Message Posts by 8thHousee
Posted by HippeeGemI identify with some Taurus traits like being possessive and stubborn af, but I don’t feel like I identify with majority of the traits astrologers speak of. I feel like out of everything in my chart I identify heavily with my 8th house placements. Got sun and mercury there and I feel like a Scorpio most of the time. Libra/Scorpio cusp does sound hard. I feel like Aries/Taurus isn’t that hard, but it can come off as aggressive and overbearing to some people.Posted by 8thHouseeDo you indentify with Taurus traits at all? I feel like this cusp is so different. Aries and Taurus are so similar in some ways but compete opposites in other.
I’m an Aries/Taurus cusp. If I was born a couple hours earlier I would’ve been an Aries. I feel more like an Aries than a Taurus. But I mean my mercury is in Aries, so maybe that’s why.
Maybe all cusps are like that. From what I read Libra/Scorp is the hardest, but whose to say.click to expand
I’m an Aries/Taurus cusp. If I was born a couple hours earlier I would’ve been an Aries. I feel more like an Aries than a Taurus. But I mean my mercury is in Aries, so maybe that’s why.
My bestfriend is a Scorpio. We’ve known each other for over 20 years, since we were in elementary school. We had a love hate relationship when we were young, but most people disliked her. I love her. She’s always there for me and is one of the few people I open up to and tell everything to. But sometimes she annoys me. She’s too controlling over certain things, and I’m also a control freak. Sometimes she’s way too intense and I’m more chill. So sometimes I have to distance myself from her to recoup.
Either bad sex, he got bored with you, or he’s fucking other girls
Posted by starlordYes!!Posted by 8thHouseeExactly!!! Fwb's - one or both will do things, that blur the lines or feel things that blur lines.Posted by Sag898I wouldn’t mind... if we weren’t fwb’s lol. I later found out that he had feelings for me. Now it all makes sensePosted by 8thHouseeMy pisces would ask me to do that and he would to me. It was adorable
Hmmm let’s see
My Sag fwb wanted me to tell him I loved him during sex, and would ask me to bring him food and pick him up when he was drunk. I declined all 🙄click to expand
Posted by Sag898I wouldn’t mind... if we weren’t fwb’s lol. I later found out that he had feelings for me. Now it all makes sensePosted by 8thHouseeMy pisces would ask me to do that and he would to me. It was adorable
Hmmm let’s see
My Sag fwb wanted me to tell him I loved him during sex, and would ask me to bring him food and pick him up when he was drunk. I declined all 🙄click to expand
Hmmm let’s see
My Sag fwb wanted me to tell him I loved him during sex, and would ask me to bring him food and pick him up when he was drunk. I declined all 🙄
My Sag fwb wanted me to tell him I loved him during sex, and would ask me to bring him food and pick him up when he was drunk. I declined all 🙄
Ugh those placements are similar to my ex 😖 except he has cancer Mars and aqua rising. I’m also a Taurus. We had the same Venus and mars signs too. It didn’t end well
Sorry 🤷🏻♀️ We give no fucks
Posted by BlueMarshmallowYup. My bro also has an out of sign aspect. Pisces sun square Taurus moon. Wonder if my other brother has the samePosted by 8thHouseeOut of sign aspect.Posted by BlueMarshmallowTaurus sun squaring cancer moonPosted by 8thHouseeWhat are your placements?
Yup sun square moon. I have it lolclick to expand
Lol do you have mars square Uranus?
Posted by ASCoppVenusI’m assuming it would be squarePosted by EllygantWhich one is harder, square or opposite? I have sun opposition moon....
Outer self versus inner self.
Sun is ego, personality expressed.
Moon is the inner conscious, personality felt.
Venus is the style is which you appreciate, romance, favorites/ style , receptivity.
Sun square moon means that the type of person you feel you are is often at odds with the type of person you’d naturally like to be.click to expand
Posted by Mujer_latinaIt’s definitely difficult. I feel like I’m constantly at war with myself. I’ve suffered from depression and anxiety since I was 15. I always felt unloved by my parents, and still do. I strive to be extremely successful because to me that’s my revenge on the world, and that’s how I wanna prove myself. In relationships, my needs and wants are never really aligned. I know someone’s bad for me, but I want them anyway. I push away the people I need in my life. And it’s confusing because I need people who are nurturing but I hate being nurtured lol I feel smothered, so I end up isolating myself so they’ll leave me alone. It’s complicated. 🙄Posted by 8thHouseeand how is it? difficult af?
Yup sun square moon. I have it lolclick to expand
Posted by BlueMarshmallowTaurus sun squaring cancer moonPosted by 8thHouseeWhat are your placements?
Yup sun square moon. I have it lolclick to expand
Yup sun square moon. I have it lol
Posted by Arielle83Ahh I get you. I was interested. I’ve always had a crush on him, but never pursued him because I was hung up on my ex, plus I don’t like making the first move lolPosted by 8thHouseeLike you’re talking about him being interested in you. Or your friend telling you you should go for it.https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/% 20?id=11348606">Posted by Arielle83What do you mean?
Sounds like you’re just going along the ride cuz other ppl are telling you to.
Why
If these things weren’t said, would you even be interested?
You gotta go after what you want. Not what ppl think you should have.click to expand
lol my ex! Taurus sun/Virgo moon male. Straight up would do things to piss me off and get a reaction. Such a passive-aggressive little bitch. I blame his cancer mars lol
Posted by Sag898
The reason scorpio's are popular is because they are truly the only desirable water sign lol
Lmao 😂
I can’t fake it even if I tried
Any insight or experiences with this? I know how it is in synastry, but don’t see much on it in composite.
Posted by tctaapYeah this is straight bullshit. Now I don’t trust him. Good riddancePosted by 8thHouseesome might like the games but I don't - I like it straight up - be real or go home
Update: Lol this guy is SO petty. I never responded or opened his message, and he posted an old pic on his IG story of himself, some girl, and my exes ex (the girl he cheated on me with) hahaha it’s hilarious. I know he’s just posting it to get a reaction out of me. Wtf is wrong with guys? 😂 now I’m really not gonna text back.click to expand
Polly pocket 😂😂😂
Update: Lol this guy is SO petty. I never responded or opened his message, and he posted an old pic on his IG story of himself, some girl, and my exes ex (the girl he cheated on me with) hahaha it’s hilarious. I know he’s just posting it to get a reaction out of me. Wtf is wrong with guys? 😂 now I’m really not gonna text back.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/% 20?id=11348606">Posted by Arielle83What do you mean?
Sounds like you’re just going along the ride cuz other ppl are telling you to.
Why
Posted by EllygantI completely agree with everything you said. He has to work for it if he really wants to make it up to me. I let people off so easy, but I’ve told myself that I’m gonna change this habit because I’m sick of people taking advantage. I still haven’t replied. I’ll reply when I feel like it and decide what I’m gonna do. Idk how long that’ll be but he can wait lol.Posted by 8thHouseeNah. That so disrespectful.
So he messaged me back last night. The last thing I sent was “did you get my text?”. He replied, “yeah, I got it... sorry don’t be mad at me. Long story, but I’ll make it up to you ❤️“ 🙄 I don’t know if I’m gonna reply. Maybe I will but not today.
What is you’re sign OP?
Not saying he can’t come back or make it up to you. But he will use your back as a welcome mat if you let him off easy.
He needs to make it right ASAP. And you need to do absolutely nothing in order for him to do so. ‘Don’t be mad’ is language people use to avoid responsibility. Subversive way to deflect your feelings. If he was sorry he should say ‘I know you’re mad and I deserve it. But I have a plan to make it up to you if you’re willing.’
Even then he needs to be on ice for a week or so before you decide to continue or not.click to expand
I’m a Taurus sun, Virgo rising, cancer moon/mars, Venus Gemini. I just realized Our suns, moons, and Venus are all in opposite signs lol 😩
So he messaged me back last night. The last thing I sent was “did you get my text?”. He replied, “yeah, I got it... sorry don’t be mad at me. Long story, but I’ll make it up to you ❤️“ 🙄 I don’t know if I’m gonna reply. Maybe I will but not today.
Posted by tctaapVery!!Posted by 8thHouseewhatever game he think he playing - it's twistedPosted by tctaapNo updates really. He hasn’t read the message I sent on sat on IG, but he looks at my IG stories and snaps 🙄 I feel like he’s just trying to get some kind of reaction out of me.
he's the loser - so strange and that sucks - keep us posted - any updates ?click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvHorrible. He cheated on me with his ex right after I helped him out with his bro’s funeral. He knew how much my ex hurt me, so i assumed he would at least be nice to me or treat me well because he knows about everything that happened and even said he thinks my ex is dumb for treating me like shit.
Mmm how did the break up with your ex go.
He might not want want to entertain you
Posted by EllygantI’m usually very detached, but I figure I’d open up more and chase a little since I’m comfortable with him. Now I totally regret it. I usually don’t chase and I don’t show emotion so early on. I think that’s why I’m even more pissed. I opened up a side of me that not many see, and you just respond by not responding 🤬Posted by saggurl88
Don't ignore him or move on, I was with a Scorpio Sun/ Sag Venus - He liked doing this type of shit for a reaction out of me. Act like nothing happened and then he will offer again. Tell him not to waste your time asking if he's not gonna show up. Mine cancelled a few times before I ended up going off on him, He always used to say he can't make it because of other stuff that was more important and that I shouldn't be mad. smh They like you chasing them a little.
I haven’t had that experience with Scorp dudes. Even with sag venus. They were always on it with communication. Even being casual. And they never made plans that they flaked on later. Even the ones I dated with strictly casual intent.
Now one of the sag venus would occasionally try to get a reaction outta me. Mention other girls hitting on him, wanting him etc. Scorp men in my experience like reciprocation more than being chased. They’re assholes about girls that chase them. Another Scorp sun/sag venus Guy friend routinely knocks girls that chase him and says he prefers a woman that is more detached, makes him have to work. He has an earth moon tho. And earth moons do so love to earn affection.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88See, at least he cancelled with you. This dude didn’t even reply to my text but watches all my snaps and IG stories, yet he’s supposed to be my “friend” 🙄Posted by 8thHouseePosted by saggurl88He would completely ignore you?? Wtf is up with that lol
Don't ignore him or move on, I was with a Scorpio Sun/ Sag Venus - He liked doing this type of shit for a reaction out of me. Act like nothing happened and then he will offer again. Tell him not to waste your time asking if he's not gonna show up. Mine cancelled a few times before I ended up going off on him, He always used to say he can't make it because of other stuff that was more important and that I shouldn't be mad. smh They like you chasing them a little.
No he wouldn’t ignore me. He would make plans and cancel cause he knew I was excited to see him. He liked seeing me upset. We worked together though so I saw him the next day after he canceled lolclick to expand
Posted by EllygantExactly. I’m just so confused ugh. I don’t understand the point of even making a move. Being in the moment at a party is one thing, but continuing it after is when I’m like wtfPosted by 8thHouseeYeah i mean he has kinda already messed up the friendship now. A responsible friend would have at least backed out saying ‘I still wanna be friends but I can’t explore dating with you.’Posted by EllygantYou’re right. I’m really bummed about it because I thought he’d at least respect me enough to apologize or cancel since we’re friends... just sucks. He hurt my feelings. I’ve just been quiet. I’m not planning on hitting him up. I just don’t like when people fuck with my emotions
He’s not serious. Not a good investment.
All that hemming and hawing wouldn’t be there if he was serious about wanting something with you. And he definitely wouldn’t flake.
Maybe he’s not ready to define things. Maybe he is kicking around the idea of seeing others. Maybe he is worried how it will affect his friendship with your ex. Maybe he is just insecure.
Point is, he did not make time for you and couldn’t spend a few seconds to hammer out an apology or make a point to reschedule.
I’ve never gone from friends to hooking up with a Scorp dude. But I have done the reverse once. The guy was chill and understood. Didn’t brood or ignore me. When they respect you they make a point to be clear in communication, as friends or anything else.click to expand
Posted by tctaapNo updates really. He hasn’t read the message I sent on sat on IG, but he looks at my IG stories and snaps 🙄 I feel like he’s just trying to get some kind of reaction out of me.
he's the loser - so strange and that sucks - keep us posted - any updates ?
Posted by saggurl88He would completely ignore you?? Wtf is up with that lol
Don't ignore him or move on, I was with a Scorpio Sun/ Sag Venus - He liked doing this type of shit for a reaction out of me. Act like nothing happened and then he will offer again. Tell him not to waste your time asking if he's not gonna show up. Mine cancelled a few times before I ended up going off on him, He always used to say he can't make it because of other stuff that was more important and that I shouldn't be mad. smh They like you chasing them a little.
Posted by EllygantYou’re right. I’m really bummed about it because I thought he’d at least respect me enough to apologize or cancel since we’re friends... just sucks. He hurt my feelings. I’ve just been quiet. I’m not planning on hitting him up. I just don’t like when people fuck with my emotions
He’s not serious. Not a good investment.
All that hemming and hawing wouldn’t be there if he was serious about wanting something with you. And he definitely wouldn’t flake.
Maybe he’s not ready to define things. Maybe he is kicking around the idea of seeing others. Maybe he is worried how it will affect his friendship with your ex. Maybe he is just insecure.
Point is, he did not make time for you and couldn’t spend a few seconds to hammer out an apology or make a point to reschedule.
Anyone? 😩
Had mine pierced. That shit takes way too long to heal. One got infected, and I had to remove it. The other I kept on for 3 years, but recently removed it. Now it’s closed. I have to say that was the most paintful piercing I’ve had, and I’ve had over 19 piercings.
Mars in cancer in 10th
Just take some 5-HTP the next day
I’m so pissed off. Ugh! I’ll try to make it short but I have this friend who’s a Scorpio/cap moon man, and last week at a party he kissed me. I never had a clue that he liked me at all and we’ve been friends for 4 years. We made out for a while, and he admitted that he’s always liked me even though I was with my ex (his friend also), and that he was jealous of my ex because he got to date me, and that he’s always wanted to tell me but was nervous. We had dinner a couple months back, and he said he was actually planning on making a move back then.
Anyway, that was that. Since then, we’ve talked everyday. I told him that my friend said I should date or hook up with him, and he said he wouldn’t mind that idea. And I asked him if he meant hook up or date. He said that we’ll most likely end up together after the hook up, and that he’s scared to completely lose me. I think he meant as a friend because he said if we ever stopped being friends after it would bother him a lot.
I asked him (on wednesday) if he wanted to have dinner today, and he said yes and asked if it was a “date”. I just told him he could call if whatever he wanted. He said yeah and I said we should meet at 7 and he agreed.
Yesterday we were texting and he was opening up telling me how he can’t get enough of me, and that he’s glad he made a move, and he thought I was going to reject him.
So, we were supposed to have our date today. I texted him, no answer. Messaged on IG, no answer, even tho I see he’s active. Wtf is up with that??? I’m super confused as to what happened. Seemed like everything was cool yesterday. Is he playing games? Is he just bored? What do you think? He’s a Scorp sun and merc, cap moon, Sag Venus, Libra mars.
Anyway, that was that. Since then, we’ve talked everyday. I told him that my friend said I should date or hook up with him, and he said he wouldn’t mind that idea. And I asked him if he meant hook up or date. He said that we’ll most likely end up together after the hook up, and that he’s scared to completely lose me. I think he meant as a friend because he said if we ever stopped being friends after it would bother him a lot.
I asked him (on wednesday) if he wanted to have dinner today, and he said yes and asked if it was a “date”. I just told him he could call if whatever he wanted. He said yeah and I said we should meet at 7 and he agreed.
Yesterday we were texting and he was opening up telling me how he can’t get enough of me, and that he’s glad he made a move, and he thought I was going to reject him.
So, we were supposed to have our date today. I texted him, no answer. Messaged on IG, no answer, even tho I see he’s active. Wtf is up with that??? I’m super confused as to what happened. Seemed like everything was cool yesterday. Is he playing games? Is he just bored? What do you think? He’s a Scorp sun and merc, cap moon, Sag Venus, Libra mars.