Posted by rockyroadicecream
I call bs on the OP tbh.

She's acting like her namesake- getting walked all over.

But tbh, I don't believe her story. After all that bullshit her stupid ass said yes to an impromptu marriage proposal?

lolz. Who does that? On either side of the story? She's a goddamned troll.

Posted by Sheever
For an aries what matters what you can provide for him. If you make him happy and satisfied of the relationship, there is no reason for him to get involved in affairs. We are very simple and always let you know clear what's up. If you don't listen that's your problem from then.

The more you chase him now the worse. His driven by his imagination of the other woman and in hunting mode. He might get some reality check if it doesn't happen on his way and try to retreat back to you. How old are you both? If you in your twenties it might he not mature enough and adventurous yet. If he know himself well what he want he not doing such things.

Aries mature relative late due it's playful attitude to life but can be the best and most loyal husband or partner when they clear with what woman they want beside them.

For aries the best match is strong woman because he can keep chasing her and it keeps the spark also he have respect for the woman. It's very important factor.

I am surprised on the statistics about capricorn woman and aries man is hard match because I think it's really good match actually. Capricorn has the structure and determination towards life and brings stability for an aries life also keep him motivated. Strong character but still emotional and reserved.

Posted by aquarius_man
omg i just read the text. i wouldn't reply to it. very clingy & desperate to send a text like this when you know the man's out getting wasted. in company of another woman. why did you send this?

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What you wrote sounds pretty disingenuous to me, even though I don't know the story. And you have very little chance of being persuasive by text anyway (anyone in general).

What part sounds disingenuous to you?

The "if"s and "but"s of it. Anyone using logic isn't really THAT into what they say they want.

And then "i'll be happy for you" how many times have we heard that old chestnut before?

Having said that, even if you don't get what you want from him, it sounds like you'd be dodging a massive bullet not getting involved with him more than you both are already. Someone having a love affair with alcohol and drugs is rarely pretty.

I know you don't know me but I'm a very independent woman. When I say I wish him well with that girl? I mean it.

As for drugs and alcohol. What he was in the past is in the past. He worked hard to be a better person. That doesn't make him a monster for having tried and done all drugs available. He learned from it and judging someone based on that is pretty stupid. People improve

You don’t have to save face with us. It’s clear that you didn’t mean what you said because deep down it hurts. Otherwise you wouldn’t have made a big deal about it. Someone who truly doesn’t care will be indifferent to the situation not emotional, hence your reaction vs his.

I'm not saving face. I'm being my true self here. As much as I love this guy and where we are or were heading, I'm too independent to be upset over him picking another woman. And I'm too rational to be emotional. He doesn't like me enough to talk to me and include me in his life since she's in his.

There's nothing more I can do. I told him how I feel. I told him how it makes me feel. I told him I wanna go to the event with him. We are or were planning and saving money for a trip to Europe. We spent hours and hours talking about what we both love. Talking ideas and watching movies about it.

If he prefers going out to get drunk instead of spending time with me? What else can I do?

Put a leach on him? Send him texts and call him when he's with her?

He already picked her as the winner between us. She drinks too much. He's back to being self destructive again.

I'm not his mom

You’re still not getting my point across. If you say you don’t care, then why ask? If you see he’s pursuing her, then why be there? If you say you don’t wish to put a leash on him, then why are you being passive aggressive?

I think you’re too attached to his words rather than his actions. His actions are saying something completely different now. Doesn’t matter what he did in the past, it’s the present that counts. And currently, his present isn’t involving much of his attention on you.

You’re in the right mindset, but very few actually are in the right action.

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