Ladyk924 joined January 30, 2024
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Posted by MyStarsShineIf not that, stay at home 🤣 nothing wrong with that, but the kind to be like “what’s for dinner?” as soon as I walk through the door from workPosted by Ladyk924Posted by IWANTTOWINPosted by Ladyk924Posted by IWANTTOWINPosted by Ladyk924Posted by IWANTTOWINPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by IWANTTOWIN
how old are u
Her oscillation from sad and desperate to proud and dismissive is scary.
No lucrative occupation and property portfolio can compensate for a severe lack of mental and emotional maturity.
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femcell era
The fact it’s been almost a month lol like excuse me for not being upset about it anymore. With time come perspective. Most of the commenters on here are weird and need to learn to be happy in their lives
ok
And are you the one that asked if I’m sexy? I try. I’ve been told I’m beautiful quite a few times through my life. When I say “I try” I mean I enjoy working out, and I typically enjoy wearing mascara and lipstick
its not that, the way you write ur ex relationship, its sounded like transactionnal. like you didnt both flirt, like there is no spice. i didnt wanted to say that u were ugly or anything, im sorry if its sounded like that.
Like does this guy want to chase you, to ramdomly kiss you idk. like an ardent desire about you.
but what i'm reading is:
Do you want to be my husband ?
ok.
Do you want to have childs ?
yeah.
Ok let's do it then.
Nah, actually im lazy.
but maybe im wrong, idk my question more like does this guys want proudly say that this girls is my fiancé ? but who givaf u moved on so
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I could totally get that. The whole dating thing is new to me and I guess I’m just learning how to go about it. We absolutely did flirt, and it was actually more him like “ohhh just wait until we have kids” and stuff like that. I’ll now see that as a red flag. That’s why I thought it was totally justified that I was annoyed he couldn’t be considerate enough to text me “hey dad called I’ll brb” because I know 1000% he would have during earlier times. I know that sounds ridiculous to say considering we didn’t date long, but 🤷🏻♀️ It’s just a learning experience
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Can you imagine what kind of father he’d be?
“Absent” comes to mind 😵💫🥴click to expand
Posted by IWANTTOWINI could totally get that. The whole dating thing is new to me and I guess I’m just learning how to go about it. We absolutely did flirt, and it was actually more him like “ohhh just wait until we have kids” and stuff like that. I’ll now see that as a red flag. That’s why I thought it was totally justified that I was annoyed he couldn’t be considerate enough to text me “hey dad called I’ll brb” because I know 1000% he would have during earlier times. I know that sounds ridiculous to say considering we didn’t date long, but 🤷🏻♀️ It’s just a learning experiencePosted by Ladyk924Posted by IWANTTOWINPosted by Ladyk924Posted by IWANTTOWINPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by IWANTTOWIN
how old are u
Her oscillation from sad and desperate to proud and dismissive is scary.
No lucrative occupation and property portfolio can compensate for a severe lack of mental and emotional maturity.
click to expand
femcell era
The fact it’s been almost a month lol like excuse me for not being upset about it anymore. With time come perspective. Most of the commenters on here are weird and need to learn to be happy in their lives
ok
And are you the one that asked if I’m sexy? I try. I’ve been told I’m beautiful quite a few times through my life. When I say “I try” I mean I enjoy working out, and I typically enjoy wearing mascara and lipstick
its not that, the way you write ur ex relationship, its sounded like transactionnal. like you didnt both flirt, like there is no spice. i didnt wanted to say that u were ugly or anything, im sorry if its sounded like that.
Like does this guy want to chase you, to ramdomly kiss you idk. like an ardent desire about you.
but what i'm reading is:
Do you want to be my husband ?
ok.
Do you want to have childs ?
yeah.
Ok let's do it then.
Nah, actually im lazy.
but maybe im wrong, idk my question more like does this guys want proudly say that this girls is my fiancé ? but who givaf u moved on soclick to expand
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsI’m not sure what you meanPosted by Ladyk924Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by IWANTTOWIN
how old are u
Her oscillation from sad and desperate to proud and dismissive is scary.
No lucrative occupation and property portfolio can compensate for a severe lack of mental and emotional maturity.
You find it scary that I’m no longer sad after almost a month. What the hell would you consider mental and emotional maturity? 🤔🤣
Well, certainly not your 'rational' justifications - many of which you were well aware of when things were good between the two of you.click to expand
Posted by IWANTTOWINAnd are you the one that asked if I’m sexy? I try. I’ve been told I’m beautiful quite a few times through my life. When I say “I try” I mean I enjoy working out, and I typically enjoy wearing mascara and lipstickPosted by Ladyk924Posted by IWANTTOWINPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by IWANTTOWIN
how old are u
Her oscillation from sad and desperate to proud and dismissive is scary.
No lucrative occupation and property portfolio can compensate for a severe lack of mental and emotional maturity.
click to expand
femcell era
The fact it’s been almost a month lol like excuse me for not being upset about it anymore. With time come perspective. Most of the commenters on here are weird and need to learn to be happy in their lives
okclick to expand
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsYou find it scary that I’m no longer sad after almost a month. What the hell would you consider mental and emotional maturity? 🤔🤣Posted by IWANTTOWIN
how old are u
Her oscillation from sad and desperate to proud and dismissive is scary.
No lucrative occupation and property portfolio can compensate for a severe lack of mental and emotional maturity.click to expand
Posted by IWANTTOWINPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by IWANTTOWIN
how old are u
Her oscillation from sad and desperate to proud and dismissive is scary.
No lucrative occupation and property portfolio can compensate for a severe lack of mental and emotional maturity.
click to expand
femcell eraclick to expand
The fact it’s been almost a month lol like excuse me for not being upset about it anymore. With time come perspective. Most of the commenters on here are weird and need to learn to be happy in their lives
Posted by route666aybbI’m too good for him anyway, and I certainly am “bad.” He doesn’t have a job and has been waiting to become a resident in the state we reside in but he was too dumb to look up his zip code to change the address for his bank for residential proof. I work a full time job, I’m building a business on the side while also completing my MS, mortgaging a house, and still listening to his sob stories and feeding his mooching ass 🤷🏻♀️ If he needs an escape he can find someone who cares less about their financial future
she thought he was tryna antihero lol she was not bad enough, because ain't no way a dude just gon leave a bitch in the dust because he goin through personal problems, a girl's role is to be an escape for his personal problems, not the othee way around tf @slug you got a lot to learn about men , your looks only gon get you so far
Well no one has replied but I decided to take the bait and reply to him. Twas the most eloquent “fuck off” I could muster
Eta: please excuse spelling mistakes, typos
We’d only been seeing each other for almost two months. It was great. We both agreed we wanted the whole shabang (friendship, marriage, kids, etc.). I think I moved to fast in the sense I’d cooked him dinner the last two times we’d hung out and we only hung out 5 times. As time went on, I felt (or sensed) his effort start declining. Again, could be my fault for making him too comfortable too early on.
Anywho, I did ask him at one point if he was nervous with me. He said he was comfortable. That kind of sucked because I thought (did not say) “well if you’re comfortable that sucks because you’ve already gotten kinda lazy”. I expressed I was nervous, because as I started to like him more I wanted to be more sure I was doing everything I could to keep the connection going
Cut to this past weekend. He was supposed to come over on Saturday. Friday night we’re sexting. He doesn’t reply for about 20 minutes. “Hellloooo trying to flirt and be sexy” then he finally responds. He had answered. A phone call. From. His. Fuc*ing. Father. Like you couldn’t have texted me that you’ll be right back? Nope. I just said “must have been an important phone call”. Nope. He was done anyway, as he had already told me he finished. Well ok thanks I’ll literally just go f*ck myself by myself then (didn’t actually say that). A bit after that, my cousin reminded me of bday plans we have the next day. Awesome. Could be good to take a break from seeing him. I told him so sorry plans w cousins. Rain check. “Awesome! Have fun!” I went to sleep. I didn’t (but should have) text him good morning as I always did. He texted me at 2PM “it’s over. I’m done. The phone call with my father made me realize I’m not mentally good for a relationship right now. Sorry to waste your time” and he unfriended me/unfollowed me on social media. I was pissed, mostly because he didn’t give us a chance to talk things through, and I was at fu*king work. Saturdays are my busiest days. So I kind of expressed that. Later that night, I apologized. He apologized. And I just thought “meh 🤷🏻♀️ Now to find someone who values me”
Almost done, sorry this is so long. I woke up this AM from a long as* fu*king text from him saying how sorry he was. I’m so kind, attractive, and compassionate; and once reality started to set in he started to doubt himself that he could give someone as wonderful as me everything I deserve. He thought he was ready, blah blah blah. Like wtf does he want?! He’s apologizing for breaking up with me the way he did, how he may never be vulnerable again because he’s not actually healed, and saying “it’s truly not a reflection of you” like no sh!t dude, I wasn’t even worried about it. I haven’t done or said anything. Is he just looking to stroke his own ego? The text he sent me is like a text you’d send someone who keeps blowing you up, begging for another chance. I haven’t replied to him, nor do I plan to, but wtf? I feel like if I was upset about the whole this, it’d just make me even more upset
Anywho, I did ask him at one point if he was nervous with me. He said he was comfortable. That kind of sucked because I thought (did not say) “well if you’re comfortable that sucks because you’ve already gotten kinda lazy”. I expressed I was nervous, because as I started to like him more I wanted to be more sure I was doing everything I could to keep the connection going
Cut to this past weekend. He was supposed to come over on Saturday. Friday night we’re sexting. He doesn’t reply for about 20 minutes. “Hellloooo trying to flirt and be sexy” then he finally responds. He had answered. A phone call. From. His. Fuc*ing. Father. Like you couldn’t have texted me that you’ll be right back? Nope. I just said “must have been an important phone call”. Nope. He was done anyway, as he had already told me he finished. Well ok thanks I’ll literally just go f*ck myself by myself then (didn’t actually say that). A bit after that, my cousin reminded me of bday plans we have the next day. Awesome. Could be good to take a break from seeing him. I told him so sorry plans w cousins. Rain check. “Awesome! Have fun!” I went to sleep. I didn’t (but should have) text him good morning as I always did. He texted me at 2PM “it’s over. I’m done. The phone call with my father made me realize I’m not mentally good for a relationship right now. Sorry to waste your time” and he unfriended me/unfollowed me on social media. I was pissed, mostly because he didn’t give us a chance to talk things through, and I was at fu*king work. Saturdays are my busiest days. So I kind of expressed that. Later that night, I apologized. He apologized. And I just thought “meh 🤷🏻♀️ Now to find someone who values me”
Almost done, sorry this is so long. I woke up this AM from a long as* fu*king text from him saying how sorry he was. I’m so kind, attractive, and compassionate; and once reality started to set in he started to doubt himself that he could give someone as wonderful as me everything I deserve. He thought he was ready, blah blah blah. Like wtf does he want?! He’s apologizing for breaking up with me the way he did, how he may never be vulnerable again because he’s not actually healed, and saying “it’s truly not a reflection of you” like no sh!t dude, I wasn’t even worried about it. I haven’t done or said anything. Is he just looking to stroke his own ego? The text he sent me is like a text you’d send someone who keeps blowing you up, begging for another chance. I haven’t replied to him, nor do I plan to, but wtf? I feel like if I was upset about the whole this, it’d just make me even more upset
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