Come on guys, you forgot the fire (sagi) ... lol
I think it also worth no note that we Virgos are shrewd and calculative if we are suspicions
Interesting story, what a virgo is ur ideal man .... I am virgo of Sep 2 and my understanding about male virgo was .... we are reversible if people show us such an affection and interest. OR we cut the relationship for ever in any manner.
I have a sagi girlfriend and had decided a million times to break-up but always change my mind with her smile .... It is very true that we Virgos are insecure and may be he has fear that once you know him deep inside you will feel different.
don't forget, Sagi can also be with VIrgo just to not to be single ..... they damn hate loneliness.
They are warm and funny but also gambler in love .....
a working Virgo-Sagi is a miracle in my opinion
Hey people,
So many interesting things are happening over there. We Virgos never learn but someone else might.
I started this thread because my girlfriend (sagi) start acting weired, very unusual behavior. After like a week, I also updated that things are normal.
Yet i found something strange once more, while I almost forgot the incident I suddenly found her recent articles all about "How to know if you are a lesbian", "How to tell your friend if you are a lesbian", "signs of a lesbian". From my Virgo perspective the chance of this relationship is getting down. In addition, she is also watching series movies like "The L Word" ....
i am screwed I guess ... naive Virgo ...
Hi All,
I am back again.
since we can learn a lot from sharing eachother, I will share you what is happenning rightnow.
After the incident, I also went last weekendsto see her. The first night she was tired I kept my distance, it is also understandable she work all day and could possibly be tired to have some romance. The next two days, she completely normal things look like nothing happened. We had our romantic life again.
I still have the images of incidents beforetwo weeks but now iam confused. I only have confirmation she spoke with a lady 9i also know) in that balck sunday (the day i suspected her of cheating on me) and the place she went. The place she visited is the place were the ex-collage mate lives but there is no sign of communicating with me. She could be clever enough to hide everything OR I am anble to get the evidence, OR I cold also be long. Now she is talking all about spending the christmas and other positive things ..... I am confused again. To be honest I still suspect her but don't want to ruin my relationship her spirt without evidence.
I will keep on taking care of my self and her. If anything an usual happened I will post it. Many thanks for your comments I both enjoyed reading them and learned alot.
thanks guys my mind is crystal clear now, i will face the reality.
emmm I don't cry normally. Even when close relatives passed away i only fake it. Becasue in the culture i grow-up not rying in some ones funeral is an offense to the family of the passe away. the moments i remember I cry are one when i felt guilt of hurting my sagi girlfriend. i cried in front of her. And a second one was one I was the only one from my friends to fail to got job after collage. I cried in the toilet.
Let me share you one incident that happened with me and my gf 1 year ago.
One weekends she come to visit me and while using my laptop she forgot to sign out from her facebook.
When she left I want to use the PC and I was shoke by what i saw in her facebook. Apparently I was tempted to see all her FB conversations and found out an exchange of e-mails with her ex-work mate who lives by that time in different continent.
They exchanged some love letters with polished words such as my first love, love you forever, i miss your body, make sure some people don;t see this message bla bal bal.
It was out of my expectation and I concluded she is having an affair with that guy, and if she still have a feeling she is well come to leave me alone. she was mad and i can see the sadness in her face, she cried and didn't even know what to do. There are two things I want to point here:
1) For me there is no reason that i will write such messages for joking (may be I am too virgo ..strict). At least she could have mentioned it in all the time we spent. By the way she always mention the name of the guy in our conversations.
2) My jumping to conclusion was wrong. I feel that I should have approached her openly mentioning the situation and then make my argument and decision. may be this due to the perceiving behavior of Virgos. We tend to process things slowly in each bit of detail.
How does this incident ended?
Well, after a month I realized that my approach was not correct. I asked her friends about the situation (which should have been before I decide by the way) and they proved me it is a kind of circular joke that they all exchange such flirting e-mails. And ofcourse when i saw her crying my gut told me I am wrong. And I apologized here for my reaction. And we discussed the issues, why she did and why i did so. Here is now after one year a similar situation.
And I don't want to repeat the same mistake, rushing to decisions.
hi VirgoVixxxen,
I have the feeling that I should confront her and face the reality.
One thing i know about my self is, this is my first relationship and I haven't gone though such situations before.
Literally I am trying to learn the protocol on such situations by discussing the issue here.
I am sure If she has been honest with me and convince me, I would have gave this relationship a second chance.
But now it is in a deadlock from my point of view. If you are aware of Virgo's , we are very practical and committed (not everybody though).
Anyway, keep pouring your idea people, I love them, I love the Internet (probably perfect mouth for conservative Virgos)
many thanks for your analysis all of you.
Indeed, it broadens my view in the subject.
To add in the nature of our relationship. I am usually who made the effort (at what i think). For example she has never visited my place for the last 4 months. If i somehow didn't go to her place in the weekends, it is okay with her. she don't pick many of my calls. She almost always promise she will call later and never did it.
On the dark side of me, I started smoking, she usually asks me to stop smoking I even promise her to do so but broke my promise and I am still smoking. Once a time, we went to party and we both were drunk and I don't remember but she always criticize my kissing her girl-friend. Normally, I am not even attracted to her girlfriend.
You are right in a sense, i am showing the hidden complexity of virgo by throwing my frustrations here.
My fear is I could be blinded by the thin line between love and hate. Once i suspect here i might be blinded to other facts.
Indeed my gut is telling me it is true