maybemex joined September 19, 2013
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I met a guy he is gemini , im pisces with ascendant in sagittarius , we r just friends by now ...but what we discovered that we r too much alike about many things even the sex fantasies, open minded both, ...its that feeling u get like talking to urself or meeting ur "twin"..
It doesnt bother me to have just sex with him , i see how he acts and i know a person how acts when is in love , but when i tell him "ok then just sex " then comes that part "but i dont want only sex , i want you to be my gf" lol . i know this sounds crazy .Seems he doesnt know what he wants..And as i said before in my first text his best friend who is the god for him broke up with his gf , so since then "my" guy acts weird ..they go to parties together he is ok if i go to the clubs with my friends or with his friends and then he calls me during that night acting jealous (ofc being drunk)..another friend of him will go soon in england now "my " guy said yesterday to me when he said he wants just to be with me but not serious "that he wants to make his life , and go in england too ..Seems that what his friends do like this he acts .I never met this kind of guy thats why im here idk what to think .. I said ok i will be with him detaching of him, till i find another one ..
And no im not that kind of girl acting distant if the guy is nice ..But seems with this kind of guy i can only be a player ..
what is weird why then he doesnt say he wants just sex? like he had with girls before me after he broke up with his ex...Why he calls me every day telling me about his day how went ..about his problems ..i dont get it ..
And no im not that kind of girl acting distant if the guy is nice ..But seems with this kind of guy i can only be a player ..
what is weird why then he doesnt say he wants just sex? like he had with girls before me after he broke up with his ex...Why he calls me every day telling me about his day how went ..about his problems ..i dont get it ..
I'm thinking again if i will start to treat him like i did at the beginning he will come again and say to me "i want more , something serious " ..
Plus he is that one calling me everyday , few times a day , maybe i call him once a week ..
My fault was when i started to care about him i acted needy ...i think this thing scares him ..but he wants to continue to be together , and to go with him and his friends to have fun, usually on weekends they meet at a guy's home and they have a drink talking ..also he wants me there too ..its confusing ..
And btw i dont hate him ...i dont want to take my revenge .
I said i think when he is drunk is open to me ..yes im not agree a guy to tell me his feelings only when he is drunk , when he is sober he tells me he cares about me, and as i feel i think he is afraid to get involved coz if he will love me i will do same as his ex gf did ..leave him for another one ..thats why he is distant to me when is sober.When i told him yesterday then we break up if he doesnt want something serious he wasnt agree saying "but i care about you and i like u as person" ..I dont get it why if i act indifferent he's into me , and why if i show him love he pulls back ?
And yes for the moment i like to be fb but i'd like to know the secret how to get him involved , to fall in love with me .
It's complicated as i said he wants to be with me but he wants to be free too ..he didnt like when i said "oh to be again fb " He wants me to be his gf but not serious ..When i acted independent he was that telling me that he wants serious now when he saw me involved and that i love him he pull back ..I guess he is attracted of those kind of girls who treat him indifferent.. Coz like this his ex gf did She had 3 other guys at same time and he loved her like a crazy lol ..and the girl before he was with she was good as he said like me and he didnt care about her ..People say to be indifferent to him , but no one gives details like how should i act indifferent? to not be available all the time , or? and when im with him should i show i care about him ?
if you mean that i posted my story here on this page sorry but im new on here. i found now that i can make my own topic ..
I met a libra guy in june was just sex we didnt want something serious .After 1 month he told me he wants to live his life i said ok anyway we just have sex on weekends after few days he tells me when he is drunk that he wants more.He seems more open to me when he is drunk but then next day he would deny all saying "i was drunk dont listen me" .Last month i found out that we were in a serious relationship but small changes i met on weekends his friends, we went in club together not just meeting at 3-4 am for sex and sleep together , the Sundays we spent together ..but not during the week ..Now strangely he acts weird his best friend broke up with his gf and im sure that guy tells him that relationships sucks all kind of negative stuff ..He told me today he still thinks about his ex gf who played him and he loved her ..he still compares the moments (i guess the moments spent with me and the moments with her ) he doesnt want something serious , he is sure he will not fall in love again coz ppl just once in life fall in love .lol. also he doesnt want to lose me ..Im good person and i was TOO GOOD to him ..and he likes me as person , he cares about me ..and he cannot understand how i showed him affection and i kept dating him while he was distant to me ...He knows he asked me to be patient and now ..Im just confused ..i told him we would meet like treetrunk buddies , but when i find another guy we'll stop . He doesnt want me to be distant to him but he can be distant to me.thats selfish.Seemed when he was drunk he was open to me saying he is afraid that i will leave him for a better looking guy, he was even crazy jealous when a guy talked to me , he always told me i can find anytime another guy (being afraid of), he said he wants love, he wants serious with me , he loves me , but when its sober he denies all..He doesnt want to lose me but also he doesnt want something serious he just wants to be free but have me there too ..Can someone give me some advices please? can i get this guy into me and how?
to go in someone else's thread????????????
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I met a libra guy in june was just sex we didnt want something serious .After 1 month he told me he wants to live his li
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