Message Posts by AQUAFAIRY
O.k What does it mean when a scorpio says you are under his skin? (i am only asking because you scorpios are so vague and mysterious!!!)
Thank you all for showing me much love!! You sure know how to make an "old" woman smile!
It's my big "30th" Birthday just wanted to share it (in case anyone cares) smile!!!
Just FYI what he is doing is intentionally messing with your mind by being contradictory so you will get pissed off and lose control then he laughs at your behavior to further piss you off.....don't play into an aqua's trap (i know cause im an aqua and we are masters at head games) just laugh him off when he gets contradictory and even agree and watch the tables turn so fast. He'll learn his lesson for sure. We aquas only respect people who stand up to our foolishness (although we'll never admit it) well best of luck.....you'll need it. smile
yeah we have a habit of wanting what we can't have...it's like a game for us and if he should get you back then he'll just start the old behavior again...we are really twisted like that we love to win but once we do we lose interest...hmmm (scratches head)lol
Ha Ha Ha this is so true im an aquarian female and guilty of this myself....i think it has to do with us not being comfortable with emotions so when we start to catch feelings we run away and distance ourselves because we will never become prisoner of our emotions we love control too much and we also have a deep fear of rejection.
It seems to me that you want more of a commitment from him but i think you need to have patience (definitely with an aqua) and let him come around ( they always do). He is just going through that aquarian "aloofness" that's all don't make more out of it than it is or then you will have a problem.....also word to the wise if you say you're not jealous of this ex and you may not be quit wasting energy on trying to make her look bad that only feeds into her actions....oh well hope it all works out!
Gemini= good communication, very witty and intelligent but better as a "friends with benefit" relationship
Libra= great communication, loyalty and great long term relationship
Aquarius=out of the world mental stimulation (I believe the only person to match your wits) understanding (and we know as aquas something very hard if not impossible to find) and out of the world, mind blowing sex (cause we both FREAKS) but the downside is being able to be figured out (we hate that) and there could be some serious detachment at times.
Overall I think on the strong aquarian men should date a female aqua but with patience and understanding this could definitely be the "ultimate" experience. lol
Libra= great communication, loyalty and great long term relationship
Aquarius=out of the world mental stimulation (I believe the only person to match your wits) understanding (and we know as aquas something very hard if not impossible to find) and out of the world, mind blowing sex (cause we both FREAKS) but the downside is being able to be figured out (we hate that) and there could be some serious detachment at times.
Overall I think on the strong aquarian men should date a female aqua but with patience and understanding this could definitely be the "ultimate" experience. lol
LOL it may be "stupid" to you and we all have a right to our opinion but i was just wandering why would you even bother the keystrokes to comment if that's how you feel...........interesting?
Hey question for all you scorpio men. Do you like biting your partner during sex? If so why and what do you get from it?
Yes i really do believe i am a better friend than lover. As a friend i am open and less critical. As a lover i think i have this idea of a great love so i put my mate on a pedastal only to be shattered by reality i put too much pressure on my love relationships than i do my friendships.
I need help from all you capricorns to try and figure out this cap man of mine. We've been dating for 3 mos now and things started off pretty intense and he was calling all the time but here lately he has been acting a little more distant and not calling as much. However I am an aquarian and not to good on emotions and trusting so i like to test my mate and i did this by asking for the passcode to his cell phone voice mail and he gave it to me so i don't know what that means. How could he trust me enough for that and then act so nonchalant and indifferent at times. (that really bothers me cause i'm the one who ususally acts indifferent being an aquarius and all lol) I can't read this man.....is he into me? That is the question.
Hey any insight to Capricorn male with venus in Scorpio?
Why do Scorpio men have trouble with verbalizing how they feel? I have been involved with a scorp (off/on) for almost 5 years, the passion is very intense and the mental connection is outta the world but emotionally we have trouble communicating. When we do talk about feelings he always says he can't describe what it is we have together or if i make an assumption to how he feels he will say you're so right in so many ways. He has a very hard time with the 3 words "I love you" he says why would it matter to hear some words when i'm still around or he will say that he expects people to know how he feels after so long. I am an aqua and i too have a problem with being emotional but sometimes i need to hear the words to be reassured. We have been getting really close lately and he has said that he does trust me but my question is why is it so hard for him to verbalize his feelings? Any thoughts?
Hey i'm an aqua (female) myself and yes we are pretty moody and no we don't tend to like a lot of affection being said if you are an affectionate person then if you adjust yourself to his likes and ignore your needs this is not a good idea because later on down the road you might resent doing so. I will tell you we are frank and we admire candid people (we'll never tell you that though) but we respect when others stand their ground so if you really feel strong about affection and you really dig your aqua man then just let him know upfront and he will probably meet you halfway (even though we hardly ever compromise cause we fixed) but if we really like someone we want to make them happy (even if we dont say it) so just a tidbit of advice.
its all in his eyes and his kiss yes definitely the kiss smile!
Yes if your scorp is into you and trust you he is definitely sharing with you his secrets. He does not let everyone into his inner world only a chosen few so like scorpionlady said you need to pick up on when he is sharing his secrets (hint: most likely in an intimate encounter). Scorps want you to be perceptive and read their minds since they do this so well to others.
Where there is jealousy there is not love. Jealousy stems from insecurity love stems from trust (the unconditional kind). You can't make a person love you and you can't stop them from leaving you and truthfully how can you enjoy love if all you do is spend your time trying to control it with manipulation. Food for thought. LOL
You're definitely on the right track with your scorp man if he says he loves you he means it and know that it took alot out of him to even say it. Scorps do not want to be hurt so they tend to mask their feelings by being very nonchalant about emotions but underneath that exterior lies a tender man yearning to be loved and secure. That's sort of the problem with the aqua/scorp combo cause both have trouble with hiding their true feelings in fear of rejection. So with maturity, understanding of the other, and open communication this can really work and in my opinion be one of the most strongest couples around. I am an aqua girl and was in love with a scorp male and even though the feeling was there we both played too many games hiding our feelings until it was too late (i guess it wasn't our time). So my advice to you is "on your mind out your mouth" and don't let that sexy creature get away smile!
Im an aqua girl currently dating a cap guy and its early on so im still trying to figure him out. I really like him but before i take a leap i got to dip my foot in the shallow waters so i'm always holding back analyzing his actions and words so maybe that's whats going on with your aqua guy. "Silence is golden" when we aquas pull away its not always a bad thing we just try to look at everything logically and at a distance so we can sum up if the risk is worth taking. So if i were you i would not worry, apply no pressure and exhale. We aquas are very complex but believe me the wait is worth it cause when we do give ourselves it is indeed all or nothing. But please enlighten me on you cappys i reaally want this to work with this guy!
Your scorp is very sensitive and with scorps sex and love are a package deal cause they are not really good with verbalizing how they feel they do that with sex so if he feels you don't initiate it enough he probably thinks that you dont love him (scorps can be very paranoid) so just reassure him of your love and if it isn't a huge sacrifice initiate sex once in awhile and believe me you'll be glad you did cause that volcano of emotions will explode LOL
Dated an aqua man once and i would say they are very difficult to understand and they master in head games but remember this saying when dealing with an aqua guy "if you can't beat em join em" that is soooo true (i'm an aqua girl) so if he doesnt call for a week you don't call for two, if he is being contradictory or sarcastic, laugh it'll burn him up!!! Eventually you will have him trying to figure you out and then thats when he's hooked cause we aquas never leave a puzzle unfinished. GOOD LUCK and may the force be with you!!!! (smile)
My baby daddy is a scorp (LOL) and i'm an aqua. Can't live with him can't live without him so if you are up to a love/hate relationship go ahead. I will say this though that was the most passionate and intense relationship i ever experienced. When we were good we were oh so good but when it got bad well you guess it. (smile) Also there's a 12year age gap so maybe some of our fights were due to my immaturity not being able to handle his intense possessive force i guess but I really admire him and we get along great raising our daughter. So good luck!!!!
sounds like to me she likes the convenience of you being available to her on HER time. (we aquas can be selfish at times) But she enjoys talking to you and she obviously feels comfortable telling you about her break up but be very careful not to misread her she is probably so caught up in her own pain (there's that selfish thing again) that she isn't aware of how you feel. So my advice to you is either cut her off, limit your availability or be upfront and tell her how you feel.
Your aqua man seems to be relunctant to jump into a committment especially since he was very close to making the ultimate committment and things went sour. Be patient and give him space if it's meant to be trust, aquas are very intuitive and know when things are right (i'm an aqua myself) he will come to you and even share the details of his past hurt in due time. We are so hard to love because when we do love (not that often) we love very hard and our secret most greatest fear is that of rejection. So my advice is to be very gentle he's very sensitive even if he hides it. He is probably gauging you also when he says it's ok for you to see others just to see if you are really into him. Don't ask but we can be very twisted at times. LOl
Hi all,
I am new to this but i just wanted to get some insight on this cap man of mine. We have been seeing each other for about a month but my feelings are rather strong very unexpectedly. I am an aquarius female who is usually detached and aloof in this "love" thing but he has totally caught me off guard. I have never dated another cap and would like to find out more about him and his personality. He makes me feel so beautiful and he is so attentive, i just love when my phone lights up and its him. I know its too soon in the game but he just might be the one? Oh by the way he's slightly younger than me i'm 29 almost 30 in feb and he won't be 29 til late december, i've never dated anyone younger so thats also new. Oh well don't mean to ramble but we aquas can be scatter brained sometimes. lol
P.S. Almost forgot my most important question. How can you tell if your Capricorn is really feeling you? Any insight would be greatly appreciated. Thanks all!!!
I am new to this but i just wanted to get some insight on this cap man of mine. We have been seeing each other for about a month but my feelings are rather strong very unexpectedly. I am an aquarius female who is usually detached and aloof in this "love" thing but he has totally caught me off guard. I have never dated another cap and would like to find out more about him and his personality. He makes me feel so beautiful and he is so attentive, i just love when my phone lights up and its him. I know its too soon in the game but he just might be the one? Oh by the way he's slightly younger than me i'm 29 almost 30 in feb and he won't be 29 til late december, i've never dated anyone younger so thats also new. Oh well don't mean to ramble but we aquas can be scatter brained sometimes. lol
P.S. Almost forgot my most important question. How can you tell if your Capricorn is really feeling you? Any insight would be greatly appreciated. Thanks all!!!