Mystical pisces

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Klh1203

Posted by LadyNeptune

Affection and sex goes hand in hand.

Love is emotive.

So no, don’t think a cuddle = love.

I’ve never experienced love before. What is love from a man?

When they speak to you the next day 🥶

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Affection and sex goes hand in hand.

Love is emotive.

So no, don’t think a cuddle = love.

Posted by Arinoaqua

Posted by Klh1203

especially if he misses you yet the next day they never speak to you. 🤷🏽‍♀️

😐this would not be okay with me. Especially after learning I have an anxious attachment style . If I’m vulnerable and then you don’t give me reassurance, I’m walking away. Lol.


If you need reassurance too or think you might have an anxious attachment style , stay away from people with avoidant attachment style s. They tend to get scared when they’ve been vulnerable and force space between you because they’re afraid and have to reject people before they get rejected.


If neither are mature enough to bring this up and have an honest discussion it ends up being torture for the anxious one.

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Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Klh1203

Say a man who is constantly kissing and cuddling you, and holding you tight and doesn’t ever want to let his hands off of you, yet they aren’t usually an affectionate person. Would you say this is a sign of him falling in love?


I’ve been in situations before where a man does this especially if he misses you yet the next day they never speak to you. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Define affectionate..

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Klh1203

Posted by bkbella86

He’s dating someone else. You took him back too quick. Should of made him sweat and beg a lil before sleeping with him so quick and definitely shouldn’t have called him after you slept with him. It’s not that you meant nothing but someone else means more, I hope you’re ok.

Thank you. I came to terms with that’s exactly what it was. I am okay though, I’ve gotten over it to an extent this time last month I was heartbroken but I’m on the path of healing and acceptance.

You’re welcome, I’m kinda going through something similar so I understand all too well, except it still fresh. I’ll bounce back. I’m happy to hear you’re feeling better.

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Posted by BlueStar

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Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Klh1203

I was dating someone for a little while and we was in separable we was together every weekend and would speak everyday through out the day, I could tell he really was fond of me and I was very much in love with him too.


He said that he wanted to not put a title on us yet because he felt that relationships get too complicated when you put a title on it but he said that as far as he was concerned it was just me and him and I really believed him because he made me feel like I was the only one.


Anyway one day out of nowhere he started to become distant until I just cut him off.


2 months later he came back out of nowhere like nothing happened acted like it was all me and that he wasn’t acting distant and he was confused as to why I cut him off.


Anyway we got together for one night and I could really see he did miss me he couldn’t let go of me and I could see that his feelings for me were strong still it was like when we first started dating all over again. Then the next day I didn’t hear from him which was fine, so a week later I called him and he declined my call and it’s been 3 weeks and I haven’t heard from him..


I’m just confused I don’t really care about it anymore I’ve got over him but I’m just sitting here randomly right now thinking did I mean anything to him at all? What the hell was all of that about?

You meant nothing.


Have you yet to realize the type of men that you're going after? Every thread you make is literally the same story over and over, but a different man.


I honestly think it would do you A LOT of good to be single for a long while. Focus on yourself and understand the meaning of self worth.

She was helping an alcoholic! So shut up and remember all the women you hurt in your days!


And why is she supposed to be herself? She said she is dating already...


And Jesus! So many people making such a big deal out of this! And all it was is dating at the beginning...then he went into drinking vacation...cane back but vacation wasn’t over.

So he went back...you are the one to understand this shit aren’t you?

Right. People on here think they’re so perfect then go offline and go back to their perfect little lives where they’ve never done wrong or done anything stupid before. They also think that they know my life story because I come on here and post my relationship problems, I never ever use this site for anything else but that and I’m not about to change either if they don’t like it they can easily ignore it but they choose to use their energy to type up negativity because they’re so perfect lol

Just from my own perspective - Most of my advice comes from what I’ve either learned myself the hard way or what I’m in the process of learning/adopting.


I’m harder on myself than anyone on here minus maybe two or three people.


I’m harsh because usually people want a confirmation of their own beliefs to the point that they ignore anything else.


Sometimes when you have an angry reaction to something inflammatory or criticism it’s best to sit with it and see if there is something of value in it before you dismiss it as unneeded.


It’s hard to look at yourself and accept flaws because we all want to be good people and be loved for our humanity but we also need to grow. If we sit in the same place forever it’s a waste of what little precious time we have here.

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Posted by bkbella86

He’s dating someone else. You took him back too quick. Should of made him sweat and beg a lil before sleeping with him so quick and definitely shouldn’t have called him after you slept with him. It’s not that you meant nothing but someone else means more, I hope you’re ok.

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Klh1203

I was dating someone for a little while and we was in separable we was together every weekend and would speak everyday through out the day, I could tell he really was fond of me and I was very much in love with him too.


He said that he wanted to not put a title on us yet because he felt that relationships get too complicated when you put a title on it but he said that as far as he was concerned it was just me and him and I really believed him because he made me feel like I was the only one.


Anyway one day out of nowhere he started to become distant until I just cut him off.


2 months later he came back out of nowhere like nothing happened acted like it was all me and that he wasn’t acting distant and he was confused as to why I cut him off.


Anyway we got together for one night and I could really see he did miss me he couldn’t let go of me and I could see that his feelings for me were strong still it was like when we first started dating all over again. Then the next day I didn’t hear from him which was fine, so a week later I called him and he declined my call and it’s been 3 weeks and I haven’t heard from him..


I’m just confused I don’t really care about it anymore I’ve got over him but I’m just sitting here randomly right now thinking did I mean anything to him at all? What the hell was all of that about?

You meant nothing.


Have you yet to realize the type of men that you're going after? Every thread you make is literally the same story over and over, but a different man.


I honestly think it would do you A LOT of good to be single for a long while. Focus on yourself and understand the meaning of self worth.

She was helping an alcoholic! So shut up and remember all the women you hurt in your days!


And why is she supposed to be herself? She said she is dating already...


And Jesus! So many people making such a big deal out of this! And all it was is dating at the beginning...then he went into drinking vacation...cane back but vacation wasn’t over.

So he went back...you are the one to understand this shit aren’t you?

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Posted by pathfinder

Posted by Klh1203

Posted by Jade_Alexander

He is afraid of real intimacy

Likely unhealed trauma from childhood... maybe mother dynamic


It has nothing to do with you. As he feels attachment it also triggers panic and so he sabotages. But he still has feelings so He yoyos.


Just walk away. This isn’t your battle or trauma to heal.

Thank you for explaining it this way,

I feel often times people are quite insensitive to women and blame the woman for a man treating her wrong. “You should have seen the red flags”, “you gave it up to him too easily.” “You you you you YOU.” What about him? What about the woman and what she may have gone through as a child with having an absent father which causes her to look for something in a male that she can not find? I know his trauma from childhood because he opened up and told me about everything so that’s why I was so soft with him because I understood why he is the way he is but I shouldn’t have allowed him to hurt me like this, I shouldn’t have tried to heal him because he only sucked out all my energy and left me drained out. Never again will I try to heal someone, it’s impossible to heal someone.

@Klh1203 It's the Pisces way. Y'all understand. That should be the Pisces motto. Just be more choosey who you give that "understanding" to going forward. If he shows up again, be cool-headed and observant. Your kindness is not weakness. You are not desperate. Your empathy is your strength.

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Posted by besarlalluvia you're always heartbroken