I am in my 30s. I don't have a #1 BFF. I am actually a member of a group of friends that has been around since our teens. We still hang out weekly. I got curious about this topic because when I met my new friend I quickly felt like I knew her far better than the others I'd know for 15 plus years.
I'm curious how the rest of Virgos feel about Taurus. And Pisces and Gemini for that matter. I have been very close friends with both a Pisces and Gemini for more than half of my life but I feel much more natural and close to the Taurus that I've only known for a year.
So... how do Virgos relate to Pisces and Gemini?
I do feel like its very strange that I don't know any other Taurus. How can I can meet some more of these wonderful people? Maybe that is why I'm single!! I've never dated a Taurus before!!
I have listed a similar post in the Taurus thread. I am curious which signs you feel the most comfortable with? What sign is your closest confidant? The person with whom you feel the most comfortable and natural with? I am a Virgo who has recently become fast friends with a Taurus. We clicked almost instantly on meeting and she is turning out to be, possibly, the best friend I have ever had (except for my Cap sister, of course). While googling info about Virgo I read that we are very compatible with the Taurus sign. I got curious so I looked at the signs of the people I am closest to but did not find a single other Taurus. So.. Virgos...who are you most compatible with?
Which signs do you feel most at home and comfortable with? Regardless of the type of relationship (familial, friend, romantic), what sign is your closest confidant and/or you feel the most natural with? I am a Virgo who has recently made a new friend. We have known each other for about a year now and since almost day one we just clicked. Other than my Cap sister, I have never met anyone else that I feel so at home with. Just today I was googling Virgo related information and read that Virgos and Taurus are very compatible. I looked up her zodiac sign and lo and behold, boom, shes a Taurus. Once I noticed this I started to look up the signs of other people that I am close with and I realized that I do not have a single other Taurus in my life. At all. I'm curious how you all feel about the Virgo/Taurus compatibility. I'm beginning to think that I need more Taurus in my life!
I started dating a Leo in October. I made a thread about him then, I got some good advice and heard that I should be prepared for him to lose interest because we had sex on date 3. Well, he started talking about 'distractions' last month, stopped making plans with me and texting less often. He still wanted to get together but he would call me on the spur of the moment and ask if I wanted to go to dinner, get drinks, etc. In the beginning he would ask me a week or at least several days in advance for a date. I have taken this as a loss of interest on his part and had pretty much accepted that he just wasn't that into me and I was prepared to let it die. Do you think these are indicators that he isn't interested anymore? He text today to make plans for tomorrow night so I'm not sure if he has lost interest or we just have different style s and expectations. I plan on talking about it with him tomorrow.
The strangest thing happened right before Christmas. I went to a crowded mall and happened to walk up on 3 strangers (girls) talking about him in a shoe store. I listened to their conversation for a few minutes, they worked with him and were gossiping about some rumors going around about him on the job. They had no idea who I was. Then low and behold the very next day he texts me saying that he has found out the people are talking about him and was very upset about the nature of the rumor. Then he asked if I had heard it before. I didn't tell him about the incident at the mall. It was very eerie.
It's been confusing for me.
My Aqua ex has been contacting me a lot recently, wanting to see me and talk about old things. He keeps bringing up his family, saying they are asking about me. He wanted to hang out last night but I said no. He says he is moving out of state next week.
The Leo I have been casually dating since Oct. who recently said he had too many 'distractions' and stopped making plans has text tonight. He says he has missed me wants to see me. I agreed to go out tomorrow night.
P-Angel, your posts and criticisms are neither helpful nor insightful. Instead of just ignoring you like I would normally do when faced with someone or something that I don't want to deal with I have decided to address my feelings towards your posts. After all that is precisely what I am trying to work on. It should be clear from my original post that expressing my emotions does not come easy to me so it will take time for me to get used it by actively taking steps to change my natural reactions. You may not understand that because you do not have the communication issues I have, regardless of my age. No big deal. People are different. It WILL take work on my part. Now, there it is. I won't respond to you any further.
I've noticed several posts similar to this about Aquarius males on this site. I have made one myself! I hope some Aqua males chime in on this because I would like to hear some of their input on this too. If I were you I would do what justagirl said and walk away. I don't think situations like this healthy for either party.
Thank you HungVirgo and MoonArtist. Your posts were very helpful and enlightening. I appreciate you taking time from your day to help me work on my problem. Your post is very insightful and made think quite a bit about why I have these communication issues. I will work on express my emotions when I have them instead of attempting to control other's opinion of me. After some time hopefully this will become second nature to me.