Posted by QUlETstorm

Posted by kenyabobbydo
so i found out my cap cheated on me one cause we haven't seen eachother for 5 months.
But then he was like did I do something wrong?I know I did something wrong.The fact that he said I know I did something wrong already shows that he did something wrong.Am I right,you guys?

I am so confused right now.
So did you actually *find out* that your cap cheated like you said in the first sentence or is it just a hunch?

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Posted by Poisson
Yo. This has got to be a troll.

Posted by CapMusic
If someone ever cheated on me, they'd get the swift boot to the ass. Fuck that noise.

Posted by M

Posted by kenyabobbydo
Whenever I text my cap and tell him how much I love him and how great he is,he just ignores and doesn't respond back and I kinda get offended :-/but when I'm all cold and answer him with one word answers he opens up and talks.why is that caps???

Are you miffed because he isn't acknowledging you?
To answer the question - One person does the talking. When you are quiet it creates a space to be filled. And vice versa.

Posted by kenyabobbydo
I agree with all of you guys.I don't want to hear an I love you back or w.e.I'm just always telling him how great he is because he has low self esteem and i want him to know that I love him and have feelings for him.I keep wanting to prove to him that he means the world to me,not because I want him to prove it back but because I don't want to lose him

Frequency can influence meaning. Try pacing yourself by tacking onto the end of the conversation for the day. Try putting it in a not so charged way either, with positive greetings that represent how close you two are.
Do not do any of this to prove anything...chances are it will backfire. The proof is in the pudding, and it doesn't need frills or excess to be picked up on. This isn't being cold, unless you are someone who is trying to be closer than we want you.

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Posted by WoundedLeo
Jeezzzzzz People!!! There's no point in banging this poor girl on the head to get your points across. She's trying to absorb a way of thinking and behaving that is foreign to her. Lord knows even after one year and my Cap gone grazing in greener pastures I still don't understand the Capricorn mind. But I'm still trying because it intrigues me and interests me. It's fun in a purely sado-masochistic kind of way to a soggy Leo like me.
So Miss Kenya honey, don't let all these meanies around here get you down. I know this hurts. I know that you don't know if this guy is coming, going, or already gone. As some of the calmer folks have pointed out, just take a step back, breathe, do your own thing and have some faith. You've done your best. You mean well and I have no doubt that you're good hearted and that this guy means a whole bunch to you.
So give it some time and see how it goes, but remember that you gave it your best shot and you tried really hard to understand him, just like I did. That shows just how much he means to you. Kudos girl! Chin up!

Posted by M
As a Capricorn with those exact placements, I can safely say something's off.Your threads hint at something not right about your relationship with this Cap. Factors you aren't accounting for, or flags you are ignoring...maybe even beyond the scope of astrology.
Here are some threads that might offer some tips for your specific situation.
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/cap-boyfriend-aloof-and-selfish-3501276.asp
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/Why-would-he-act-so-unemotional-after-not-3516243.asp
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/Why-would-he-act-so-unemotional-after-not-3516243.asp
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/why-is-he-not-responding-3500450.asp
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/Is-this-cap-shy-3506754.asp