libraqueeen joined August 05, 2016
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Just found out his mother is Narcassistic. The disorder. We found out because she started acting passive aggressive towards me. We visited her last week. It's my birthday month so he's taking me shopping every weekend until the end of october. she heard him tell me "are you excited?" and she would ask why would I be excited, and then I said because (my fiancé) is taking me shopping all October. and then out of nowhere, "only (libraqueeen) you care about. you buy her 10 things and get me 1/2!" which started a HUGE, uncomfortable argument between them. he kept saying she isn't his wife or anything and he's dissapointed in her that she's jealous of me, and that he loves me and she needs to respect me more, and that I do deserve the "10 things" he gets me.
She's also tried turning him into a surrogate husband and when he realized that, we looked up info together and basically he told me he wants to cut ties with her. I said isn't that severe? And he said you have no idea what she made me go through. And he's right.
Ever since the realization he seems so much happier, more mature, more "sure" of himself. I hope everything goes nothing but positive at this point.
Based on what I said does it seem like this is the healing process? How do Sags deal with a complicated situation like this? How can I support?
She's also tried turning him into a surrogate husband and when he realized that, we looked up info together and basically he told me he wants to cut ties with her. I said isn't that severe? And he said you have no idea what she made me go through. And he's right.
Ever since the realization he seems so much happier, more mature, more "sure" of himself. I hope everything goes nothing but positive at this point.
Based on what I said does it seem like this is the healing process? How do Sags deal with a complicated situation like this? How can I support?
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-Unpretentious
-Subtle
-Charming
-Unpretentious
-Subtle
-Charming
Look at it this way: when you say "judge" it's because they are wrong about you. They are not correct and do not define you. Laugh at the bitter ones as I do, and maybe even let them have the last words sometimes, just so you know YOURSELF the character you have.
They are bored, and that is their thrill. To belittle others. I always found it odd. Do they realize people are able to see right through their insecure, miserable, unhappy and gloomy self, just as much as everyone can see right through trolls? I wonder.
They are bored, and that is their thrill. To belittle others. I always found it odd. Do they realize people are able to see right through their insecure, miserable, unhappy and gloomy self, just as much as everyone can see right through trolls? I wonder.
>constantly talks about trolling
>takes every bait
>takes every bait
People judge based on a lot of things. Here or not. What's the problem?
WTF is philipinal? Do you mean Filipino? If his daughter is half Filipino he's probably speaking from experience. Racism? No. Rude? Yes.
Posted by cancerroseI still find it tacky for women to ask men out. In the end if your relationship ends it marriage, you (usually) give up your last name for his, you go through pregnancy to birth him a child, you nurse the child you make sure your husband (if he's the bread winner) is well fed and good for workPosted by libraqueeenI don't know about you, but I live in the 21st century. Besides he asked me out the first time so I asked him the second time.
p.s since when do girls ask guys out? I think that's why he's also a bit turned off
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And I mainly did it cos I was so embarassed that I wanted to see him again and behave normally, so that the last time wasn't the last thing he thinks of meclick to expand
Women do all that and more, and yet we can't even get courted anymore because it's the "21st century"? Listen here, if a man wants you, he will show it. Making you wait where YOU had to ask him out and get rejected anyway should send you a message, but then again you DID ask a dude out so we have different logic and values, so I'll just agree to disagree.
tl;dr if a woman has to ask the man out on a second date, he's not into her, especially if he says he's too busy for her and therefore rejecting.
If you want to get him in trouble send him your nudes on her birthday
I'm sure he texted all his friends: "didn't get to fuck my ex she puked everywhere"
jk, but if you're hot enough he might try again but if not he might just forget about you since he already dated you anyway
if he felt what you did tho he will come around but he doesn't sound worth it
p.s since when do girls ask guys out? I think that's why he's also a bit turned off
also idk why guys initiate sex after alcohol do they understand the laws regarding rape and alcohol?
jk, but if you're hot enough he might try again but if not he might just forget about you since he already dated you anyway
if he felt what you did tho he will come around but he doesn't sound worth it
p.s since when do girls ask guys out? I think that's why he's also a bit turned off
also idk why guys initiate sex after alcohol do they understand the laws regarding rape and alcohol?
I don't think it's a coincidence he dropped you and started hanging out with his ex. I think you know the answer but want a different, reassuring one.
Sorry to break it to ya, but libra or not, this isn't a behavior of a guy that respects or cares about you really. You really should move on.
Sorry to break it to ya, but libra or not, this isn't a behavior of a guy that respects or cares about you really. You really should move on.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou dated a libraPosted by jeaneThese silly bitches just confirm that Libra dudes do seem to be drawn to batshit crazy.Posted by panaYour situation is nothing like this! You slept with his boss!
I am going through exact same situation with my libra guy.. yes we had some petty arguments about him not giving relationship time..and every time i told him about my feelings, he would always tell me go be steady and take it easy and i wouldnt understand it. This kept happening until i asked him to bring his real feelings out in the open. He simply told me he needs his space and time to recover from these arguments and started ignoring me. he would respond back but saying that why am i messaging him, even a forward message a day for him (be it a joke or facebook share) was me trying to keep in touch everyday and pretending that everything is fine. trust me, i am spending all my time in pain and hes behaving so heartless. I tried to plead my case with him everyday until he gave me such a nasty response that I just decided to not contact him every again and he can reach out when he wants.
I know its much easier said than done but this is what you gotta do. he wont respect you ever if you see that you dont respect yourself. give him some aloofness and cold-shoulder. if hes really into you, he will take his time but come back, else you would have learnt to live without him (atleast somewhat) by then!click to expand
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