lovealways06 joined September 30, 2013
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Cancer Sun - Aquarius Moon
Cancer Sun - Aquarius Moon
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Posted by FUM
My best friend, Aqua from high school, actually cut me off because her new boyfriend did not want her to have friends. We were friends since kindergarden. That's an Aqua for you.
We connected again after many years -- that is after she got married to her (then) boyfriend -- and our re-connecting happened after their divorce.
As much as I like her, I also do not forget that she was easy in dropping me. We are no longer best friends... just friends.
Yeah, I get what you mean. I always have fun with my Aqua friend, but I don't think I can ever fully forgive her for cutting me off.
Update: Spoke to my Leo. She told me that she was making those comments because she was paranoid due to her major trust issues (from her cheating ex and friends who have done her wrong before). She said that she was OK with my decision to have Aquarius back in my life, and wasn't truly to guilt me or thought that I was being disloyal. So, we're good.
I agree that someone who is like a sister would not cut you out. But I think my loyalty to my friends is what is cause me to have a hard time letting Aquarius go. I know what she did was wrong and probably unforgivable, but it just hasn't completely clicked for me yet. Maybe it's a lesson I'll learn eventually.
Anyway thanks for your advice, Leos!
I agree that someone who is like a sister would not cut you out. But I think my loyalty to my friends is what is cause me to have a hard time letting Aquarius go. I know what she did was wrong and probably unforgivable, but it just hasn't completely clicked for me yet. Maybe it's a lesson I'll learn eventually.
Anyway thanks for your advice, Leos!
Posted by SapphireGem
After being in relationship with a Cancer woman for 4 years, all I can say is... do both of you a favour and get the fuck as far away from each other as possible. This is a combination for total fucking disaster.
Don't let it destroy your life like it did to mine.
Yikes... What went wrong?
Well, thanks for all your opinions. Especially the one insinuating I'm a "mean girl" 
I got my answer - Leos are not passive-aggressive! But since mine won't come out and say it, I will ask her if she thinks I am being disloyal, and we'll work it out. Like we always do.
I got my answer - Leos are not passive-aggressive! But since mine won't come out and say it, I will ask her if she thinks I am being disloyal, and we'll work it out. Like we always do.
She has moon in Taurus and mars in Virgo.
At first, I told Aquarius I didn't want to be her friend if she had all those negative things to say about Leo, but they are things that I had noticed before. Aquarius says Leo is attention-stealing and always needs to be in the spotlight, but I see her differently. Leo wants the attention, yes, but it's never her intention to STEAL it from anybody, she just likes people to pay attention to her. I never said it was a bad thing, I just said it was something I had been noticing, then Aquarius brought it up as well. I think Aquarius assumes that because she wants to be the center of attention and when it goes to anyone else, that person is stealing it from her.
Anyway, I'm not going to let Aquarius ruin my friendship with Leo, because what you said is true, we have been there for each other when Aquarius dropped us. Aquarius is in my life, yes, but I'm not letting her manipulate me into believing Leo is a bad person. Like I said, I've seen her 2-3 in the last 4 months. Leo I see and talk to almost everyday. She is a good person and a great friend, and I've done everything to be the same to her. There have been choices she's made that I have not agreed with (like when she took back her cheating ex.) I was the only person in her life who supported her through that. I said, "I don't agree with it but if that's what you need to do, do it and if it fails, I'm here like I always am."
It's just annoying when I tell Leo I can't hang out and she says, "Why are you hanging out with Aquarius?" when I'm actually hanging out with my family/boyfriend or just want to be alone. Leo does not need to feel like I'm spending less time with her, because I'm not.
The point of this post was to find out if Leos are usually passive aggressive, but I felt like I needed to give context.
At first, I told Aquarius I didn't want to be her friend if she had all those negative things to say about Leo, but they are things that I had noticed before. Aquarius says Leo is attention-stealing and always needs to be in the spotlight, but I see her differently. Leo wants the attention, yes, but it's never her intention to STEAL it from anybody, she just likes people to pay attention to her. I never said it was a bad thing, I just said it was something I had been noticing, then Aquarius brought it up as well. I think Aquarius assumes that because she wants to be the center of attention and when it goes to anyone else, that person is stealing it from her.
Anyway, I'm not going to let Aquarius ruin my friendship with Leo, because what you said is true, we have been there for each other when Aquarius dropped us. Aquarius is in my life, yes, but I'm not letting her manipulate me into believing Leo is a bad person. Like I said, I've seen her 2-3 in the last 4 months. Leo I see and talk to almost everyday. She is a good person and a great friend, and I've done everything to be the same to her. There have been choices she's made that I have not agreed with (like when she took back her cheating ex.) I was the only person in her life who supported her through that. I said, "I don't agree with it but if that's what you need to do, do it and if it fails, I'm here like I always am."
It's just annoying when I tell Leo I can't hang out and she says, "Why are you hanging out with Aquarius?" when I'm actually hanging out with my family/boyfriend or just want to be alone. Leo does not need to feel like I'm spending less time with her, because I'm not.
The point of this post was to find out if Leos are usually passive aggressive, but I felt like I needed to give context.
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by lovealways06
I'm not getting close! We went for coffee to catch up on each other's lives 2-3 times and that's IT. I am not doing anything wrong by hanging out with someone who used to be like a sister to me. Keep in mind Leo would do the same if the roles were reversed.
"Like a sister" who cut you out of her life and quit talking to you? lol
And how do you know she would do the same?
You said:
Posted by lovealways06
My Aquarius friend does not want to be friends with Leo (she thinks Leo can't stand when the attention is not on her, which I'm starting to agree with...
Do you really think she isn't picking up on that vibe?
Posted by lovealways06
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I feel like this is the first time in her life where she wasn't someone's first choice and just can't accept it....
Pfft-- I think you're looking for a free pass on your actions.
LEOs are pretty big on loyalty-- common knowledge, there-- I know I don't like it when people talk sh*t about my friends.
So it would be very confusing to me to see one of my friends getting close (um... "like a sister") to someone who talked sh*t about me-- and then turned on me, like you're doing to your LEO friend.
So go be friends with this Aqua who ditched you last year, and likes to insult your friends.
She sounds like a real winner.
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I see you're a Leo, is this why you're getting so defensive?
Yes, she cut me off AND Leo, who has said she would be hanging out with Aquarius too if she was in my shoes. So where's that "loyalty" you speak of?
I'm not turning on her, we see each other almost everyday and talk all the time. I've seen Aquarius like 2-3 in the past 4 months and we don't talk. It's just not in my nature to turn someone away who has apologized, no matter how much they have hurt me.
Anyway, it was not my intention when I started this forum to argue lol. I just wanted to know if it was common knowledge for a Leo to be passive-aggressive, but I guess not.
Posted by djbuck1
Just out of curiosity, if you are with a Gemini now, why are you asking about Pisces? Is there someone waiting in the wings?
Oh, and think hard before you base your evaluation of an entire sign of the zodiac on one negative experience. There's a lot of that around here.
No, not at all. I was just curious because I've read that Pisces/Cancer are a really good match but have never experienced it for myself. And yeah, I know. I wouldn't do that. especially considering I've been happy with my Gemini for 5 years and that's not supposed to be a great match. I know it has a lot more to do with your chart. Like I said, I'm just curious about a Pisces/Cancer relationship because I've heard great things.
Posted by ProphetaAzteca
My closest lady friend is a cancer sun,virgo moon,cancer rising
I can marry this woman and never regret the decision.
Depending on the moon and rising,this can be a very successful union.She is very nurturing and protective of me,the same goes for me.We talk about anything and everything under the sun,I unload alot of her emotional burdens and pressures,and we share alot of artistic and intellectual tastes.She's the strongest woman I know,aside from my mother,and that's saying alot since she's only 20.
I appreciate and love the cancer women in my life,both at their best and worst.Compassionate,sensual,nurturing,bouncy,strong...even if they get crabby when in one of their moods,I help take the edge off and bring a smile back to their eyes....
Speaking as a fish man,I will chime in and say that pisces and cancers can do well with one another in the long run
So why aren't you with her??
I'm a Cancer (female) but with a Gemini man. My only experience with Pisces men was one that was a couple of years younger, suuuuper immature and there was no chemistry between us, but I have heard they are Cancer's "soul mates". What are your good/bad experiences with Pisces men?
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by lovealways06
To add to my last comment. Leo says she's ok with it and accepts my decision to be Aquarius' friend again but it's blatantly obvious that she's not. She makes soooo many passive aggressive comments and acts like she doesn't know what I'm talking about when I confront her about it. Also, not believing anything Aquarius says about my Leo friend, the attention-seeking is something I noticed before Aquarius even mentioned it.
Hmm-- could the "acceptance" be sarcasm?
I mean, I can't really say that I blame her.
I have a hard time with "friends" who have no problem getting close to those who don't like me.
I think you're wrong-- sorry.click to expand
I'm not getting close! We went for coffee to catch up on each other's lives 2-3 times and that's IT. I am not doing anything wrong by hanging out with someone who used to be like a sister to me. Keep in mind Leo would do the same if the roles were reversed.
To add to my last comment. Leo says she's ok with it and accepts my decision to be Aquarius' friend again but it's blatantly obvious that she's not. She makes soooo many passive aggressive comments and acts like she doesn't know what I'm talking about when I confront her about it. Also, not believing anything Aquarius says about my Leo friend, the attention-seeking is something I noticed before Aquarius even mentioned it.
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by lovealways06
My really good friend is a Leo girl
and lately, there's been some tension between us because
I've been hanging out with an Aquarius who ... stopped talking to us last year.
My Aquarius friend...
Oh. She's your friend now-- even though she totally quit talking to you last year.
And now Miss Aqua...
Posted by lovealways06
.... does not want to be friends with Leo
(she thinks Leo can't stand when the attention is not on her,
which I'm starting to agree with...),
but does want to be friends with me (I'm a Cancer). My Leo friend is being super passive aggressive, saying she's OK with it but making comments to suggest she's definitely NOT ok with it.
I feel like this is the first time in her life where she wasn't someone's first choice and just can't accept it. Are Leo's usually passive aggressive? I've got a lot of Leos in my life and this seems to be a recurring trend...
No, LEOs aren't passive aggressive-- but your Aqua "friend" is a bitch who is trying to drive a wedge between you two.
And you're buying it-- hook, line and sinker.
You're going to drop your good friend because you've elected to believe what some bullshit, fickle Aqua is telling you-- and after she totally dumped you last year?
What is wrong with you?
How can you not see that?click to expand
She had her reasons for not talking to us, I guess I was stretching when I said friend, we've hung out 2-3 times since she came back into my life just to catch up but we're not going to be friends like before because of what she did. Who am I to shut someone out when they've apologized, acknowledged that they are wrong and are trying to gain my trust back?
Im definitely not going to drop my Leo friend. She means so much to me and I've done everything I can to show her that I'm still with her no matter what but she's letting her insecurities affect our friendship negatively. And don't think that she wouldn't take Aquarius back in her life if the roles were reversed, because she has even said that she would have.
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My really good friend is a Leo girl and lately, there's been some tension between us because I've been hanging out with
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Pisces
I'm a Cancer (female) but with a Gemini man. My only experience with Pisces men was one that was a couple of years young
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Gemini
Just curious to see if our relationship dynamic has anything to do with our horoscopes, as I've heard Geminis and Cancer
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