that gave him some time and I agreed to it. I waited for a week and still heard nothing from him.
After giving him another week of time and space, gave him another call to tell him I was having a hard time with the silent treatment that he was giving me. If he needed time and space, I was more than willing to give it to him and that all I needed was reassurance from him. After telling him how I felt and needed, he said we'd meet in 2 days. 2 days passed and I texted him and pretend nothing happened asking what time we'd meet and to only be disappointed. He told me he was overseas for work. I was very angry but I kept my calm and told him to text me when he was done with work.
I was getting really unhappy with how things was going and few days later still not text, dropped him another text to ask when he would be back and still with no response decided to put the ball in his court. Told him that all I wanted was to work things out and not to pin point anyone for their mistakes and all I wanted was to see how we can have a stronger relationship and is he didint get back to me, we both can move on. AND, still no reply.
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