Posted by pheonics247
@libragirl445 admittedly you lost somebody who loved you, but you have to understand that if it ended, even if it ended by a huge mistake you made, it still ended, if both if you were stronger, it wouldn't have ended, it ended because it was needed. You needed this space to realise why things went wrong and how. And where you were wrong and him. He won't forget about you but if he really isn't coming back its because he's given up and he's sticking to it.
Posted by pheonics247
@libragirl445 admittedly you lost somebody who loved you, but you have to understand that if it ended, even if it ended by a huge mistake you made, it still ended, if both if you were stronger, it wouldn't have ended, it ended because it was needed. You needed this space to realise why things went wrong and how. And where you were wrong and him. He won't forget about you but if he really isn't coming back its because he's given up and he's sticking to it.
Posted by pheonics247
@libragirl445 did it end badly? Who broke it off? I ask all this because it will be insightful in attempting to help you. I've been in a similar position not very long ago. I was more miserable than you could imagine, but what helps me to move on is to lose all value for my ex, it's cruel but that's the only way. If it's over its over, and you haven't lost aby Better than what awaits you. And I, being a Scorpio go very hardcore on the emotions, moving on is a herculean task. Only when you convince yourself that you haven't lost something that you can't ever find again, and value yourself more than anybody you've lost, is when you'll be in the road to end the misery.
Him, a Taurus, they dont embrace change that easy, unless his rising sign is a Sagittarius or Aquarius, they do however, interact a lot with the opposite sex and are sort of appealing, they enjoy the attention and are super stubborn. If he has made up his mind that it's over. Then it's over.
Posted by pheonics247
@libragirl445 did it end badly? Who broke it off? I ask all this because it will be insightful in attempting to help you. I've been in a similar position not very long ago. I was more miserable than you could imagine, but what helps me to move on is to lose all value for my ex, it's cruel but that's the only way. If it's over its over, and you haven't lost aby Better than what awaits you. And I, being a Scorpio go very hardcore on the emotions, moving on is a herculean task. Only when you convince yourself that you haven't lost something that you can't ever find again, and value yourself more than anybody you've lost, is when you'll be in the road to end the misery.
Him, a Taurus, they dont embrace change that easy, unless his rising sign is a Sagittarius or Aquarius, they do however, interact a lot with the opposite sex and are sort of appealing, they enjoy the attention and are super stubborn. If he has made up his mind that it's over. Then it's over.
Posted by narayana
Convincing yourself that you need to get him out of your life is a must. Stop hoping. I know it's not easy, but eventually you will get tired of waiting for something that may never happen and you'll just have to move on. Even if he decides to contact you again, it's highly unlikely that everything's going to be amazing again. It's actually better to cut him off completely. Instead of holding on to all the good memories, think of all the reasons you don't want him back in your life, be honest to yourself and don't ignore the obvious - he's messing with others' feelings, why would you even consider him good enough for you?
Stay strong & good luck!
Posted by Chelsey07Posted by Libragirl445
My ex hasn't initiated contact and neither have I for 3 months. Since we've broken up he's been messing with other women and just stringing them along. Two different women already. One of them was a mutual friend. Why do I still miss him and hold on to hope that he will realize he made the wrong choice? Why do I still wish he would reach out? I feel like a mess.
Honey, I'm in the same boat...sort of. It's hard to remove those feelings of love from your mind. You hold onto hope because it's easier than seeing reality. Hope is what keeps us going. I'm holding unto hope as well. What I can say is good job on keeping up NC for 3 months straight! That's an accomplishment within itself.click to expand
Posted by whatthecrabPosted by Libragirl445Posted by whatthecrab
Because youre still emotionally attached to him.
Yes, and only God knows why. I wish I wasn't.
You probably know why too. You just dont realize yet that you have the answer.click to expand
Posted by whatthecrab
Because youre still emotionally attached to him.
Posted by pheonics247
@libragirl445 What's his sign?
Posted by AriesLady8
This is hilarious to me and even relieving. My ex Taurus was the same way with me. I didn't know it was a Taurus thing I just thought it was a crazy person thing. I can totally relate to this post. My feelings use to get really hurt by it.
I feel it all comes from a place of feeling possessive and hurt on their behalf. But they're so stubborn and always acting like nothing is wrong that this is how they lash out. The desire to make a fool of you I think because that is their biggest fear, public embarrassment and to befriend the other guy to sabotage or just be in the mix
Posted by WateryGem
If he is a Taurus Sun and Moon, maybe, he was just slightly hurt she deleted him and stopped contact? I don't find Taurus people to always be great at communicating that such thing. He probably wanted to stay on her social media but when she deleted him, he felt rejected and cut out. Then he wanted to be seen since she was trying to make him not be "seen", he is trying to push her buttons.
I know of a Taurus moon that gets like this with his ex. He's humiliated her in public, shown up at bars or parties and such she has been at.
I'm not Taurus or a even a Taurus Moon.. I was raised by a Taurus.