Message Posts by 000sillylion000
I'm Leo rising and I wear 5.5 US :/
tiny toes that look like a baby's
tiny toes that look like a baby's
Gross. Don't settle for second best. You're better than that. Drop his ass.
Posted by raad182I definitely agree that poor Saturn gets overlooked or misread. He's the Dad of the zodiac, right? Everyone sees him as gruff and bleh, but I rather like him for all the reasons you've mentioned. He's made me grown up in many ways, and I am thankful
LOL, hell no
People only look at the bad side of Saturn its the most misunderstood planet.
Saturn is about being real, taking seriously, no pain no gain, you need to work for what you want and Saturn will give it to you as a reward but never as a gift.
The house where Saturn falls in your natal chart is the area of your life where you don't mind to put some real effort, where you take a serious responsible approach, you will need to work for your luck.
Saturn in the 5th house will tell that you are serious about entertainment, having fun is something serious to you, you care about having a good time, children or your well-being.
The 5th house won't tell if you will stay single or not, you could have this fear if you had Saturn in the 7th house, the house of marriage, partnership and your relationship with others.
The romance said to be ruled by the 5th house is the fun one that one night stand, that kiss without commitment and etc.
Love is a Venus thing.
You need to have in mind that there is a huge difference between a well and a bad aspected Saturn.
If bad aspected, Saturn can be restrictive and make that house a nightmare to you.
I don't have an afflicted aspect or anything like that; I do think it's more of a "work for it" vibe when it comes to getting out there and meeting people, at least for me. I was just more curious about other people's experiences. Though, as a sidenote, for 5th house fleeting-fun, I do abhor one-night stands, and I tend to get overly anxious about dating because it seems so... transient? Trivial? I've always done better when I'm friends with the person first. Though, with Saturn in Sag in the 5th, I have a terribly hard time relaxing. In fact, it's kind of hard to remember what "fun" feels like, hahaha.
Posted by yupvirgooI did know about the kid thing (I can't physically have them, and honestly, have never wanted them), but I am curious about the dating/marrying aspect. It really does feel at times like the Universe is like "ah, ah, ah, you have some sort of karmic date to pay-off, so you have to wait forever." I'm alright with that; I was just curious.
I read somewhere that there may be difficulty in bearing children with this placement or perhaps you'd marry later in life but I don't believe it coz I married when I was barely 20 and I have 2 young sons and currently expecting a third child. But then again I have lots of Libra placements and never did like being single much.
Congrats on your future baby
Anybody else with this and have been single forever and a day too?
I'm sorry; I can imagine. But I think the old adage holds true, "The right thing to do is usually the hardest." Lots of love
I guess, I was stupid enough to beleive that we shared something special since our younger days
This hurts though
The minute someone starts to use you as space to feel "safe" and lies about feelings for other people or gets annoyed for you asking questions or minimizing your emotions... time to go. Doesn't matter what their sign is.
However, Leo men and women can be self-centered and use people, so, you know, this guy probably will keep talking to her if he's done it before. This seems like a classic cake-and-eat-it-too situation, and you're better than that. You deserve way better than that.
He sounds like a douche.
However, Leo men and women can be self-centered and use people, so, you know, this guy probably will keep talking to her if he's done it before. This seems like a classic cake-and-eat-it-too situation, and you're better than that. You deserve way better than that.
He sounds like a douche.
So, basically, what I'm hearing is that we're the awesome af twins
Lol, we have quite a few of the same placements. ?
It's just so clean and elegant. I also have a Uranus/Pluto conjunction, so I like the macabre a bit more
I like black too
Posted by pinkbird03For house things, yep! For myself? Nope. I tend to wear all black most of the time.
Do all Leo's like bright colors?
Aww, thanks! Same to you -- Aries are really there for you when you need it.
Posted by AdmiraIPrejudice is the absolute worst. The thing that really gets me though? When I say something like, "I don't want this or that or whatever," and they say, "Oh, you will change your mind. You're so young." I'm in my 30s. I know who I am. Quit trying to box me in to societal standards x_xPosted by 000sillylion000I like to not be restricted, this includes from the prejudice of people.Posted by AdmiraIThat's God's truth, right there.Posted by HarukkaHe also indirectly judged her. That practically ruins his chances. Saggitarius hate being judged or restricted.Posted by AdmiraIThis is so right .
Cancer Men have brains but sometimes we don't use them.
If she also has a Virgo moon? You attacked her appearance, and that's like... a cardinal sin.click to expand
Big personality, big explosions, fickle in love, foot-in-mouth disorder, but a big heart and determination. I think people know you mean well and come from a good place... but that being said, you can be cruel if you want. I think you freeze people out before you bitch them out, though.
Posted by AdmiraIThat's God's truth, right there.Posted by HarukkaHe also indirectly judged her. That practically ruins his chances. Saggitarius hate being judged or restricted.Posted by AdmiraIThis is so right .
Cancer Men have brains but sometimes we don't use them.click to expand
If she also has a Virgo moon? You attacked her appearance, and that's like... a cardinal sin.
I would look at his Mercury and Venus to figure out how he communicates and deals with people. This seems a bit out of character for an earth sign dominate person, in my opinion -- they're pretty reliable. Maybe some air in Merc and Venus?
It always seems to show up when you stop looking and give in and are just like "okay, I'll be alone now"
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Anybody else with this placement find yourself fairly self-denying in favor of work? Especially when it comes to relationships and physical affection?
I think it's more your appearance and the sex appeal you give off. If it's in Aquarius, I'm willing to bet people find you incredibly sexually attractive, but in a way they can't quite place. Like a breeze that blows in they weren't expecting and makes them tingly, but not like... rip their clothes off. Captivating is probably a great word for you.
Leo and Sag dominant (split evenly)
5th house dominant
5th house dominant
My sis and I are both Leo Asc with a 6th house in Cap and 12th house in Cancer.
We are big personalities who love to joke around with each other, but I think we both are prone to hiding our pain/stress that comes with being pretty dedicated to our jobs, or at least, what we're working towards. We're learning to open up more with each other about that, though, the older we get.
We are big personalities who love to joke around with each other, but I think we both are prone to hiding our pain/stress that comes with being pretty dedicated to our jobs, or at least, what we're working towards. We're learning to open up more with each other about that, though, the older we get.
Could you post some of your natal aspects? Trine, sextile, etc. I'm shit at math, so I can't do them off the top of my head yet, haha. Also, I think the Aries moon is less the cause of tantrums as a Leo Venus, which dictates all relationships, platonic or romantic. Aries is temperamental sure, but with a Virgo Merc, like you said... you are becoming more measured in how you communicate. But Leo is dramatic, hot-tempered, and when she gets the go-head from an Aries moon to just "boom!" go for it, it can be quite a show.
My understanding of a person with Venus in Scorpio is that they are intense, fairly heavy, and simultaneously can crave intimacy and to basically hold your soul in their hand... while wanting you to keep your distance, because they like a mystery (or to be the mystery, perhaps). Very dedicated when in love, but again, they can be dark and enjoy a veil of secrecy, so they may have some stuff on the side (just depends on their moon sign, I think). Venus in Leo is bright, optimistic, stupidly loyal (Linda G. said, a Leo's love is like this: "here's to you and here's to me, and here's to love and laughter // I'll be true as long as you, and not a moment after!) Venus in Leo can also be a little self-centered. They like being loved, which spurs their desire to give more love to get more (a cycle). But if they feel a little ignored... they can be chilly. They can be flirts to try to get attention.
I don't think the Venus match up is bad at all, just maybe on different wavelengths with varying bouts of moodiness and maybe some intensity when you want more light-hearted moments. However, the drama will also be fun, haha.
My understanding of a person with Venus in Scorpio is that they are intense, fairly heavy, and simultaneously can crave intimacy and to basically hold your soul in their hand... while wanting you to keep your distance, because they like a mystery (or to be the mystery, perhaps). Very dedicated when in love, but again, they can be dark and enjoy a veil of secrecy, so they may have some stuff on the side (just depends on their moon sign, I think). Venus in Leo is bright, optimistic, stupidly loyal (Linda G. said, a Leo's love is like this: "here's to you and here's to me, and here's to love and laughter // I'll be true as long as you, and not a moment after!) Venus in Leo can also be a little self-centered. They like being loved, which spurs their desire to give more love to get more (a cycle). But if they feel a little ignored... they can be chilly. They can be flirts to try to get attention.
I don't think the Venus match up is bad at all, just maybe on different wavelengths with varying bouts of moodiness and maybe some intensity when you want more light-hearted moments. However, the drama will also be fun, haha.
Posted by SofiaV87I've always wondered about the rising sign's influence like that. I think bc I'm double, I don't notice it. I think it is cool you have that other "flavor," if you will. May I ask how you think it affects you beyond appearance?Posted by 000sillylion000Haha yea I think risings are def appearances .. I really feel my Virgo rising though .. Been reading Virgo horoscopes as well
I'm still buying the idea that ascendants deal with appearance and first impressions. Like I'm Leo/Leo, and everybody tells me I come across as friendly and warm even when I'm not talking.
Then I start talking and the Sag moon comes out and people are like "oh jk she's fuckin insane"click to expand
I'm still buying the idea that ascendants deal with appearance and first impressions. Like I'm Leo/Leo, and everybody tells me I come across as friendly and warm even when I'm not talking.
Then I start talking and the Sag moon comes out and people are like "oh jk she's fuckin insane"
Then I start talking and the Sag moon comes out and people are like "oh jk she's fuckin insane"
Idk. If she says she needs out... especially with a Taurian moon... I think she's out. Taurus thinks stuff through before they set the wheels in motion, and while Leo women can get caught up in the drama of a fight, those are pretty big phrases to be throwing around :/
Depends on what it is. If it's a book or food stuff or product? Absolutely must have it immediately, gtfo of my way.
Bigger things... life things, people things? It just depends. I might wait for the right opportunity to present itself before I tell someone I'm into them or maybe throw myself at their feet and scream "take me now"
Bigger things... life things, people things? It just depends. I might wait for the right opportunity to present itself before I tell someone I'm into them or maybe throw myself at their feet and scream "take me now"
I realize this is super old, but dude... my cards have personalities, and they are all wild as hell. I have my set understandings of what the cards mean, but sometimes they just go on their own, and yeah, sound off.
The single ladies tend to be the funniest to me: Empress, 9 of Pentacles, 3 of Cups. They almost always carry a "get your shit together" vibe when they pile up together in a spread.
The single ladies tend to be the funniest to me: Empress, 9 of Pentacles, 3 of Cups. They almost always carry a "get your shit together" vibe when they pile up together in a spread.
I've only been read once in the flesh (psychometry), and I had some doubts, because I'm a natural skeptic (even when I read for other people, I am questioning my intuition and interpretations like mad). However, she did touch on things that "pinged" in me. Not everything, but some. What pinged, I listened to and internalized, and what didn't, I tossed as junk mail -- some idea or message associated with me but not for me (at least not in this life).
The trick, imo, is just listen to your own intuition, and maybe not see so many psychics. I think when you see one, and they do open something up to read on you, you get some of that energy or ju-ju on you. I think the more you go, the more said energy from others builds up, and the harder it is to read.
Maybe meditate. Burn some sage. Start reading cards on your own to build your own intuition up.
The trick, imo, is just listen to your own intuition, and maybe not see so many psychics. I think when you see one, and they do open something up to read on you, you get some of that energy or ju-ju on you. I think the more you go, the more said energy from others builds up, and the harder it is to read.
Maybe meditate. Burn some sage. Start reading cards on your own to build your own intuition up.
Posted by mgmtloveI totally agree with Sagsagsag about the readings and interpretations and how they are completed linked to the reader.
I recently got a tarot reading from a woman I'm subbed to on youtube. I asked if I'd see an old friend again. This is what she said:
1. Past – 2 of Pentacles – Things may have been up and down in your relationship with your friend in the past. This card often represents when we are weighing things up. This card can also say in the past that you may have both been walking on eggshells during the friendship.
2. Present – 7 of Wands – Right now you will not meet again as the 7 of wands often means no.
3. Future – The Magician – There is still the potential for you guys to see each other in the future, things are still open and have the possibility of happening. The Magician speaks of synchronizations and sometimes things happening out of the blue. However, if you do meet again in the future there may still be challenges in your relationship that could see one of you walking away all over again.
Do you guys think this is accurate? And What about the Magician card says that we'll have the same "challenges" again?
However, totally out of context (and potentially useless), if I were going to elaborate on challenges with "Magician" in my own readings, I think the issue would be "ego," because the Magician has everything at his/her disposal. If you look at the Rider-Waiter deck card, the Magician has all of the symbols from the minor arcana splayed out before him. That, in relation to me and my deck, can suggest some issues with "Look at how great I am or what I can do," or maybe indecision caused by ego and/or multiple options. The Magician has the #1 in the major arcana, which I often liken to Aries as the first sign of the zodiac.
But again, with that lady's reading and her vibes, it could be a bit different. Just my 2 cents.
Most Alpha I know (who doesn't pretend to be Alpha like most Aries men I know) is Taurus. These dudes can be so quietly intense and just shut people down. Deep voices too ❤
I have a Sag Moon, and I react very, very poorly. Like... scorched-earth policy poorly.
Posted by TheLibraMudraYeah, it definitely seems like it will take a great deal of time and dedication, and to be honest, I'm not even sure if I'm ready to jump right in, sotospeak. I am interested in just learning, and I will definitely look into the meditations. I think that's always a good place to start.Posted by Freetobe007It took me 9 years to figure this out. lol.
I will say this much...Prophetic skills look like a gift from the outside, but from the inside it won't always feel like a gift. You should tread carefully when it comes to dormant propheticism. You should not open yourself up to every situation that rings the doorbell of your intuition. Many times, when it comes to helping people heal, you're only meant to show up and offer tools for them to do their own work with.You shouldn't jump right into the timeline of every person who needs healing because you're not always meant to be their remedy or you're not meant to be the one who brings their remedy.
Your first urge may be to show and share but you shouldn't and it pays to move like a person who's unaware. People are supposed to be at a certain point before you share what you've seen otherwise you're just disrupting a necessary succession.click to expand
Posted by SeraphlightI got my MFA in Creative Writing, and I have DEFINITELY noticed (especially when I read cards or write down my dreams) that I get waaaaaaaaaaay more information from them than just talking it out? It's like... it's keys me into being more receptive?Posted by 000sillylion000Well it's an alleged ability to gain information about objects events people and much more (more about this) through perception other than the five senses. I don't know if we can ever present this information to others with certainty. Which in a way is a good thing. It's more humble.
Quick question for anyone who thinks (or knows) they are clairvoyant.
I've been having dreams that start to come true. Small, incredibly mundane things that happen during daily life. This occurred in the past too, but stopped when I stopped (for work reasons) reading cards and opening myself up to my guide and... idk... whatever place those thoughts and ideas come from.
My question is: how do I get better at this beyond reading cards and "listening"? I've tried to start meditating and listening more to my gut, but I'm curious about ways other people have developed.
My intuition tells me that I can do more, and after finding several natal aspects that point to strong intuitive and prophetic skills, I want to try. There is a curative emphasis to my aspects, using this skill to "heal" others or "psychic" healing, and it's a path I want to pursue. Just curious if anyone had advice on how.
I would suggest sensitivity is a strong indicator of this. And so for me being more emotionally sensitive has always seemed to be developing more awareness.
Creativity is another indicator. I have noticed creative people are more into this.
It's not a rule though.
Being creative and sensitive and pursuing creative skills I think helps. For instance singing lead me to the practice of sometimes intoning and droning. Drawing has helped my mind understand imagery. It's visual intelligence. Acting and dance gave my physical awareness of space and others.
Here do this ...find a room ...lick your fingers ...then rub the spit on your head. Run from one end of the room to the other. I know it sounds MAD but try it ...you will find you are more aware of space than you were. It's hard to explain I learnt it in a drama class.
Mime and mirroring ...seem to have you aware of other people on another level.
Practice movement. Visualizations.click to expand
Quick question for anyone who thinks (or knows) they are clairvoyant.
I've been having dreams that start to come true. Small, incredibly mundane things that happen during daily life. This occurred in the past too, but stopped when I stopped (for work reasons) reading cards and opening myself up to my guide and... idk... whatever place those thoughts and ideas come from.
My question is: how do I get better at this beyond reading cards and "listening"? I've tried to start meditating and listening more to my gut, but I'm curious about ways other people have developed.
My intuition tells me that I can do more, and after finding several natal aspects that point to strong intuitive and prophetic skills, I want to try. There is a curative emphasis to my aspects, using this skill to "heal" others or "psychic" healing, and it's a path I want to pursue. Just curious if anyone had advice on how.
I've been having dreams that start to come true. Small, incredibly mundane things that happen during daily life. This occurred in the past too, but stopped when I stopped (for work reasons) reading cards and opening myself up to my guide and... idk... whatever place those thoughts and ideas come from.
My question is: how do I get better at this beyond reading cards and "listening"? I've tried to start meditating and listening more to my gut, but I'm curious about ways other people have developed.
My intuition tells me that I can do more, and after finding several natal aspects that point to strong intuitive and prophetic skills, I want to try. There is a curative emphasis to my aspects, using this skill to "heal" others or "psychic" healing, and it's a path I want to pursue. Just curious if anyone had advice on how.
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeI totally understand; I started that way too, but it gets so much easier and meaningful if you start reading three at a time. Tarot is all about individual cards, sure, but when they get together in a spread, it's like a group of people in a room. And you can learn so, so much about people based on how they act around othersPosted by 000sillylion000Hm. Thnx
For what it's worth, I think it's a bit hard to pull a single card and a clarifier. I would recommend pulling three with a set pattern of placement, like { card one -- how he acts around her, middle card -- how he feels about her, card three -- how he wants to be } or something like that.
This will give you a little bit more information, because I can totally see what you wrote with him juggling her as an option, but also what sagsagsag wrote.
I just do the one card because I try to keep it as simple as possible since I'm not the best at reading tarot lolclick to expand
When I started, I used a simple pattern of:
1st card (what I can see/am doing) + 2nd card (what is the core/central point of question) + 3rd card (what I can't see/am unaware of)
Hope this helps
Constantly! I get the 4 of swords (take a mental rest), or if I'm really harping, I will get the Fool, because my spirit guide is SALTY. Rofl. She will literally be like, "Stop it, you idiot," and I find it pretty funny.
For what it's worth, I think it's a bit hard to pull a single card and a clarifier. I would recommend pulling three with a set pattern of placement, like { card one -- how he acts around her, middle card -- how he feels about her, card three -- how he wants to be } or something like that.
This will give you a little bit more information, because I can totally see what you wrote with him juggling her as an option, but also what sagsagsag wrote.
This will give you a little bit more information, because I can totally see what you wrote with him juggling her as an option, but also what sagsagsag wrote.
Can Lenormand cards be reversals, like the Woman is in this? I thought they had to be upright.
Texting just feels like it could go on forever; this makes it feel like an intrusion, I guess?
I'd much rather talk on the phone; it's so much more personal and when it's done, it's done.
I'd much rather talk on the phone; it's so much more personal and when it's done, it's done.
The answer to me is he doesn't want anything more than FWB, and he knows that saying that will torpedo his chances... So he is being evasive and weird, like the others have said. This would be a big red flag to me
Posted by wagtailPosted by 000sillylion000Posted by wagtail
Honestly? I think you're right about that.
I for one believe the Universe aligns with what we create as well. And holding on to old patterns of behaviour that do us no good can frustrate us and block what the cosmos has in store #fellowcrackpot
BUT. There's nothing wrong with staying connected to a positive relationship and giving it an opportunity to develop into something platonic and meaningful. Even if it's just a light acquaintanceship
Just take it slow. And reassure you're Saggybitz (I has SagMars and it's a freedom fighter) just reassure you can walk away or fly away anytime- I just choose not to. But I could...but I don't....buuuuut I could. but I don't.
It'll pan out for you. You may not even recognise his face in 6months. But for now it's fine right?
So glad to have a fellow #crackpot -- my friends make fun of me, but it's totally the only way to live.
Haha, I love that you said Saggybitz! Yeah, I used to really live by the idea that I needed to have my eye on the door at all times. Sometimes even a toe in it. I'm trying not to do that anymore -- I think that's why I'm trying to stay friends with him? Mars in Retrograde has me all pensive and thinking and planning and dreaming about karmic growth and self-betterment. I am soooooooooo ready for it to be over x_x
Re your Mars retro mention: just a little read for ya x
http://www.mysticmamma.com/mars-goes-retrograde-april-17th-to-june-29th-2016/click to expand
“Being honest about how we really feel and dealing with those feelings effectively is the work of a healthy Mars, not suppressing or denying how we feel…â€
Well, at least I've been doing it right! Or trying to anyway (x_X)