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Ok guys i get. Back off and maybe he will come back. But like i said we havent talk since Sunday and todays Friday. Oh well.... I will just chill on it.
I agree! Im soo sick of going through this b.s. He isn't worth my time or my energy.
THANKS A LOT LEOKITTEN! GREAT ADVICE!!!!
leokitten how long should I wait for a guy to call me, I mean damn! I dont like 2,3,4,5 days to go by and nothing. i dont want to play the hot and cold game with this guy. If you want me, pursue me. What's soo hard about that. Plus he says he looking for something to turn into a relationship, so am I. I've never been in one, and I'm tired of the games. Let's get this thing started!
Ok, met him on 01/25/09 through a friend at her house. She was secretly trying to set me up with this guy all along and I didn't know it. While at her house she told me he had been in two serious relationships, were both times he was cheated on or hurt, and just recently stopped talking to someone who was playing the same games. So he gives me a ride home and calls me that night. The next day I call him and we talk. So monday goes by, nothing. I send him one text tuesday, he texted back, then calls later that night. So two days go by and I drop hints to him that im feeling neglected and he ask "what's wrong, what do you want me to do", but I don't really say. Later on that day I tell him I dont think we should talk anymore and he calls me back immediately saying I didn't even give us a chance to get to know each other, etc. So I agree and we smooth things out. So the next day, Sunday we talk, but now four days have gone by and nothing. What's with this guy? Im ready to give up.
Advice please
Hi im new here too. I met this aqua on my birthday of november 17th 2007. I had my cousin to go and talk to him for me and he obliged. So I walk over to him and we began to talk. It was magic, fireworks, i would have given up any dude to talk to him at the time. He felt it too, sooo much so to the point we were acting like husband and wife after just meeting one another!!! Then the wait came. He waited six days to call me back after we first met (first time this ever happened to me) I was going INSANE. But finally we talked(texted) and I was good. Then a period of four weeks went by with nothing (i was devastated and thought he was gone) and he asked why I never called(texted) him back, which I did, but we started to talk again on and off four two weeks after that then POOF nothing. He went away for five weeks, yet again i was heartbroken and thought he might have moved on cause I was a virgin. Well guess what??? I saw him just one day after this long period of time at another club!!! He stared me down the whole night!!! My friend approached him and he told her he had been waiting for me!!! We talked. He was acting somewhat aloof but was still being sincere as always. He friends saw me though and began to laugh casue they knew who i was. He told me he lost touch because he soo busy and i stay and hour away and felt like a relationship wouldnt work. he texted me today saying he wasnt trying to be rude and still wants to see me, but if I could come to his part of town this time.(he even said maybe it was meant to be after all at the club) dont want to be made of fool of, what am i to do PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
aquafit how long did your first aqua stay gone before he contacted you again?
why do aquas like to play the disapering acts? one i know comes a goes for days, sometimes a weeks. One time I told him to loose my number, later he replied thst he wouldnt after we talked. He is very sweet, and romantic, he's just soo damn aloof. Sometimes i don't here from him and i really think he's gone. (were playing that game now as a matter of fact) Whats up with that?

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Ok, met him on 01/25/09 through a friend at her house. She was secretly trying to set me up with this guy all along and
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Hi im new here too. I met this aqua on my birthday of november 17th 2007. I had my cousin to go and talk to him for me a
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