My ex is a Gemini and Pieces women are the one that get under his skin and till this day owns his heart!!! Mind you they broke up years ago!! Everytime he will get drunk, he sometimes tell me he loves her and he doesn't know how to move on! I will say Pieces is the Gemini's kryptonite.
Hi, I am not proud to admit this but I am exactly like him. I don't think it's a bipolar thing. You see, I have a huge ego and very stubborn so when I don't get my way I say goodbye. Then few days after I'll realized how wrong I am or that I miss that person so whatever the differences are I do not care cos I want to be with him. And after misssing him it will be a very hot passionate sex. Doing this and not taking as much time away we never fix anything. So it becomes a repetition.
I think what is going on he is battling with himself. There are probably red flags in your relationship that a part of him feels that it isn't going to work and at the same time a part of him do not care and just want to be with you. If you want him to make up his mind and stop doing that is cut him off for a whole month.. No communication not even text. Make him think and if he really love you he will run back and never do the pull and push again with you because he already know you know how to move on. Someone did that to me and boy I've never took him for granted again.
Yes Exactly what I'm trying to say Dwax. I know when you're into someone You want to spend as much time with them. But if You make her feel like a princess and the best thing in the world when you guys are together that is good. The trick is not contacting her as much because she will wonder why you haven't and she will go to you instead. And when she text you do not text back right away. Wait a couple of hours just to show her you have your own life. And short text only like I am well.. Then when you see her again. be as romantic. You see what picture I am trying to paint here? You will conquer her with those. Be as passionate when you guys are together. Be sincere and listen to her. We like to blab about ourselves specially if we feel comfortable with you.
Ok here's a cure to your dilema. I mean maybe this only works for me. There's a couple of ways people get to my heart and when they do they own it.
How they won me:
1)Gemini guy before always took me out on a different types of dates. He was glamorous, easy to talk to about serious things and also he mix in some fun in it. He showered me with gifts and even tried his best to cook for me. He treated me like a queen at the same time his bestfriend. In time, I ended up loving the man. Oh and he was very affectionate and his eyes looks at me as if I'm the most beautiful woman.
2)Leo man did the hot and cold tactics with me. Sort of like pull and push. He will say and do something so romantic that most man wouldn't say or do. He was sincere and we will talk about things I can never tell people which attracted me to him. But one day he loves me the next day he don't. Drove me crazy.
3)And My Cap guy who I dated for 5 years. He became my lover and my bestfriend. I love how he cater to my needs and I feel safe when I'm with him. There's no masking anything. I can look my worst and he will assure me I look beautiful. The only problem with Caps is that you guys have your way of suffocate. Sometimes we need space and time to unwind. It's nothing personal. We Leo will come back and we will contact you. Sometimes with me less is more. When I am interested and I am not getting the respond I usually do, it makes me think and then I actually try and put more effort for the person. This is when LEO ego comes out.
Well goodluck, My advice is tone done the calling or texting. Instead when you see her make it a romantic night (candles, flowers and your eyes should always focus on her)