Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
After we've been with somebody for a while, the relationship evolves and we become more and more "buddies" with our darlings, so this might be why he thinks there is nothing wrong with it, he feels he can be as free in his speech as he wishes, which is not a bad thing..if there is one thing we cant stand is to feel like we have to walk on eggshells not to say the "wrong" thing.

Posted by scorpio24
yeah i agree, i try not to take things to seriously, but the fact i have asked him not to do it while im there is disrespectful. his response was "i dont see anythign wrong with it and i would do it again".
umm, okay then.

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Posted by CoCoa
Long term hmmmmmmmm...well the man has had two failed marriages. Not perfect yet looking for perfect right??? NO ONE IS PERECT!!!

this sh1T is going to destroy your self esteem let him go. let it go. and never date a Virgo.

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Posted by P-Angel

I will say this again .. take your fucking fingers out of your ears ....

Once you show a Virgo that you are emotionally insecure ... you're finished, there's no more chances.

Have some fucking dignity and step away.

Posted by sunnyvirgo83
If he's jellous about you having male friends that is a problem, always asking about them. Seriously, your a grown woman. You had the friends before you met him....seriously think of that. You've been on your feet and have male and female friends and male friends you prolly still talk to and if he has a problem with that it's his problem not yours. I'd say sit down and tell him look, I have male friends I talk to them, I'm not doing anything with them. Ask him why is it wrong to for you to have male friends and talk? But your aloud? No way, to understand a virgo you must think like a virgo. Ask him questions and see how he likes the contradiction!!!

Posted by Ixion120
Its okay not to know, you gotta address it for what it is call him on it, let him know that he needs not worry...but to answer your real question, some are, some are not it all depends on how much the person has come to understand themselves truly.

Posted by mika7
I have dated 3 Virgo males-disaster!
One of them was painfully shy,I was also shy-so there were like very awkward 3 dates!
Second one,kind of broke my heart 2 years ago(nice appearance,very heavy at beggining,calling all the time,baby names,wondering eyes since the first date,keeping his options open, stringing me along, dating other woman in same time ,who he finally married at the beggining of this year).Wish them well,no hard feelings!I realize how good i feel i dont have any feelings for him,now.He was a small person even if he was 1,84m tall-).
Third-the most slick person i ever meet in my life-asking me to borrow him some money to repair his car(i never heard from him again).Was a small amount of money,but his character is awfull.GRR!
I will never date a Virgo guy again,for sure!
With the virgo girls i conect straight away,talking like old friends from the beggining,they are smart,funny in a classy way,kind and considerate.

Posted by miamivirgo
He is perceiving that you are not reassuring him that he is number one. So he's applying analysis to your relationship. He may text or chat with other women and be okay with it because he's made you number one.
He doesn't feel completely safe in the relationship with you.
So should he? Is he? And do you want him to be long term? Answer these questions and you can solve this problem.
If you answer "no" to any of them and now you can understand his inquisitiveness.

Posted by CluelessCancer
LMAO are VIRGO MEN INSECURE?
Is Water WET?