He is a aquarius sun venus in aquarius. we are friends (he even told me i was his best female friend) and i like him, but i am not sure how to go about getting him. should I just come out and say it? he seems so shy when it comes to me and not other girls (it took him a whole year to hug me) I just really need help on understanding this type of aquarius guy. he calms that he doesn't want a relationship because he's afraid of messing up with me, but gets mad when I don't come to see him or talk to other guys and has told me he doesn't want me to be this other guy's girlfriend. he even told me that he feels I would wait to get married until I was around 30. (something he says he will do) I just really need help with him. I really like him, but I don't know how to make him not be so afraid of commitment.