I am a 45 year old scorpio female in love with a 46 year old scorpio male. He's never been married and has no children; I left my husband of 22 years for him after a very brief courtship. The relationship is intense; fun; sexy; comfortable;passionate; My problem is that he is constantly s****ing around; I've confronted him with evidence and he at first denies and then comes semi-clean (I just don't think he'll ever tell the truth); and unlike past relationships no matter how angry I get, he never loses his composure or gets defensive; he's gotten use to the single life but when I came along he admits he's never had anyone like me and he confesses his undying love for me;I've left on several occasions, but neither he or I can stay away from each other; this feels like a friggin' addiction; I hold out no hope that he will ever change and I am constantly convincing myself that I just HAVE to move on.... that feeling never lasts more than a couple of hours, and of course, once we hit the sack again, I'm lost all over. I LOVE SWEET, PASSIONATE SEX and he's the first to ever give me that and he gives it ooooohhh so well, but it kills me that he's spreading it around. His escapades appear to be purely physical indulgences and I never have any interference from any of his flings; HELP!!! I even try to convince myself to just turn it off in my head and just deal with the way he treats me and forget what he does. As far as the way he treats me, anything I ask, he'll give me. He is sweet, kind and loving, there is no physical or verbal abuse. What is going on in his head????? What is going on in mine????? This feels like an obsession. Somebody, please, preferrably one of you philandering, but loving Scorpio men, please tell me something, other than the fact that I'm clearly operating with my heart (or crotch, take your pick) and not my head.
HELP!!!
Not so, scorpions can be the most secretive and frankly, deceptive of all signs.
Not so, scorpions can be the most secretive and frankly, dishonest of all signs.
you're obviously NOT a scorpio, if you were, you'd understand the obsessive compulsion we have to try to figure out what is going on in our hearts and seeking out the advice of fellow scorps..... it's our thing.